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Come aboard the luckiest bus this year! October BFPs here we come!

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Choccywoccydodah · 04/10/2013 19:22

7 BFP's so far!!

Snowlet
ThreeFromDesire
IBelieveInEngels
Clever0110
LucyFluff
Lililly
RaRaZ

64 Awaiting BFPs

LH1981 ttc#3, cycle 1 or 2 (not sure!) due around 1st oct
NeuroticSweetTalk TTC #1, Cycle #1, 19DPO, 6 days late, BFP/AF due ???
Flame40s ttc#3, cycle3, bfp 2nd Oct
blueskies19 ttc#1 cycle ? BFP 3rd oct
ScienceGeekGirl ttc#1 cycle 7 BFP due beginning of Oct
newforest ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp 5th Oct
Nulanoo ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp 5th Oct
IndianGirl2013 ttc#2, cycle 3 BFP due Oct 6??
Bloumer ttc #1 cycle #3ish? BFP 6th
Funkymonk 31yrs ttc#1 cycle 11 (cycle 3 post Mc) bfp due 6/7 Oct
englishteacher TTC #1 cycle 3 BFP due 7th
GinandStripes ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 7th Oct
Liquidambar ttc #2, cycle 4 BFP 7th Oct
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 2 bfp due 7 oct
Jessewalt Ttc #1, cycle 4, bmp due 8th October.
Keepswimming1 ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 8th Oct
Charleslingus 31, ttc #3 cycle 4 bfp due 8th oct
DuPainDuVinDuFromage TTC#2, cycle 2, BFP due 9 Oct
Owlie84 ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP 9th Oct
sparklesandfizz ttc#3, cycle 1, BFP oct 9th
SuzB83, Cycle 9, BFP due 9th October
MrsWalsh77 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP due 9th Oct
SoMuchFruit ttc#2, cycle 3, BFP due 11 Oct
MrsDinoRawr ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 11th Oct
Milknosugar33 ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP 11 October.
Rockstars12 ttc#1 cycle 2 BFP due 11th Oct
MarlenaGru ttc #2, cycle 1, due 11th oct
Choccywoccydodah ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp 12th Oct
VickyVix ttc #1 cycle 2 BFP due 12th Oct
WifeofGru TTC#3 cycle 1 BFP due 13 Oct
Springtime26 ttc2 cycle 4 bfp 13th October.
plinkyplonks ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 14th Oct
ronty ttc#1 cycle 1 BFP due 14th October.
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle 11 BFP due 16th Oct
Stepawayfromthezebras ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 16th Oct
CooCooCachoo ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 16 October
Leezl ttc #1, cycle 3, bfp 18th?
Cottonwool4brains TTC #2 cycle 7 bfp 19th October.
jaykay987 ttc #1, cycle 2 BFP due 19th Oct
GnomieGrace TTC#1 cycle4 BFP due October 19th
Nottalotta ttc#1 C4 (already?!?!) bfp due 19th oct
findingme, ttc #2, cycle 3, BFP due 19th Oct
Onelifeonechance ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 20th Oct
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle #3 bfp due 21st
Fox82 ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 22nd oct
HisLommel ttc#3 cycle 1, bfp due 22nd October.
Babymamatobe ttc ? Cycle 2 bfp due 22nd October
ELR ttc#3 cycle 3 BFP due 24th Oct
fluffythelabcat ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 24th Oct
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP due 24th Oct
Jessieagain Ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp 25th October.
Kemie ttc#1, cycle 8!! BFP due oct 26/27th
ExactlyWhat ttc #3 cycle 2 bfp 27th Oct
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 4 BFP 27th Oct
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1 cycle #4 BFP due 27th
JoHull ttc#1 Cycle 2 bfp due 30th
SignoraStronza ttc#3, cycle 2 BFP due 30th oct
VJONES1985 ttc#1 cycle3 bfp due ?
Wineandchoccy TTC #1, cycle number 2, BFP due?
SaltySeaBird ttc#2 cycle MIA, BFP due ASAP please
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due sometime end of October
MissVaughan ttc #2 cycle 3 bfp due ?
LittleBear01 TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 3rd Nov (long cycle - 37 days usually)
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout ttc #2 cycle ? Bfp due ?

OP posts:
jaykay987 · 11/10/2013 08:29

Ooh....there's a few of us waiting!

Waiting, waiting, waiting!

