Come aboard the luckiest bus this year! October BFPs here we come!

[Choccywoccydodah]

7 BFP's so far!!

Snowlet
ThreeFromDesire
IBelieveInEngels
Clever0110
LucyFluff
Lililly
RaRaZ

64 Awaiting BFPs

LH1981 ttc#3, cycle 1 or 2 (not sure!) due around 1st oct
NeuroticSweetTalk TTC #1, Cycle #1, 19DPO, 6 days late, BFP/AF due ???
Flame40s ttc#3, cycle3, bfp 2nd Oct
blueskies19 ttc#1 cycle ? BFP 3rd oct
ScienceGeekGirl ttc#1 cycle 7 BFP due beginning of Oct
newforest ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp 5th Oct
Nulanoo ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp 5th Oct
IndianGirl2013 ttc#2, cycle 3 BFP due Oct 6??
Bloumer ttc #1 cycle #3ish? BFP 6th
Funkymonk 31yrs ttc#1 cycle 11 (cycle 3 post Mc) bfp due 6/7 Oct
englishteacher TTC #1 cycle 3 BFP due 7th
GinandStripes ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 7th Oct
Liquidambar ttc #2, cycle 4 BFP 7th Oct
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 2 bfp due 7 oct
Jessewalt Ttc #1, cycle 4, bmp due 8th October.
Keepswimming1 ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 8th Oct
Charleslingus 31, ttc #3 cycle 4 bfp due 8th oct
DuPainDuVinDuFromage TTC#2, cycle 2, BFP due 9 Oct
Owlie84 ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP 9th Oct
sparklesandfizz ttc#3, cycle 1, BFP oct 9th
SuzB83, Cycle 9, BFP due 9th October
MrsWalsh77 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP due 9th Oct
SoMuchFruit ttc#2, cycle 3, BFP due 11 Oct
MrsDinoRawr ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 11th Oct
Milknosugar33 ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP 11 October.
Rockstars12 ttc#1 cycle 2 BFP due 11th Oct
MarlenaGru ttc #2, cycle 1, due 11th oct
Choccywoccydodah ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp 12th Oct
VickyVix ttc #1 cycle 2 BFP due 12th Oct
WifeofGru TTC#3 cycle 1 BFP due 13 Oct
Springtime26 ttc2 cycle 4 bfp 13th October.
plinkyplonks ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 14th Oct
ronty ttc#1 cycle 1 BFP due 14th October.
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle 11 BFP due 16th Oct
Stepawayfromthezebras ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 16th Oct
CooCooCachoo ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 16 October
Leezl ttc #1, cycle 3, bfp 18th?
Cottonwool4brains TTC #2 cycle 7 bfp 19th October.
jaykay987 ttc #1, cycle 2 BFP due 19th Oct
GnomieGrace TTC#1 cycle4 BFP due October 19th
Nottalotta ttc#1 C4 (already?!?!) bfp due 19th oct
findingme, ttc #2, cycle 3, BFP due 19th Oct
Onelifeonechance ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 20th Oct
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle #3 bfp due 21st
Fox82 ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 22nd oct
HisLommel ttc#3 cycle 1, bfp due 22nd October.
Babymamatobe ttc ? Cycle 2 bfp due 22nd October
ELR ttc#3 cycle 3 BFP due 24th Oct
fluffythelabcat ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 24th Oct
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP due 24th Oct
Jessieagain Ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp 25th October.
Kemie ttc#1, cycle 8!! BFP due oct 26/27th
ExactlyWhat ttc #3 cycle 2 bfp 27th Oct
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 4 BFP 27th Oct
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1 cycle #4 BFP due 27th
JoHull ttc#1 Cycle 2 bfp due 30th
SignoraStronza ttc#3, cycle 2 BFP due 30th oct
VJONES1985 ttc#1 cycle3 bfp due ?
Wineandchoccy TTC #1, cycle number 2, BFP due?
SaltySeaBird ttc#2 cycle MIA, BFP due ASAP please
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due sometime end of October
MissVaughan ttc #2 cycle 3 bfp due ?
LittleBear01 TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 3rd Nov (long cycle - 37 days usually)
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout ttc #2 cycle ? Bfp due ?

'thou' is supposed to be 'you', I appear to have gone all shakespearean on you. Go fetch your noble prince fair ladies and pray lie with him til thoust is with child. I wish thee well

Lol one life, I'm not even attempting a Shakespearean reply!! I will let you know and pop in now and then xx

Please do, I'll be thinking of you and hoping for good things x

Hello all, have i missed anything good? Any more bfp's? Am feeling pretty rubbish tbh. DH said a couple of months ago he'd like more sex. All good, so would i. We often just don't get round to it, not bbecause we don't want to.

