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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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All aboard the Feb bus, as we finally take off

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Blue500 · 31/01/2015 10:28

New bus ladies, bring on those Bfp's! Smile

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loopylou1984 · 05/02/2015 20:06

I am with you all on the cervix thing - no idea what I'm feeling for! Lol... And have never come across the opening! Think I'll stick with temping!

Purdey - I'm ok thanks, just waiting for it to hurry up and be ov time!
My scans 27th April unless I move it as fairly sure I'll have af on that day... So possibly the week before. It feels SOOO far away! Almost 3 whole cycles to go before I see the specialist again. Xx

TarkaTheOtter · 05/02/2015 20:11

I'm cd21 and no idea if I've ovulated yet. Can't temp as don't get a solid block of sleep due to two poor sleepers. I'm trying to check for ewcm but finding it tricky to tell. Pre ds I had 30 day cycles but I only stopped bfing last month so maybe they are still messed up. Getting a bit fed up with dtd eod now!

Sparkly123 · 05/02/2015 20:17

This cervix chat is hilarious!

Purdey if you were me... Would you AI Tomor again? Do you think we are covered enough? No AI today

MaMaPo · 05/02/2015 20:19

Morning all! We're on the last page of the thread already!

Hi dozy! Glad everything is going well for you. Thanks for popping in.

So today I am 6, 7 or 8dpo, depending on if you believe ff or Purdey! No symptoms whatsoever. If to get some more prog bloods done this morning.

I've never bothered looking for my cervix. I'm sure it's there somewhere.

spinningirl10 · 05/02/2015 20:20

Yep I'm oldGrin same age as you Purdey.
I was reading earlier that Cameron Diaz wants a baby, she's 43 and Halle Berry had her second child at 44 I think......there's hope for us yetGrin

spinningirl10 · 05/02/2015 20:23

Sparkly, I think if dh is up for it and you're well enough then yes I would but then I would dtd daily if it was up to me Wink

Sparkly123 · 05/02/2015 20:24

If Cameron and Halle can Spinning course you can!!!!

Sparkly123 · 05/02/2015 20:26

Spinning I'm struggling not to be sick and my head has been killing me so doped up on painkillers so honestly I'm not up to it!! I just hope we have done enough before.. I hate missing the chance tonight but feel I have to I think!

MarysPrayer · 05/02/2015 20:27

purdey I'm still waiting for ov (cd 11, ov around cd12-14 I think) AND I'm an oldish bird too (37). Good to have company while in the boring half of our cycle Smile

Congrats to hide good to see bfp and bf aren't mutually exclusive!

MarysPrayer · 05/02/2015 20:28

Flowers and Cake for sparkly. Migraines are truly horrid.

Sparkly123 · 05/02/2015 20:30

Thanks Mary it's more of a normal headache now thankfully but rotten through the night and earlier.not long until OV for you!

Rainy34 · 05/02/2015 20:34

Dozy time has gone so quick, can't get over that you are 13 weeks already ,thanks for coming back for reassurance.

Well the brown spotting has kicked up a bit, its just when i wipe, think AF will be due on Sunday, so that would be three days before af starts that the spotting i would say has started, a day later than last month i guess, feel really deflated and down today so thats another indication the bitch is on its way, feel like throwing all my pills and fertility monitor out and going back on the pill, as its starting to piss me right off that i want a baby so much and other can get pregnant just be sneezing, had a good old cry today on one of my close friends told her how i felt and she told me to give myself a good slap and stop worrying, think I'm going to try and get a doctor appointment and see what i can do, i know i can't get referred to fertility clinic until may or june, just don't know if i have the fight anymore!!

Wishing123 · 05/02/2015 20:49

Bought a clearblue do you think it's best to rest in the morning? I cnt wait lol xxx

Wishing123 · 05/02/2015 20:49

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mummyofonesofar · 05/02/2015 20:51

Giddymumma thanks. Have completed the survey. I've not bought opks. Am quite in sync with my body so didn't want to waste money but would do a clinical trial.

My cervix sits really low most of the time. And have seen it when checking my scarred lumps at opening bloody childbirth and it rally does look like a circumcised bellend.

No nipple hairs here it so feb up of chin ones!

mummyofonesofar · 05/02/2015 20:53

Oops should check spelling - ya know what I mean!!!

spinningirl10 · 05/02/2015 20:56

Sparkly, As you're feeling so rotten I wouldn't either. I was hoping for a one for luck session but dp has had to go to to Manchester so he won't be home until 4am ish and I've got to be up early for work so There's no chance! We've given it our best shot this monthWink

Rainy, I'm sorry you're spotting and feeling so down. Please don't give up but do go and speak to your gp if you're struggling. You will get your baby, sometimes it just takes that little bit longer. We are all here when you want to moan or need support Thanks

Allthefours · 05/02/2015 20:56

purdey we have taken a fairly relaxed approach to TTC, I've very stupidly naively expected it to just happen as did when I was in my early 20's).

Since my last successful pregnancies (15years ago) I've been diagnosed with PCOS, my ovulation and cycles are random and pretty much anyone's guess. Since my MC in August my cycles have been 56 days, 43 days, 29 days and now currently on CD34. The last 3 cycles I have taken soy, not successful but the cycles are shortening which was part of the plan.

Not had any tests yet, DH only really decided he wanted a baby when I MC the last 2. So whilst I count the 2+ years we have used zero contraception, actively TTC has probably been the last 12 months. I think I will try for 1 more month then start asking for medical support - but I always thought that it would be pointless because I already have kids plus I'm too old to be helped! I really know very little about the whole TTC. I have no idea what DHEA is or what tests I should be asking for.

I think I'm possibly around 9/10 dpo by monitoring CM, ov pains and general cycle. I haven't got so obsessed with temping yet and OPK don't always work with PCOS.

I'd love this month to be our month, I'm not overly optimistic though, have period pains/cramps so expecting AF to make an appearance so holding off testing for a few more days.

In a nutshell, I'll be sticking around for a while, as they say it ain't over til its over!

spinningirl10 · 05/02/2015 20:57

Wishing you really should wait for fmu but I think you should poas nowGrin

Wishing123 · 05/02/2015 21:01

I really want to but it just cost me 9 quid n if it's negatives will be convinced im stil preg but didn't use morning wee lol..is it accurate enought to be a positive tho if I was preg cx

Giddymamma · 05/02/2015 21:01

Aw good stuff mummy, wanted to contribute to this lovely page but don't chart as ds doesn't sleep so I'm not a fat lot of use to most people!
Aw rainy, it's tough. Stay on the bus. Xxx
Wait til tomorrow wishing! But pee really early and post immediately. I will be up from about six so around then is ideal. :)

spinningirl10 · 05/02/2015 21:13

When is af due Wishing? Ooh yes I'll be up at 6 so if you wait till morning make sure it's bright and early Grin

Rainy34 · 05/02/2015 21:16

Thanks Spinning and Giddy, i won't leave, I just need to pick myself back up, il be ok in a day or so!!!

Wishing123 · 05/02/2015 21:19

I'm on cd34 so I'm pretty sure im late n yea I think il probs be awake early as il be too excited hahaxx

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