"Are we nearly there yet?"

onelifeonechance · 11/10/2013 08:32

Oh my life i have had a horrible evening and morning...unbeknown to me (and Jaykay kindly pointed out in a very sweet manner even though i am clearly an eejit) i had accidentially hit the 'hide this thread' button and i lost you all!! I was manically searching and you were nowhere to be found...panic stations were activated...no idea how i would cope without you all! But i have found you now and all is right with the world and relax Smile I'm too old to cope with so much drama...

Well 5dpo for me, draaaaaaaagggggggggiinnnnnnggggg is not the word! Trying not to think about it but clearly failing (glimpse inside my brain: oo i can feel a slight womb twinge, oo maybe i'm pregnant, no don't think like that you'll only be disappointed, yes you're right ok think about something else, oh wouldn't it be nice to have a baby...no you're not supposed to be thinking about it, oh yes quite right, ok well isn't the weather nice today, hmm i'm feeling strangely warm, oo do you think i could be pregnant....AND SO IT GOES ON..exhausting!!)

Missvaughan85 · 11/10/2013 08:38

Ha Dino my phone keeps auto correcting, it should be clear blue cb not bc lol. Another flashing smile this morning, it's just sitting there taunting me!!! Dtd last night, gonna skip tonight and dtd again tomorrow, possibly us day but got a very early start to airport on Sunday, debating whether to take opk with me it just ignore enjoy holiday and hope dr the best!! X x

onelifeonechance · 11/10/2013 08:40

So sorry keepswimming Sad feel for you and sending big hugs.

Lucyf keeping fx for you, t hink there are lots of us hoping for you this morning Smile

Choccy, fx it's just too early, good luck with weekend testing

Mama - hello! Welcome to the hell of the 2ww, we can do this

Jessie - i also seem to dip after ov - i'm wondering if it's more to do with the fact it's now out of our hands and what will be will be - at least before ov you feel you are doing something towards it be dtd and sex plans etc. but once ov has been and gone it's down to fate/que sera sera/luck etc. and all we can do is wait...and wait...and wait...and wait.......

SoMuchFruit · 11/10/2013 08:57

Just a quick visit for now, BBL to catch up on everyone's news.

CD1 for me today. Bang on time. 30 day cycle as I thought. After all that I woke up to AF in full flow. I am still very very hot though. No idea what all that was all about over the last few days..

Disappointed but I kinda knew it wasn't this month but then allowed myself to get carried away symptom spotting. I probably just have a virus! Should have properly believed the test 10dpo!

Onwards.. next BFP is 11th Nov so I will board that bus and sit at the back smoking and writing on the back of the seat while I get over my sulk.

onelifeonechance · 11/10/2013 09:02

Aw somuch, sorry bloomin af arrived, she's a mean old thing. Def right to sulk and have Wine, lick your wounds, treat and pamper yourself then pick yourself up and get back on the November horse, good luck Smile

MrsB2013 · 11/10/2013 09:04

Hi Onelife, glad you found us again!

Good luck Lucy!

lucyfluff · 11/10/2013 09:12

Hiya ladies. It's not good news...CB digi said not pregnant this morning, so it was definitely a chemical pregnancy. I have just spoken to duty GP and he was really nice, popped it on my record and said it's very common but because I have children already I'm not high risk.

Spoke to DH last night about ttc again if it was bad news and we are going to go straight away. I guess it's one of those things that wasn't meant to be although I'm gutted.

So I will be hanging around here if you will have me again...stats are TTC4, cycle 1post m/c, bfp 31st oct....I think....!

Sorry about this post being really negative on a conception thread...and good luck to everyone still :)

jaykay987 · 11/10/2013 09:12

Sorry fruit.

Good to see you back one. I've had a similar dialogue in my head the past few days!

I actually seem to get an ov bounce (if that's possible). I can relax as there's nothing more I can do. I get quite intensely focused on my bbt chart in the run up to ov, trying to second guess when ov is going to happen. I analyse and over analyse my chart, temps, symptoms logged and OPK results trying to estimate the next day (or days temps) to see when ov might happen and to work out whether we have dtd at the right time to be in with a chance.

Once I see my temps rise, I completely relax. Nothing more I can do. (Until a few days later when I start to obsess around whether my symptoms are symptoms or an over active imagination!)

allchatnicknamesgone · 11/10/2013 09:34

Somuchfruit. Sorry. Bugger AF. :(

Lucy - not sure what to say. Hang in there. I'm so sorry for you. Wish they didn't call it chem preg. It doesn't make it feel less real. Hope you can treat and spoil yourself this weekend.

jaykay I stop temping as soon as I've got the 3 days confirmation as I know I will look at every rise and fall and all the literature says you just cannot rely on charting in those 2 weeks after O to tell you anything (apart from the drop just before AF, but it will be pretty obvious by then).

