Victoria, so sorry about your pet and so sorry about your gp, can't believe that's how they've left it! They have no clue do they? Fingers crossed it goes ok, think at a time like this mindfulness does go out the window, but try your hardest not to spend the evening worrying, try and chomp chocolate, or have a bath or a glass of vino or read a book or whatever it is that you,like doing to take your mind off things for a bit, good luck x
Jesse, I feel your pain on hearing of others pregnancies in RL, been there, still wearing the t shirt 
Pinkham, do you have any idea how long you'll have to wait for your laparoscopy?
Martie, SMEP can be a killer (also own that t shirt!!) I personally think the main thing is to take the thrust of it (for want of a better expression!!) So it advocates dtd every other day, and daily after positive opk, so if you're up for it I would try again tonight, then do eod from there, rather than prescriptively sticking to the cycle days it says. And my top tip would be to do it now if poss to stop the falling asleep bit later!!! If you're anything like me I'm practically asleep as soon as my head hits the pillow!! Lol so it's either early night time or a cheeky pre dinner sesh 
have fun!!
Lindsay, yeay for positive opk!! Hope you're having fun dtdeeding too!!
Hello to shiggles 
Imaginary, hugs about the spotting and fingers crossed your gp can sort it out. Has it stopped or still going??
Gingerbread, think you're right about gps sadly! thank goodness for mn!!!
Think that's everything, if I've missed anything I'm sorry!! Have a lovely eve ladies, bangers and mash for tea here, yummmmmm