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The December 2014 bus is here armed with mulled wine, mince pies, mistletoe and a sack-full of BFPs

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Cariad2014 · 02/10/2014 11:32

This bus is for anyone ttc hoping to get a BFP in December.

I know it's super early, but as I'm currently on a 2 month enforced break from ttc following a ruptured ectopic, December is the next bus I can catch.

Do feel free to come and join me on the journey.

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photographerlady · 22/11/2014 08:42

And welcome glitter. I do hate also how all my AF symptoms are also pregnancy ones. My body is so cruel to me

loopylou1984 · 22/11/2014 08:44

Congratulations Mel! Am hoping this is the start of a run of good luck for this bus!
Does anyone here temp? I'm doing it for the first time this month (cycle 13??) and haven't seen a significant temp rise yet but got a peak result on cb dual hormone detector on Thursday... Thoughts?

hc899 · 22/11/2014 08:55

Congrats Mel! Tessiegirl I think I'm having similar issues to you at the moment -I'm on CD12 and 4th day of CB high fertility but not hit peak yet. Funny how it all happens - last month I went straight from no fertility on CD14 to peak on CD15!

Blueskygirl30 · 22/11/2014 09:31

Congratulations Mel!!!

MissMrs I had an ad like that pop up just after AF arrived a couple of months ago, I was not impressed!! The scan just showed a bulge in my uterus lining which would be there if I'm in early stages of pregnancy but also if I've just been pregnant and lost it. So I won't really know anything until Monday morning when they call with the test results. For now I'll just keep on using up the 8 FRERs I bought in the Boots offer! Blush

HariboBrenshnio · 22/11/2014 09:36

Hi ladies, can I jump over from the November bus?
I has a MMC 3.5 weeks ago so I'm in my WTF cycle. My body showed signs of ovulation on Wednesday/Thursday but have been DTD since 2 weeks post just incase! No OPKs or temping, will dep next cycle. I'll test on December 4th although if this was a normal cycle AF would be due november 26th.
I had really vivid dreams last night that I usually only get when I'm pregnant, they started this early last time before my BFP too. I'm constantly swinging between, 'Yey I could be pregnant!' and 'stop getting your hopes up'.
Will go back and read all your stories/news.
Congratulations to those with BFP already!

Dozygirl · 22/11/2014 10:43

Yey congrats melly. Great start to the bfps. What's your stats?

bluesky enjoy all the poas!

runaway have fun in Dublin and the extra sleep! (Bet u still wake up early though but at least u can stay in bed). I'd love to go to dublin one day.

Dozygirl · 22/11/2014 10:45

Oh and I experimented today with my temp. I took it as soon as I woke up and again after a 10minute snooze and it was exactly the same thing. It might be different if u snooze for maybe an hour. I'll keep experimenting and see.

mellyjo · 22/11/2014 11:23

Hi Dozygirl, what stats do you want to know? I would have written my whole story but I joined the bus late, just loving how nice and supportive you have all been when I needed you even though ive only been here a short time :) x

tessiegirl · 22/11/2014 12:01

Hello ladies!!
Welcome to the newbies.

Bluesky fx crossed for good news, what a nervous time for you.

Huge congrats Mel Fab news Grin

sam - Just regarding temping - have you been taking your temp at the same time before you get up each morning and after at least 3 hours of uninterrupted sleep? Or could it be possible that you sleep with your mouth open as this can affect the readings. For me, last cycle I got my first temp rise the day after my second peak day. This then continued to rise for the following few days which ff confirmed as ovulation. Hope this helps?

hc899 - I'm CD12 today and got 5th day of high on CB ov test this morning!! I am feeling crampy and had a bit of EWCM last night though so hoping ovulation may be on its way!!

