The magical mystery flying fabulous September bus PART 4!

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Maybe we should stop talking so much and get shagging instead??!

Just a thought

Oh and sometimes I think the DH must stand for dickhead....

Oh toffee how frustrating! I'm a paos addict too tho!! Good luck hope you get bfp soon :)

Haha!! It so does stand for that sometimes! I agree!!!

Too true wispa, i'm so glad I have you guys, if not I'd think I'd lost the plot ages ago but you lot being as crackers as me (sometimes more so, sometimes less so!) makes me know i'm not alone

Are we about to run out of room ladies? Don't want to out talk ourselves with all these peeps due to poas this week!

Cheesey and mama. I'm convinced this month too. I got lower back pain this aft but it cleared quick. If this is not my month I will be devastated... I wish it was Friday so much; maybe I'll have to poas earlier ...

Sorry purple and anyone else AF got.

M33R do it!!! Test!!! Lol I am so bad....I just have to know everything....even when it isn't about me!!! Sorry you should test when you want and I know its best to hold off as late as pos...but I've accepted that I can't...but if you can...wait...

Today I have bloat (prob from eating rubbish) twinges in abdomen, left side and right side (prob wind), nausea (prob car sicknes/too much coffee), woke with sore tummy and achy bbs at 6.30am (or was a asleep and dreamt this as bbs fine now)....honestly.... The not knowing is thee worst!!!!

I think I might mama. Not tomorrow though. Will wait til Wednesday. It's killing me but getting the bfn s has been awful BUT this time I think I am so it can't hurt, can only confirm what I know is true BUT then I think that'll be even more distressing... Sorry I'm rambling. I just wish that stork would visit me too and I didn't have this wait.

It's amazing how much you start about complete strangers' bfp; cycle length etc! :-)

Mama. They sound positive symptoms... It's hard to know what is psycho-somatic and what is real... So hard !!! That nausea today was indisputable but you don't know... Grrr

I know M33R! Its good to have the support!! :) I'm swaying between thinking my symptoms are due to af on the way and being preggers! I'm trying not to get my hopes up and I know DH really has his hopes up this cycle, he will be gutted if its not our time :(

My DH is really keen to have me pg. he's 42 so it would help to be quick. I think my DH thinks I think this is our month which is getting him kind of excited... I just hope this is our month... I'm ranting again. Fingers crossed that we get a double

Hi Mama. Thanks for your reply earlier on. It's gone too far now though for honesty to show its face. If I do get my B.F.P. I'll just have to hope he thinks of it as a happy accident, but like I said, we have be having unprotected sex since May so surely a pregnancy will not come as a complete shock to him. xx

Where are you in cycle international? Lost track of you this month

Hi m33r, I'm due a visit from the witch on 28th, so I'm on about C.D 25. I'll be testing either the weekend of early next week if A.F stays away. I've not been on here for a few days though due to being sick. Ready to pounce on him on Wednesday xx

I'm on around C.D 24, Mr33r. A.F aka as the witch is due 28th. xx

You have restraint not testing before!!!! Good for you. Glad you're feeling better - was wondering where you'd got to. I think being sick would make me more obsessed!

I will admit the temptation to test is very much there but I'd rather give myself a few days of hope and avoid any disappointment of a B.F.N if I'm not pregnant. I must also say I did toy with the thought that being sick could have been a sign as well, but would symptoms show up this early and also I think you over think things when ttc. xx

Ok, hands up all those blubbing at Midwives she says waving both hands high in the air

Hi Onelife. No not me. I cry at baby animals. I don't really find human babies that cute, it's different with your own though isn't it. xx

Didn't cry but was a bit concerned that newbie looked like she was gonna drop the baby as if it wasn't shocked enough...

Not crying but DH was squinting a lot during midwives lol he watches it with me but not certain he enjoys it haha!!!

Oh international I thought you meant you were going to tell him....oh well each to their own. I hope you do end up being honest with him at some stage even if it is after your bfp.

I'm feeling pretty rubbish tonight, very dicky tummy.....hoping its not a pre af tummy :/ spotting would usually begin tomorrow for me if af is coming!! :/

I spoke to DH and said I could see he had his hopes up this month....he said he does but that he's trying not to but can't help it....awh I just know he would be so disapointed if all his effort didn't pay off this month (saying that it was more effort for me...he loved it!!!!)

Seems like most of the chattier of us have moved on to the October bus, it's been slowing down a bit more here. Just scrolled down for the list and it looks like we still have a couple dozen people waiting for their bfps! I'm super hopeful for you all, I want more June edds!

m33r don't test yet, wait and get a clear definite answer on Friday!

I'm telling you this but desperate to test myself ... gonna hold out tho. Think I wud rather get af than an early bfn and still be wondering.

Ahhh just want this week to go quickly so I'll know either way.

Good luck to tomorrows testers!

Morning (technically) ladies.

Can't sleep due to heart burn so I thought I'd stalk mumsnet a bit more, noticed quite a few with AF/BFP due on 28th like mine is. I'm still resolved to wait to POAS until at least Friday/Saturday but part of that is me not being optimistic enough to think it'll happen for me and DP in the first cycle.

Fx though ! :)

International just a thought but do you know if he's had a vasectomy?? I'm assuming you haven't really had a contraception talk/aren't actively trying to prevent pg but it just occurred to me that maybe one of the reasons he's happy to go condom free is because he's been snipped, but not said anything.