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Treaclepie19 · 07/07/2014 19:48

Thread number 3, we are a chatty bunch!

Let's get those BFP's ladies :)

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EnglishGirlsReturned · 09/07/2014 08:47

Thanks Linda!!Smile
Yes, very weird Cpt! Just glad I can crack back on now.

gennibugs · 09/07/2014 08:48

Aww treacle sorry AF got you.

English glad you can start trying again.

Smiling flashy today for me so will DtD later hopefully. Aiming for EOD at the moment, in an attempt to get the pressure off a bit.

Brixton - you may ovulate early, and like others have said you may get a few days of flashing before a fixed.

Wineandchoccy · 09/07/2014 09:09

treacle I'm so sorry AF has arrived I hope you are ok

english glad you can start ttc again it's the only time you ever want to see a BFN

I'm on CD 35 today cycles used to be 41 days pre mmc. I'm not getting my hopes up about a BFP so I won't be disappointed if it's a BFN. Who am I kidding I will be gutted if it's a BFN!

BrixtonBunny · 09/07/2014 09:25

Thanks all for the advice Smile

Treacle so sorry af got you, fx next time will be your BFP. ThanksThanksThanks Maybe treat yourself to a glass of wine later?

Cpt we're at same cycle point and same BFP due date!

notoasthere · 09/07/2014 09:28

so sorry treacle

ILiveOnABuildsite · 09/07/2014 09:45

Thanks Brew sorry to hear about af Treacle.

Stepawayfromthezebras · 09/07/2014 09:57

Brixton before this cycle I always ovulated on around day 9 - 10 of my cycle, with average of 27 day cycles. This cycle I was day 14 but it's the first time it ever happened, I still got a flashing smiley on day 8 (I think, can't remember exactly) but it carried on for 6 days before I got a solid smiley.

Apparently with the CB digi OPK's, they're programmed to keep showing flashing smileys after the first one until you get a solid smiley. So you can get a surge, your levels can go back to normal (so you'd expect a blank circle) but because the OPK remembers your flashing smiley, you keep getting them until you get your peak day.

Aprilray · 09/07/2014 09:59

Oh no Treacle really thought you'd get a BFP! Definitely go with 12dpo and definitely treat yourself to a Wine tonight and some Cake

What a rollercoaster - feel like I've done a loop the loop and am now feeling really positive Confused gave in and POAS last night - BFN (think I am 9-11dpo). Temp is still high but it was this day last cycle and dropped the following day....

Had a v odd dream last night - was having my acupuncture and the lady (who wasn't my usual lady) suddenly started prodding my tummy and said that I was 18 weeks pregnant even though my tummy was flat as a pancake (think I watch too much of that American show 'I didn't know I was pregnant'). My DH had read me the Euro million results before we went to sleep and 18 was the only number I had so maybe that's where it comes from....

Sorry for long post!

English yay for the -tive test.
And Genni yay for flashing smiley!

BrixtonBunny · 09/07/2014 10:22

Thanks stepaway, that's useful to know xx

lp2014 · 09/07/2014 10:25

So sorry Treacle!! Gutted for you! Xx

Treaclepie19 · 09/07/2014 10:26

Thank you all xxx
Couldn't go through this without you!
Feeling pretty down today.

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lp2014 · 09/07/2014 10:28

Keep your chin up Treacle love. Xx

Stepawayfromthezebras · 09/07/2014 10:35

Oh Treacle, you poor thing, it's horrid when AF appears Thanks Cake Wine to you

FoscarC · 09/07/2014 11:00

I'm still lurking a little bit.

treacle I'm do sorry that af got you. Really gutted.

Someone mentioned about dtd every day causes decreased chances of conception. I understand that current research now says that this is not true. On recent papers couples who dtd daily are more likely to concieve. Plus it means more fun having lots of dtd-ing.
I can't find the actual link to the paper, but here's a link to a bit more about it. Although I am clearly no expert.
www.babycenter.com/404_can-having-too-much-sex-affect-our-chances-of-conception_6145.bc

Siarie · 09/07/2014 11:32

Foscar, I think it's just going to be one of those things where there isn't a clear answer yet. I've just done some looking online and sex daily can increase the chances but only if you have a normal sperm count. It decreases the sperm count if you say for example DTD for two weeks in a row. If your partner has lower than normal then it will decrease it under the normal range.

Then of course their are other articles stating DTD every other day etc.

But I mean who knows if half the articles online are actually right? In years to come they'll have another method :)

Aprilray · 09/07/2014 11:49

I admire those of you who manage to DTD everyday, DH and I tend to only manage two days in a row. He says that if we do it too often 'not much comes out' so on the whole we try and go with every other day or so.

FoscarC · 09/07/2014 12:02

saire I completely agree. We just dtd when we felt like it and were very very fortunate. I know that. And we were on honeymoon so hadn't got anything else to do!! Just wouldn't want people to hold out when the underlying message is to dtd when you feel like it and most importantly enjoy it.

laurano81 · 09/07/2014 12:07

Hi Ladies,

I was so busy yesterday & exhausted last night, that I didn't get the chance to pop on, needless to say you were all in my thoughts.

Treacle I am truly gutted for you! You are well entitled to feel sorry for yourself! Oh gosh! I wish I had a magic wand to make it all better! x

Kurama I hope you are feeling better. If the pain is still as bad today, please see your GP!

Ok, sorry I have to go! I promise to catch up later x

kurama · 09/07/2014 12:09

treacle so sorry the witch got you, Wine Thanks was really hopefull for you.
english i couldnt get into docs as i didnt realise how bad it was untill i got up to go to work yest eve. but its feeling better better today, more of just a dull ache now with occasional twinge.
cat must have known i wasnt feeling good last night as he stayed curled up next to my stomach under the cover all night almost as if he was trying to stop dh from touching my stomach Smile

off to have more torture soon as dh wants to go see his workmate whos just had a dd. last week was my mate with her ds..... I am so getting pissed this sat!

lp2014 · 09/07/2014 13:34

That me got af too xx

Aprilray · 09/07/2014 13:46

Oh no Ip not you too! Hope you're ok Thanks

lp2014 · 09/07/2014 13:48

Thanks April. At work so trying not to get upset. Wtf though?! I am never late. Xx

cinnamongreyhound · 09/07/2014 13:53

Hi TheDetective! I may be being niave here but how do you know how much ejaculate there is? I'd say it sounds like the marathon sessions may be best saved when you're not ttc and just stick to once a day?

Hope you're feeling better kurama!

So sorry af got you Treaclepie19 Thanks

That's great EnglishGirlReturned!

No idea fattycow, I'm rubbish at this stuff.

Sorry for you too lp2014! I was 4 days late this month and never normally am, could be having my coil removed I suppose.

Dh has been very positive about dtd this month, he was really annoying last month saying I only wanted to dtd as I wanted to get pregnant which is true but doesn't mean I don't want to either. I've told him we're aiming for eod from Sunday and he said he'd be ready :)

Aprilray · 09/07/2014 14:00

I have been 2-4 days late every month (except one freak 20 day cycle month) since I started ttc Ip would be due on today normally - it is such a pain! Hope the afternoon passes nice and quickly for you, then treat yourself to some Cake and Wine

kurama · 09/07/2014 14:22

on no lp that sucks! have some Cake and im feeling good now. can hardly notice it unless I poke myself lol

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