DPO8 here now. I actually want no symptons because then it might actually come true. A cramp this early can easily just be AF building.

Hope everyone ok

GinandStripes · 11/10/2013 09:39

Oh lucy I'm so sorry - good that you've already talked it over with DH to start up straight away. Keeping everything crossed for you. x

Dev0nDiva · 11/10/2013 09:48

Lucyfluff - what news, had my fx for you!

thisisme - we are BFP the same day. I 'm now on cyc 6 and yes I think these things can be psychosomatic. I too have been feeling a bit pukey. Not anything major, just like I've been going round a round about too many times. Ha, ha, how true that is! However, I had a mc last month and was a little queezy from what would have been about 6 weeks, which is when it normally starts. I'm going to resist POAS until Sunday (10 dpo) which is the earliest I've seen positive results on FF. Reckon you can do the same, we can do the 2ww together? [smiley face]

Choccywoccydodah · 11/10/2013 09:49

Lucy so so very sorry. How are you feeling? I hope you are ok, massive hugs to you. Bloody bodies just dangle the bloody carrot don't they. Like one of my friends said last time we were ttc, I wish we could go inside our bodies and shove the bloody sperm inside the egg ourselves!

Somuchfruit, sorry af came, hope you cool down soon.

Slight brown spotting here only when I stick my finger up though! Sorry tmi Smile

OP posts:
jessieagain · 11/10/2013 10:04

Lucy and fruit so sorry to hear both your news. My fingers are crossed for you next time Flowers

onelife I've done that before! Accidentally hidden the thread and then been so confused about why it was deleted??!!

onelifeonechance · 11/10/2013 10:11

Lovely Lucy, i'm so sorry this has happened x feels very cruel i'm sure. Big hugs to you and of course we will still have you, we wouldn't let you go anywhere else! Take good care of yourself this weekend and let that hunky hubby of yours treat and pamper you silly Smile

onelifeonechance · 11/10/2013 10:12

Glad it's not just me with sausage fingers Jessie!

sparklesandfizz · 11/10/2013 10:21

Lucy am so sorry that you have had bad news this morning xx hope you are feeling ok. I'm sure with 3 at home you will have lots of distraction if there's one thing a hectic family life will do it's prevent you from having time to dwell - surely a good thing. Good luck and well done for deciding to jump straight back onto the horse (so to speak!)

sparklesandfizz · 11/10/2013 10:22

Oh AF arrived last night d30 so the countdown begins again. Sorry to all else out today.

onelifeonechance · 11/10/2013 10:32

Sorry af turned up sparkle, she seems to be doing the rounds at the mo Sad Cake & Wine for you and fx for next month

sparklesandfizz · 11/10/2013 10:40

Onelife your technological blip made me chuckle. Am equally useless with all things computer and can see myself doing similar. MN bus is like a fix isn't it? Have to know what everyone's up to and always hoping for BFP news. Been a bit elusive lately fx for next lot of testers.

sazzlehopes · 11/10/2013 10:54

Hi ladies, been reading the thread for a while, would it be ok to join? I'm sorry to those that have just had AF get them, that sucks....but congrats to those with bfp - always nice to hear!
I think my bfp would be end of the month/very beg nov, I'm currently CD11 This is my 10+ month ttc for #2 but first cycle using clear blue fertility monitor, so I'm hopeful...I'm a sucker for something new to pee on! Wink
Anyway thanks for listening, fx for everyone on here that we get lucky!

lucyfluff · 11/10/2013 11:34

Awww thankyou! It feels nice being able to come on here and chat. Feeling ok at the moment, it's hard getting your head around being pregnant one day then not three days later....at least all the symptoms have vanished which wasn't helping earlier in the week.

Hubbie is very glad we don't have to wait to try again, he wants it so badly bless him. I've got to keep thinking I'm lucky having three gorgeous boys and just stay positive really :)

Having a nice bottle of wine this weekend and some retail therapy so I'm sure that will help ;)

VickyVix · 11/10/2013 11:39

AF got me :( not my month. Gutted.

But onwards and upwards I'll try and flag down the November bus.

Hugs to others who are in the same boat.

Fingers crossed for the rest of you!!

onefunkymama · 11/10/2013 12:02

Choccywoccy ROFL at penis beaker, loved the Mumsnet thread about it too

Writerwannabe83 · 11/10/2013 12:13

I'm sorry to hear this lucy, I hope you are feeling okay. It is good you and your husband are going to get straight back on to TTC and hopefully next cycle will be the lucky one for you x x