3isourmagicnumber great user name (though I read it at first as 3-sour-cucumber! Sorry for your CP. Out of interest, when does a CP actually become an early mc? Ive had a mc, late enough to be definitely that, and somehow feel that the term CP belittles what you must have gone through. Good luck for your onward journey....
cake i'm feeling a bit crappy about the whole thing too. I'm on CD 17 and due to ovulate on Wednesday . DH is being a twat generally, not just over this. I did an OPK yesterday, or maybe it was Saturday, it was negative, as I expected but I'd had some ovulation pains and cramps so thought it was worth checking. He noticed it, asked what it meant, I said probably best to dtd anyway every other day until I get a +ve, or EWCM or whatever. All fine. So last night would have been one of those nights, but he acted all surprised because he "thought that the stick meant..." well, meant what exactly? What did he think? Basically he just doesn't listen, or hear, or remember, or whatever. God he really pissed me off, I know he doesn't want another as much as I do, but he does want one, and wants one sooner rather than later if possible. But he is just so unengaged with everything. We need to go out to get DS1 his birthday present, and he wants to come with, but doesn't get it that that means doing it after he gets home from work, which is 8pm. So requires a babysitter. And the only babysitter we have is his sister, which is fine, but he needs to bloody call her as she has her own life and might need some notice. and if we don't do it together I'm going to have to go by myself anyway, and take DS2 with me, who will whinge, and then I'll end up rushing. I actually had an opportunity to do it yesterday by myself with no children with me, which would have been ideal if his sister had told us she was not available. but he would neither phone her, not agree to me going there and then when I had an opportunity. I know I'm going to end up having to go by myself one evening after he gets in from work, or with DS2 whinging. We had a massive row over his complete inability to engage, or listen or whatever. Jeez. liten to me ranting. this should be in relationships, or AIBU, or something! Actually, I posted on another thread where someone had noticed that they get PMS type symptoms around when they ovulate... well, that's probably what's going on here. I can tolerate him being a prat the rest of the month, but just at the point where we need to get on this happens. Oh.. I might just get a puppy instead.