Is there a November bus yet? Can't find the timetable..!

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Just that really!
Looking for the November bus to hop on please. If anyone knows the next one due can you point me to it? Thanks!

I am good thanks my lovely!!! :) I know I think the hormones of af take over and just add to the disappointment resulting in temporary depressive thoughts :/ but once af is on the way out I'm feeling positive again :)

Yes we tackled day one of smep as well this morning :) feels good to start the "sex plan" :) and DH is also very happy to be back to the "sex plan" lol I so hope we get our bfp's on November bus....that would just be perfect :) I also did some Christmas shopping today so I'm feeling very happy and super organised! life is good!!!! Chilling now with some wine. You having a good wkend onelife?

Christmas shopping? Don't, you're putting me to shame! Don't get me wrong, I LOVE Christmas but haven't even given it a thought yet this year, lol
So glad you're feeling back to normal&positive. Yes I think you're right, the af hormones make the disappointment seem far worse. Im feeling better now though and back on it! We are actual sex plan buddies then Mama as we kicked off this cycle this morn too, ha ha!! Yes, yes please let November be our month, pretty, pretty please with a cherrys&sprinkles on top!!!!

And yes life IS good! Went out dancing last night (no pj&duncan though how rude) sitting in all cosy with dh tonight, then got lovely quiet Sunday with a roast&a walk planned. There's supposed to be a bad storm on it's way so we're hoping to wrap up and go out in the blustery winds

Of course mama was going to be an early Christmas shopper...she's an early poas kinda girl! Good luck ladies, glad you have a plan and you're both feeling more chipper! Fx it's your month!

Thanks sazzle, how are you getting on? Plans to poas tmrw? Good luck if so, keeping my fx

Just read your post on Oct bus saz, def wait if you can, sit on those hands!!!!

Onelife, I love, love, love that we are cycle buddies for November!!!!! Eeeeek!! :) :) :) yes I have started my Christmas shopping as the whole fam comes to mine Christmas Day so i like to be prepared so that December I can focus on cooking and mulled wine of course :)

Sazzle....you wouldn't expect any less....you know me so well ;) how you doing???!

Oh and onelife....no pj and duncan....what on earth is that all about!!! :/ haha!!! Sounds like you have a lovely wkend planned though, enjoy your roast and your walk tomorrow. DH is working late tomorrow so DS and I are going to skip the roast and make his fave pasta dish then watch xfactor :) love nights in with him, he's 12 now so I know I have to savour this time as he loves to be with his friends more and more which is understandable...but I do miss him....hes grown up so fast....but is an absolute sweetheart :)

Christmas, pah, I've bought all of ds's now as things are on sale, and don't you just know they'll go back up for Xmas!

So, ladies, tmi but do any of you get ewcm after ov?
All it is, this morning dh and I were about to get jiggy and I applied some conceive plus to him and he said to me, I don't think you need that and I had tons of ewcm! I've never had that much before!
I've been having a glass of grapefruit juice every morning for about 10 days now and it hadn't done a lot, but then this!
So now I'm uber confused if I have already ov'd, or whether I got a positive Friday morning and I've ov'd 48 hours later ie today (which I know is possible but I though ewcm came a couple of days before ov).
Anyway, there are plenty of swimmers in there

Me again, sorry I'm banging on about it, but I've just got a very strong quick positive on my opk, so I guess today is the day and I haven't missed it
2 days earlier than last month still so that's a good sign I hope!

Choccy that does sound promising. Hooray! I'm going to try the grapefruit juice this month if AF finally catches up with me Monday as I had no ewcm this month that I could see... And maybe some preseed or similar.

Onelife I am sitting on my hands. I feel AF is on her way anyway so there's no point wasting money on a test to be disappointed. If nothing I may test tue or wed but not a moment before!!

What does grapefruit juice do? Thanks for the SMEP explanation, DP would be a.fan! Stupidly poas at 9/10 days DPO and BFN. Starting to feel negative now.

I only do mimial Xmas shopping, not a fan of Xmas.

I have to say Christmas is my absolute fave time of year!!! I just love December with the cold weather, open fire and Christmas markets!!! It's so magical and amazing! :)

Grobags it's still too early for a bfp stay positive!!!

