Is there a November bus yet? Can't find the timetable..!

[ThisIsMeNow]

Just that really!
Looking for the November bus to hop on please. If anyone knows the next one due can you point me to it? Thanks!

Hi ladies!!!!

oooo notta, I hope AF stays away and it was implantation for you good luck poas when you do.

Bohemond - you sound very similar to me, had a chemical pg abt two ish weeks ago and waiting to see what my body is doing! we have started trying again straight away so fingers crossed it happens again before xmas hope it does for you too!

This bus is filling up quickly now, wonder if we can beat octobers luck

Think I need a bit of a morale boost, ladies... I can't shake that horrible bitter feeling you get when you start a new cycle but see others getting their bfps. I know it's horrible of me but I just wonder what I'm doing wrong. And I shouldn't feel like this after only a few months! I'm now on cycle 4 and have chucked out my opks and b6 tablets to see if that helps the situation.

Here wet fish slap VJ ...you will get you bfp and I know its gutting not falling in these first few months but it will happen

I think your plan of stopping vits and relaxing is a good idea. Can you try dtd eod during the month and see what happens?

I know im lucky to fall easily so dont really experience the frustration of ttc for months but I do believe it happens for a reason when your body is ready !

Keep smiling and please stay on the bus with us all

Would it help to know you're not alone V? I thought I'd be one of those annoying first cyclers, having never had to "try" to conceive my 2DC. But no, I'm here starting cycle two in rather a lot of pain, heavy AF and still with a fair few "pregnancy symptoms". It sucks. I think it's perfectly normal to feel the way you do so don't feel bad about feeling bad! Lets give it another go this month

I must have been having a moment when I joined the bus and just noticed that I got the wrong ticket. Please could I be changed to findingme, ttc #2, cycle 4, bfp due 11th November. Thanks

Oh V, there's nothing wrong with feeling like that. I do. I'm ashamed to say I had to leave oct bus and I couldn't even watch their poas party on Friday. It was just too bitter. I don't think it makes any difference if you're only a couple of months in, when you're ttc it's a total blow each time Af shows up. I am happy for others getting their bfp's but I'm not ashamed to say I'm desperate for mine! I wa heartbroken when Af showed up on wed. Fx this is our bus.

Hi Lucy - agree. It's kind of weird not knowing when the right time is or if you should take a bit of time off but we thought we should just get on with it as I do not know when the window will close forever. I know that MCs are very difficult for the majority but I had sort of built a couple of false starts into my expectations so I got through it OK.

So my near positive ovulation test the other was a false alarm, still no sign for now, just want to get on with it!!!!

Thanks lucy. lommel and especially thisisme, as I shared your heartache on Wednesday too. I'm so glad it's normal to feel this bad, even early on.

So, hislommel and thisisme - we will keep positive and persevere. Lucy dtd eod is certainly the plan for this month :)

Sorry Findingme, will change your ticket

Vjones, we're so getting upduffed this month

Hi choccy - woop woop, we totes are! Got a plan for this month or just going with the flow?

We are defo getting bfp's! Good to see positive attitudes!
Well from what I can see I need to shag loads next weekend so wish me luck and I'm sure I'll keep you all updated you lucky things

Ha ha! Well, I seem to ov around cd18 so I've got a while to go yet (currently cd5) but we will be dtd eod this month hopefully, starting tonight.

OK ecwm fans...just wiped and have cm...is this supposed to be a sign of ovulation?! Im not sure if its too early for me??

Good to hear the positivity VJ

Bohemond, it is really personal on deciding when to start after a loss. I hope this is a lucky bus for us, and if not we can have a few laughs along the way

Lucy that's brilliant!! Yes a sign ov is on her way . So quickly too!!!

Vj I'm on cd7 and have ov'd on cd 16 last 2 months but have started b6 this month due to spotting from 7dpo and af 9/10 dpo. Worth a shot I suppose.
I've just done an ov test and neg, but want to test earlier this month as I've read b6 can either bring it forward or delay it.
Just going to Dtd every other day at least. More relaxed this month too

Lucy - cm is normal all through the cycle. If it's egg white cm, it's a sign of ov. If not, then it probably isn't yet.

Choccy - b6 delayed ov by two days for me but didn't delay af, sadly.

Sad to see so many familiar faces getting on this bus
Here's hoping November's a lucky month for us all!

Hi, english. Haven't seen you for a while. Which cycle is this one for you?

Sorry Lucy I assumed you meant ewcm, but what VJones said

Oooooo um errr its clear....and quite a lot when I wipe sorry tmi!!! will carry on knicker watching lol!!

Is it stretchy too, lucy? Which cd are you?

@VJONES - it'll be my fourth cycle. So I don't really have the right to get moany yet. We've aimed to follow SMEP the past two months but with DH's shift pattern it's not the easiest.
Feel really annoyed about all the wasted years of anxiously trying NOT to get pregnant. You get led to believe it's a lot easier than it is!
Still my form will be glad, they've been panicking about me 'leaving then in the lurch' since I got married! They go on study leave in May so they're safe!

Is it possible to get Ewcm at the end of Af?! I wiped this lunchtime and it was clear and really stretchy? But I'm still bleeding sorry tmi
No real idea when I'm due to ov just planning on dtd every weekend as DP works away