Come aboard the luckiest bus this year! October BFPs here we come!

[Choccywoccydodah]

7 BFP's so far!!

Snowlet
ThreeFromDesire
IBelieveInEngels
Clever0110
LucyFluff
Lililly
RaRaZ

64 Awaiting BFPs

LH1981 ttc#3, cycle 1 or 2 (not sure!) due around 1st oct
NeuroticSweetTalk TTC #1, Cycle #1, 19DPO, 6 days late, BFP/AF due ???
Flame40s ttc#3, cycle3, bfp 2nd Oct
blueskies19 ttc#1 cycle ? BFP 3rd oct
ScienceGeekGirl ttc#1 cycle 7 BFP due beginning of Oct
newforest ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp 5th Oct
Nulanoo ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp 5th Oct
IndianGirl2013 ttc#2, cycle 3 BFP due Oct 6??
Bloumer ttc #1 cycle #3ish? BFP 6th
Funkymonk 31yrs ttc#1 cycle 11 (cycle 3 post Mc) bfp due 6/7 Oct
englishteacher TTC #1 cycle 3 BFP due 7th
GinandStripes ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 7th Oct
Liquidambar ttc #2, cycle 4 BFP 7th Oct
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 2 bfp due 7 oct
Jessewalt Ttc #1, cycle 4, bmp due 8th October.
Keepswimming1 ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 8th Oct
Charleslingus 31, ttc #3 cycle 4 bfp due 8th oct
DuPainDuVinDuFromage TTC#2, cycle 2, BFP due 9 Oct
Owlie84 ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP 9th Oct
sparklesandfizz ttc#3, cycle 1, BFP oct 9th
SuzB83, Cycle 9, BFP due 9th October
MrsWalsh77 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP due 9th Oct
SoMuchFruit ttc#2, cycle 3, BFP due 11 Oct
MrsDinoRawr ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 11th Oct
Milknosugar33 ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP 11 October.
Rockstars12 ttc#1 cycle 2 BFP due 11th Oct
MarlenaGru ttc #2, cycle 1, due 11th oct
Choccywoccydodah ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp 12th Oct
VickyVix ttc #1 cycle 2 BFP due 12th Oct
WifeofGru TTC#3 cycle 1 BFP due 13 Oct
Springtime26 ttc2 cycle 4 bfp 13th October.
plinkyplonks ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 14th Oct
ronty ttc#1 cycle 1 BFP due 14th October.
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle 11 BFP due 16th Oct
Stepawayfromthezebras ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 16th Oct
CooCooCachoo ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 16 October
Leezl ttc #1, cycle 3, bfp 18th?
Cottonwool4brains TTC #2 cycle 7 bfp 19th October.
jaykay987 ttc #1, cycle 2 BFP due 19th Oct
GnomieGrace TTC#1 cycle4 BFP due October 19th
Nottalotta ttc#1 C4 (already?!?!) bfp due 19th oct
findingme, ttc #2, cycle 3, BFP due 19th Oct
Onelifeonechance ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 20th Oct
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle #3 bfp due 21st
Fox82 ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 22nd oct
HisLommel ttc#3 cycle 1, bfp due 22nd October.
Babymamatobe ttc ? Cycle 2 bfp due 22nd October
ELR ttc#3 cycle 3 BFP due 24th Oct
fluffythelabcat ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 24th Oct
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP due 24th Oct
Jessieagain Ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp 25th October.
Kemie ttc#1, cycle 8!! BFP due oct 26/27th
ExactlyWhat ttc #3 cycle 2 bfp 27th Oct
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 4 BFP 27th Oct
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1 cycle #4 BFP due 27th
JoHull ttc#1 Cycle 2 bfp due 30th
SignoraStronza ttc#3, cycle 2 BFP due 30th oct
VJONES1985 ttc#1 cycle3 bfp due ?
Wineandchoccy TTC #1, cycle number 2, BFP due?
SaltySeaBird ttc#2 cycle MIA, BFP due ASAP please
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due sometime end of October
MissVaughan ttc #2 cycle 3 bfp due ?
LittleBear01 TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 3rd Nov (long cycle - 37 days usually)
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout ttc #2 cycle ? Bfp due ?

Sorry hislommel, I wrote L instead of your name! That last message was for you!

Did you have a nice weekend away Jaykay?You always speak so much sense about opks, testing, temping etc, font of all knowledge, definitely follow what jaykay says hislommel, the girl knows her stuff

Feeling frustrated!! 2 days of +ve OPK's and then DH has performance issues this morning and couldn't finish the deed!! Got him doing some DIY in the kitchen as a punishment LOL however I might need to give him a little reward later if I test +ve again this afternoon.

Performance issues last month as well :-( after DTD Friday and yesterday I was hoping it was just a blip but doesn't seem to be, will try again this afternoon

FX !!!

allchat I agree with somuchfruit I'd aim for dtd every second/third day all month as in my experience the more you do it the more you want it.

So doing it regularly all month may well increase his libido, as well as take the pressure off on your peak ov days as he may not even need to know this then.

Oh no allchat I feel your pain - so frustrating!! I think Jessie and Somuchfruit have the right idea, hopefully a routine that's regular will bring about the right result! FX!

Thanks one. Yep having a good weekend. DH is doing some work, so Im catching up on MN!

We're here till Tuesday. I got my peak this morning, so Im really hoping this is our lucky month!

