April TTC girls head into September - Autumn and BFPs here we come

[iamdivergent]

Stats so far (you know me, probably wrong! Argh!)

Steph1204 TTC # 1, 2nd cycle, BFP 12 june, EDD: 20/2/15
lillamyy1 TTC #1 cycle 4 BFP 11/8/14 EDD 18/4/15
Ducky23 TTC#2, cycle 1 BFP on April 17th EDD 25/12/14
Cupcake92 TTC #2 Cycle 4 BFP on July 22nd 2014 EDD 05/04/14
LuluJakey1 Age 35 TTC#1 Cycle1 BFP Late May?? EDD 04/01/15
bearsinmotion ttc#2, BFP 26 June, EDD 25/02/15
Poppet85 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP 5th June EDD 10/2/15
Kitkatkaty87 ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP 7th June EDD 15/2/15

iamdivergent ttc #3, heading into cycle 8 (BFP/AF around about 24/08)
MrsPopple29 ttc #1, cycle 5 (August)
Me624 cycle 4 (?)
21questions ttc #2 (cycle 1 august) Age 30
ToriB34 Age 34 TTC #1 (mmc July)
bradders
Siarie, TTC #1, cycle 2 not sure when AF due as last cycle was irregular
LenaW2109 cycle 6
CP1299 I am 35 TTC1 cycle 1
Tylastar TTC #1
Macmissy Age 34 TTC#1 Cycle3 (+ cycle 3MMC Aug 14)

The successful list is getting so much longer - fx for the rest of us!

Yep all practice cupcake! Youl have todo it twice over!

I start my hospital weekly monitoring today

I feel 2nd time round will be a little easier as I know what to do but I'm probably kidding myself! Lol!

Oo Ducky that's good! It's good they are giving u proper care :)

My legs and arms are totally aching, but other than that i think everything's fine.

cupcake yeah I had cramping as well and pinching so could be a good sign! Interestingly I've been able to feel everything from ovulation to implantation. Then since then I've been able to feel the baby in there, I kind of ache around the area and am always aware of exactly where it is.

God since I upgraded my iPhone keyboard auto correct is crap! Or at least it's highlighted how reliant I was on it.

Sorry AF got you iam, wouldn't it be great if you could see into the future? X

Oh while I'm here, I stumbled across a thread on MN where someone asked how your relationship changes after a baby. It was all really negative!? Is it really that damaging to couples to bring life into this world? Me and my DH work so well together as a team I just can't imagine destroying it?

Siarie I bet it's so lovely to be able to feel something there :) pregnancy is amazing ! And yes I've updated the iPhone too and the keyboard auto correct is horrible!!
about relationships after having a baby.... I'm not going to lie. Me and DH argued a lot. It's the lack of sleep and all the responsibility, it gets to a lot of couples. It was hard to begin with but we got through it :)

I've had to fight a lot to get the care I was promised but it all seems to have fallen into place with my new consultant

I couldn't upgrade my phone because I don't have enough storage

Strange that is cupcake, my cycle when I got my BFP was the only cycle I have ever been able to feel ovulation!

It was worth fighting for :) how did it go today Ducky?

It was all good

Have come home to the realisation that I married the most selfish man in the whole world though

Oh no ducky whats wrong ? :(

Tori, ur bound to be worried! Can't imagine how I will feel. I said to DH today "I'm a bit scared about testing next week because if I am pregnant it'll be hard to be very happy without panicking" he asked me why and I said why do u think. He said "I dunno" it's like he's just forgot about the baby we lost -_- men will always be men!

Indont think they understand that you will be worried now because you went through the worst outcome

I been tidying since getting in, he never tidies anything I have to do it all myself, then he comes in and wants his dinner ready, I do it but never get a thank you. I was so busy sorting his food I never cooked for myself and he didn't even notice, he just started moaning saying my shoes were in his way when he came
In he hasn't spent a penny on this baby yet and he just doesn't seem bothered about the baby or me. He has had loads of days off and uses them to do stupid things for himself when he could come to an appointment with me, last time he has the day booked off I had an appt but he never came cus he wanted a lie in. And he has loads of time off but wont bother doing a tiny bit of tidying, he leaves it to me when I get home from work . Phew rant over!!!

How is everyone doing?

When's your scan tori?

They are bloody useless tori!

It's completely understandable that you are worried, I'm in te week that something started to go wrong with dd and am a nervous wreck have you got other people around who know of your pregnancy and are supportive?

I can join this one ! The other day I felt extremly stressed (hormones/work stress/realisation of whats happening) I got so stressed out I just wasnt hungry I even told dh that I was finding everything was getting on top of me and his response was 'can I have the leftovers for tea then I am really tired ' . Ummmmm thanks for the support and eating the tea !!

Hope this time passes quickly for you ladies xx

Jeez they are so romantic aren't they poppet!!! Sometimes I wonder what goes on in their little brains

Ooo I can so join in with the stress! I'm not even pregnant and I'm so hormonal! Today was bad! Everything is annoying me and peeing me off. DH sitting there is getting on my nerves! I just want ds to go to bed so I can go to bed myself and let tomorrow come

Its probably nothing to do with pregnancy cupcake ! More us ladies taking on everything and having lazy husbands/partners !

Haha jump on board cupcake!!! Hope ds sleeps tonight! At least it's Friday tomorrow

Poppet ur so right!! Haha!!

Ducky I have work tomorrow :(
But I might be moving job to a closer care home which is brand new and literally just round the corner from me!

That sounds good cupcake!

I'll be able to walk to work
I'll need the exercise at this rate, can't stop eating these crisps called "ruffles" paprika flavour. So addictive!

Just watched "don't drop the baby"
And u see all the births at the end, I completely balled my eyes out haha!!

It is like arachnophobia here tonight. Giant pider on doorstep when I got home- ignored me but it was huge.
Then we have seen 5 spiders in the house- none as big as the one on the doorstep but still!

6 spiders in one night.

Have just left them to it. They are all downstairs. DH is more scared of them than I am. Daddy long legs are my scary thing.

Lulu that's ny worst nightmare. I have a phobia of spiders. Can not stand them