so didn't want to get his hopes up. Which didn't help when I did actually mc
This is exactly what I have been thinking lately, English. DH kept saying when I got my BFP that he didn't want to get his hopes up so would wait before getting excited. LO and behold, he therefore wasn't upset when little bean didn't stick. I felt, irrationally, that his lack of positive emotion made out I was being a bit well, irrational!
Makes me worried that I won't actually enjoy another BFP, will be too busy worrying and keeping it to myself. Still, a small price to pay for a BFP!