Dozygirl · 22/11/2014 12:43

How long you've been trying, anything you've been taking to help, any symptoms :) it's nice hearing about all the positive sides to this ttc malarkey :)

mellyjo · 22/11/2014 13:08

Im 25 partner is 25, we have been trying to conceive for 7months. I only have 23-24 days cycle so was worried that would make it very hard to conceive as my luteal phase is very short and i don't know when I ovulate. I haven't tried anything speical, but this month we used no form of lubrication or saliva as I read that can affect sperm.... But apart from that I think I was just more relaxed and happier this month, not sure it made a difference but I finally got my BFP so I would say be possitive it will happen :)

MissMrsMummy · 22/11/2014 14:42

So sorry about your mmc haribo and hope your cycle settles down soon

mel huge congratulations! glad you've got a nice clear line this morning. It's great that you got your bfp with short cycles and LP - you have given me hope! My cycle is also usually 24 ish days and short LP. Well done!

bluesky sorry you're hanging but hope the bulge turns out to be a nice little bean that sticks xxx

beautician my AF has been so horrible this week as well. With a few late nights at work added in I have been feeling pretty yuck. Bit of shopping today has helped!

photographerlady · 22/11/2014 16:39

Sorry to hear about you MC haribo

MaGratgarlik1983 · 22/11/2014 18:37

Sorry to hear your news haribo but welcome!

Congrats mel!! Here's to a happy and healthy nine months :)

I'm on CD16-17 today and Ovia can't make it's mind up but I think I've already ovulated...got confused as couldn't read the ov tests that well a few days ago and thought they were negative but looking at the ones now the test line is much lighter than it was a few days ago...confusing!! Also had some pain the other day like being poked in the side with a stick then further down in my ovaries - could this be ov pain?? Also had sore lower back...It's odd as I've always had strong positives on the babymad strips but these are a different brand and don't seem as good.

Have a stinking cold now (as does DH) and we were so tired but as this is my fertile point this month we just managed to DTD! Twice!! V happy! Trying to be much more relaxed and positive this month :) Fell asleep afterwards! Anyway ladies, am off to watch Strictly with some grape juice in a wine glass that I'm pretending is wine. Have good evenings everyone!

victoria401 · 22/11/2014 19:10

Sorry to hear your news haribo :-(

After a weeks worth of cramps and feeling crap pre af, cd3 today and I've already stopped bleeding! Now a week of normal living before ov watch begins again!

CoffeeTwo · 22/11/2014 19:52

Hello! Hopping on if I may. I'm on CD1 today and have long cycles so I'm here for the long haul.

CoffeeTwo, 31, ttc #2, cycle 5, bfp due 25th December!

MissMrsMummy · 22/11/2014 20:07

victoria I'm so jealous! Cd5 here and still bleeding! Envy

HairStylistToBoris · 22/11/2014 20:07

Coffee - oh now that would be an awesom Christmas pressie. Keeping fx for you.

I'm using opks this month for the first time and got my first ever positive for LH.... Exciting. DH and I have been struggling with flu. He's suffering loudly this weekend and told me I'm allowed to dtd with him this weekend if I do all the work... Last of the old romantics.

MissMrsMummy · 22/11/2014 20:07

Welcome coffee!

HairStylistToBoris · 22/11/2014 20:08

The things I share with MN!!!!!

MissMrsMummy · 22/11/2014 20:08

Ha ha! Have fun hairstylist!

BeauticianNotMagician81 · 22/11/2014 21:54

Coffee snap I have long cycles too. Usually 31 days but this month was 36. So going off that I will test on Christmas Day as well of af hasn't arrived Smile

CoffeeTwo · 22/11/2014 23:50

Thanks for the welcome ladies!

hair I'm hoping it won't bring me down too much if AF arrives for Christmas but at least if she does I can drown my sorrows in Christmas booze Grin try and enjoy your fluey dtd this weekend!

beaut hello cycle buddy! Mine seem to be between 34 - 38 days which can be irritating when ttc and you feel like every day counts! I trying to stay chilled, at least December keeps me busy and distracted.

Treaclepie19 · 23/11/2014 00:30

Just hopping back on as I lost you all x

MaMaPo · 23/11/2014 04:42

Hello everyone. Sounds like we're all gearing up for a successful December.

Is anyone else embarking on the dreaded TWW? I think I am probably 1 or 2 dpo, just waiting for FF to confirm it. I feel like we've done well with our efforts this cycle, fx it pays off. I'm happy that I get another cycle in before the end of 2014 as well, if this cycle is unsuccessful.

A hot day here so I've had Vietnamese for lunch and we're going for an ice-cream when the toddler wakes up. All Sundays should be like this!