Choccy that's great!!! Hope that this means a longer LP for you! :)

Morning Ladies! Sorry, not been on for as few days so just caught up.
choccy so sorry about your doggy, hope you and your family are doing ok. x

mama Go you with that npoas thing!

I'm still far too insane for that kind of willpower!
Actually, I have a strong feeling that we may have done in this time - was sitting in a restaurant yesterday with dh and ds's and my head spun - like my brain had been turned upside down. This has happened only twice in my life - each time I was pregnant with my ds's.
I am 9dpo today. Did an IC with FMU and I think there is a faint line (dh even says he can see it). It's a shadow of a line and not sure if it's evaporation or not.

So, gonna wait a few more days and do another before going and buying a proper test - otherwise I know I'll just waste it (that willpower thing)

Technically, if it is a bfp, that puts me back on the Oct bus - but I'm rather comfy here - pls can I stay and see what happens? xx

Ahhhh LH wowsers!!!! You may be the first bfp (were let you stay here ). That dizzy thing happened to me last pg...was quite scary actually!!! Hope its a good sign for you though

I LOVE xmas too, just wish we had a money tree in the back garden!! We are saving mega hard for the next six weeks to get the boys some good pressies its come around very quickly this year but cant wait!!

I have NO idea whats going on with my body...I was convinced AF was here yest with cramps and brown spotting. Well it stopped after bath last night and now nothing!!! No spotting nothing grrrr. Its annoying me know anyone got any ideas??!!!

ps choccy ov sounds good you caught it yay...dtd tonight for extra swimmers

Hey ladies, I'm hopping on from the October bus AF is 3 days late BFN this morning on CD 35 now still no sign, so I'm currently guessing at my BFP due date, Gnomiegrace TTC#1 Cycle#5 BFP due 29th Nov?

I've came over from the October bus. I didn't get to test as A.F turned up Thursday, the witch is still lurking though so there's been no baby making for us since Wednesday. I'm next seeing D.P Wednesday 30th, so we can start to create our bungle of joy xx

Lh wow fingers crossed this is it!! I think you should be on that mahoosive October lucky list!!

Gnomie, you ain't been kicked off yet, sit tight, keep hold of your October bus ticket and good luck!!

LH! Wow I hope this is it for you! Sounds extremely promising!! :) I reckon we have your bfp for November bus, October has enough bfp's and I'd love to see one on the list!!!!! :)

So we are doing smep (started yesterday) and just realised DH is working late tomorrow, going to have to set my alarm for an hour earlier and dtd in the morning before we both go to work!! I'm so not a morning person BUT needs must!!! I shall complete the "sex plan" as arranged and agreed!!! So romantic I know!!! Haha!!

Thanks Guys
mama love it! Sex plan teehee!! Yeah, we had to squeeze a few 6am rounds in this month - like you say, needs must!!

Fingers crossed for everyone - so excited to test on Tuesday!!! Eeek!
Still trying to cling on to reality and that it may just be coincidence.

Happy Sunday! x

Afternoon all, just caught up on the last few pages.

Welcome back disney and to all new and not so new faces.

I am cd 7 today. Had a brief chat with DH this morning where he mentioned again that he might be 'firing blanks' beccause i'm not upduffed yet. He thinks that because i am off bc and have been for a year or so, that i should be preggers. Despite having no af for the first 7 months and irregular dtd!!

I think i will continue the convo later on. He doesn't have any clue about cycles and ov etc so might hust suggest more dtd (eod maybe) for the middle two weeks?

Am in two minds about opks. Bought some cheapish ones from town. I have 10. Cycle has been 25 days but was 27 last time. When should i start?

Could I please join the bus? I am ttc number 2 but it's number 1 for dp. He is very excited and knows more about cervical mucous etc than I do, it is a little disconcerting. :-) I am a little nervous, since I had a bad time with dd's dad and we are now divorced, and I am recovering from depression. Dd is two and baby obsessed, so I am sure she'll be great.

Oh, and I am due to test on 16th November. :-)

Notta I'd start tomorrow or Tuesday with your opk. Do you have any idea when you ov? Ie ewcm etc?
Hope your dh is reassured when you speak to him later, we get so hung up on ourselves not being pg, we sometimes forget they might feel they are to blame!

Thanks choccy. I don't know about ov timing hence the dratted opks so will start tomorrow.

I am sure dh will be fine, hes just in the dark about the whole process really!!

Welcome moving excellent name btw!