Morning crazy ladies! those dragons were hillarious! I hope they keep bringing us loads of luck.
Congratulations to the BFPs so far. Who's going to be next?
impatience I can only echo what's been said by many on here already about MCs...it's a huge and sad loss, there's no reason to feel like you're taking it badly. If i can just tell my story...When TTC#1 i had an MC at 7ish weeks and the grief hit me like a truck. Bloody hell it's awful. I spent about 3 weeks getting over it, accepting it had happened, thinking about what to do next etc. DH and I talked about it a lot and that helped. I started doing OPKs and soon found i was ovulating and it just felt right to jump right back on the wagon and go for it. And i have to thank my lucky stars that we conceived our DD then. She came in the cycle following the MC. I wouldn't have gone for it if it didn't feel like the right thing to do. But it did and i wouldn't be without her.
We're now TTC#2 and sadly i had another MC in January at about 6 weeks. This one didn't affect me so badly, i think i knew from the start that i didn't even feel pregnant so the hormones just weren't there. Don't get me wrong i'm sad and keep thinking about the milestones we'd be hitting now if it had stuck but I have to trust that my body knew this would not make a healthy child. Better now than finding out much later/having to go through any procedures...
We're back TTC and now on cd9. Am hoping the OPKs will start showing positives at the end of the week. DH wants this too but knows how badly i want this now.
I guess all i'm trying to say is be kind to yourself, do what feels right to you. And talk to your DH (and us) as much as you need.
mama i hope your appointment goes well.
Spring is on its way, this makes me happy 