Onelife!! I am beyond proud of your new positive attitude and effort!!!! (Big Grin :)) I'm so glad you got your mojo back......as did I ;) :)

Dtd last night just for fun which was nice not to have DH hold my legs in the air soon as he delivers the goods! Lol and our sex plan for next week has been agreed, times included as DH works crazy shifts and scheduling is vital ;) so he said "tues lunchtime then? Same place?" Lol

Sorry to those who are experiencing DH performance anxiety, I do think taking the pressure off is very important and that you don't just dtd to make a baby but do it for fun also and at times that don't include ovultation...surprise them dtd at a different time/place than usual or by wearing something sexy. I believe that if a man thinks you only want to dtd to make a baby then they will crack under the pressure, they want to feel wanted too so do it coz you love him and coz you want to make him feel loved also......

Thanks mama, I've been trying that! I've told him I don't ov till next week to see if it takes the pressure off but still not able to finish the job :-(

I'll give it another shot this afternoon ;-)

Babymama that's so difficult for you but try not to show that your feeling the pressure of getting the deed done! Maybe plan something nice this afternoon where it can lead naturally in to dtd....

I think you should run him a nice hot bath when he finishes his diy so he can relax and unwind.....

Dreaded af started. Feeling blue. However, have decided after 3 months of opks and making my poor husband do the deed daily for days on end, that I am going to forget them. I think they have confirmed that I am probably ovulating every month at roughly the same time, which I find reassuring. I am therefore going to try sex every other day/when we feel like it.
This ttc stuff is more stressful than I ever imagined. When we first started trying, I thought this would be the time I would be able to start telling people I was pregnant - so naive. Now 4 months and nothing. I am determined to remain positive! But this is becoming harder and harder. I know still quite early, but really thought it would have happened. Can't help myself from thinking the worst.
So very pleased for everyone getting positive results, hope all of us will get there soon!

Hi mama. Our sex plan is still the same. Wed, Fri and if he stays over which he usually does Sat morning as well and if we can fit it in other times then fantastic.

I also D.T.D for fun. However like I said yesterday morning we had our first try with both of us on board and it was amazing. I think that the fact we were both knowingly making love to create a new life made it far more meaningful.

Oh and I forgot to mention. Now he's in the loop I've started putting my legs in the air. Although as you know I never used legs in the air last time for obvious reasons and still conceived even though it did go wrong. xx

Jessewait I know exactly how you feel I am on cycle 4 now and after making such an immense effort especially last cycle I was completely devastated as was DH when af arrived and actually quite shocked as we both just believed it was our month!!! But it wasn't to be!

From last fri (when af arrived) until yesterday I was feeling so down about it all....felt like nothing was going right for us....and I believe that its healthy to allow yourself to have those feelings for a period of time....but it is then so important to pick yourself up again and keep trying. But yes if cutting opks out and dtd often works for you then do that! But never stop trying and never believe that it won't happen.....coz it will....and we don't decide when it happens.....it happens when its meant to happen in our lives and we have little control over that other than dtd!! So hugs..get some comfort around you (ie wine/chocs/hugs), have a week of lying low and then make a positive comeback so that your chances of conceiving are as good as ever!!

Hello life. Yes I'm sure now dp is in the loop it is a much more honest and meaningful experience for you together. I'm not really a believer of legs in the air but DH lifts my legs and we just laugh about it really! But I'm sure if its gona happen it will happen regardless of legs in the air lol

Hi. Feeling a bit stupid here but can I embarass myself and ask what does L.H surge mean. It's just something I keep coming across and I have no clue what it means. Thanks in advance. xx

Also. What are B6 tablets if that what they're called and should I be taking them. I have started taking pregacare. xxx

Hi Mama. Although I'm using legs in the air I'm with you in the attitude of if it happens it happens. Until it does we'll just have fun trying. xx

L.H surge is the hormone surge that occurs at ovulation. b6 is a vitamin and is included in the pregncare vitamins so you don't need to have extra in separate tablets.
Heehee to think 6 months ago that paragraph would be double Dutch to me.

know science...the stuff I have learnt on here in 3 months is unbelievable! How you doing science??

Hi Science. Thanks for your reply. Although I planned all my pregnancies. I haven't really got a clue about about all the jagron. xxx

Ladies I gotta work on my chat up lines for DH....just realised I txt him y'day saying "the period has left the building" really?!! (Worst thing is that chat up line wored and we dtd last night :/ lol)

Although there was a cracker on here a short while ago "hey, I ovulate...check me out". I love that!!!! Lol which one of you ladies was that?? I can't remember! That's priceless!!!!

Hi mama I'm doing. Glad ovulated last weekend as barely seen my OH all this week and weekend as he's working nights.
BTW OH also feels the pressure. Everyday really isn't an option for us and every other day is hard enough with his work sequedule. Get rather jealous when ppl talk about how much they manage to DTD over their fertile period.
6DPO here so another week to go for me. If anyone is updating stats I have a better date
ScienceGeekGirl ttc#1 cycle 7 BFP 13th Oct

I know its hard science when they work shifts!!! We have to schedule in some lunchtime sessions next week as DH on night shift and only pos time will be my lunch break from work :/

And I wouldn't worry too much about quantity of times....we dtd 12 times over 10days last cycle...not only was it exhausting but it didn't result in a BFP either! And to be honest I think we peaked too soon and ran out of good quality sperm!! I reckon its quality not quantity so we are planning only 5 times over the next week to see how that goes...but it can happen from dtd only once also!!! If its all in the right place at the right time ;)

Good luck for next week!!! Hope you get your bfp! :)

Our works are 50 miles apart so lunchtime loving would be tricky lol. Didn't mean last post to sound so negative. Not feeling too bad at the moment, work is done for the month and as a ttc veteran now(or I feel like it) guess I get use to suppressing my impatience.

Hi Science. Sorry I forgot to say "Welcome back". xx