So this month i thought great! We will try dtd every other day for the 10 days at the middle of my cycle. Can't be that hard surely? Bloody twice is the count so far, still today to go i guess. I'm really not goid at initiating and dh started new job recently having to get up earlier and has been knackered. Can't imagine it will.ever happen for me at this rate.

No point having a discussion with him as he wants to 'see what happens' ffs.

Sorry, truly a misery guts today.

Onelife I think we are still psychic-ish..... Lucyfluff sounds just lovely as we both suspected ;)

Notta, that's a shame.... I think you need a "sex plan" get those appointments scheduled in with DH and stick to them!!!

I PIAC this morning. Unsurprisingly it was BFN. But I feel like death warmed up and just need to know! Argh I am so bloody impatient.

It is interesting about DTD. I expected dh to be like a rabbit but I think the pressure got to him!

Oh no Lucy sorry to hear that, hope it all works out ok, fx!

I had a fixed smiley today on CD14, dtd on Saturday and yesterday, will hopefully try again tonight! The 2 app's I have are different, one says I should Ov today, the other says tomorrow?? How many days in a row is best to dtd? Should we skip tomorrow then try again on CD16?

A sex plan might be a good idea Notta, so long as your dh is ok by it and doesn't feel the pressure. We are permanently knackered and not the best at dtd in the week, pre ttc mostly had fun at weekends. But we had a chat about how much we both want a baby and both agreed that we need to up our game. Agreeing in advance does help (know it doesn't work for all) as take this morn, I think I ov'd today but got my peak yst so thought waiting to tonight to dtd might be too late so we agreed to do the business this morn before dh went to work. We were both fast, fast asleep when the alarm went off and there is no way that either of us would ordinarily have even thought of making a move but when it's pre agreed you are both committed and know why you're doing it. If he's keen on the let's just see bit then this is a fair approach as it's not like you're opking or temping etc. but I think an agreement to attempt to dtd more around expected ov time seems fair?? Understand your frustration and fx for you. And remember, it only takes once so you never know!

It's a hard one mrsb no pun intended as we dtd lots/daily over ov last month with no joy so we're taking the smep route this month. But lots seem to get preggers dtd daily and others hardly at all so don't think there's any rhyme or reason to it! If you've got no reason to think your dh has any sperm issues then maybe just go for it so all bases covered

Mama, Yeay we are definitely still psychic, our powers have returned!! Lucyf is completely lovely

okay, I have given in and googled smep...

Do we know if any of our BFPs over the month did actually work with this system?

P.S - AF still not here.

Fx Marlena, it's so frustrating waiting!

I know, this whole ttc thing affects everyone so differently. I think there is such a massive perception out there that men are up for it all the time when in reality that isn't true for a lot of them, doesn't make them odd, it's just how things are, but means they feel the pressure when it's fertile week.

I meant months... not just this month, I'm being seriously bad at typing today!

Ooo good question Gin, if like to know the answer to that too! And Yeay for af staying away, hope she stays clear out of sight!

English have you poas yet? Fx!

It appears I can't type either gin, 'if' is supposed to say I'd!

Ok I really need to stop procrastinating and do some bloody work, I have practically filled this page by myself!!

Not yet, will do tomorrow if no AF. Have a headache is there anything I can take?

Paracetamol is safe in pregnancy so you'd be fine taking that. Good luck for tmrw, fx for you

english NHS choices says paracetamol is okay.

English try not to worry. My gp sister says the bean isn't fully connected you your blood supply for quite a while. It was my birthday on Saturday so also had 3 large glasses of wine (which is a lot for me). I had 11 days to AF so thought it would be fine

I am bored of going to the toilet every 20 minutes to. just. check.

Hello ladies, hope you are all well! Onelife....I see you are distracting yourself from doing work....I'm so busy but feel myself getting pulled on to mumsnet to avoid doing what I should be doing :/

Well we find that our sex plan works for us, coz DH works shifts and I get so tired before bed so its good to pick times that suit us both :) DH treated me to lunch today as I prob won't get any tomorrow due to the "sex plan" starting at tomorrow lunchtime!! Lol

Onelife you are right if we didn't schedule....it wouldn't happen as much over the fertile week as before ttc I was really a weekender girl being too tired during the week, but I've had to step it up for ttc! And DH is of course very obliging as always but he has had to compromise also, so that ttc is prioritised always in the fertile window!

Thanks onelife!

Does anyone know if your temp goes up at the end of a cycle? I took mine this morning and it was only slightly high so don't think I have a fever but I feel like I am on fire!

Any good news today? There are a lot of people due o test this week so wondering what the results are?

(Phantom?) symptom spotting here - few episodes of mild nausea and today niggly pains like I had at start of first pregnancy that were put down to ligaments stretching. Trying not to get hopes up too much. Failing!!