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The September BFP bus, second thread and not even September yet

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Kemie · 29/08/2013 23:37

Please join the new bus here, the old one's all out of gas....

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DisneyDiva87 · 31/08/2013 10:07

Owlie you're not alone, my last cycle we managed to DTD just once with the 'ingredients'. My DH was was on tablets that made it very difficult for him to perform.

I can't remember what daisy was talking about now...

I didn't POAS this morning cause I know I'm not pregnant (sorry writer!). I might do it tomorrow cause its the 1st and I have 4 tests in my drawer it they are 20mlu ones. I'll have to wait for Monday for the other ones I ordered.

PurpleGeekyGirl · 31/08/2013 10:14

When I fell with ds ex-h was cycling l'etap du tour and I had to tell him on the phone. Gave him time for it to sink in anyway before he came back!

Hmmmm the gunky brown/pink cm only lasted a few hours in the end. No more last night or even today after dtd... With af if I've had it and we dtd its still there. It was 7dpo so maybe maybe maybe it could be implantation???? I've had no af pains yet either and I alway get those in three batches starting at 5-6dpo. Am really trying not to get my hopes up but failing

Good luck to everyone else. Notta a whole bottle sounds like a good idea. Hope you enjoyed it!

I def second the cocoa butter/moisturising too. I had no stretch marks at all with ds even tho I gained 4 stone in total!

PurpleGeekyGirl · 31/08/2013 10:21

Hugs owlie I can't begin to imagine how frustrating that is.

Daisy it's such a roller coaster don't be too hard on yourself. Maybe telling a few people would help with sensitivity. Hugs.

DisneyDiva87 · 31/08/2013 10:28

Daisy I would definitely tell a couple of friends and tell them everything you put in that post. You need to confide in someone or you'll just make yourself more upset. Just remember its normal and ok to get upset over TTC and I know of a few ladies who take breaks from this site for that reason.

We're always here if you need to rant/vent/be unreasonable Smile

leezl · 31/08/2013 10:31

Bloumermaid I had those exact symptoms last month, plus nausea and dizziness! Turned out to be PMS Hmm I really hope it's something else for you! FX indeed!

Nottalotta I'm not sure but certainly not stuffed peppers ConfusedGrin

Have a great Saturday everyone!

wispaxmas · 31/08/2013 11:22

Justhayley, I'd tell him over the phone, or if possible on FaceTime or Skype!

wispaxmas · 31/08/2013 11:22

Daisy, definitely tell friends, especially if they're saying things like, 'he needs a sibling ASAP!'

lucyfluff · 31/08/2013 11:25

Morning ladies!!!

More pinkish tinge after dtd last night, I felt really crampy too and sure AF is imminent :( boo. My boobs feel kind of heavy too?!

Hope we get a BFP on this thread over the wkend it will cheer me up :))

Writerwannabe83 · 31/08/2013 12:45

justhayley I told my husband over the phone because I was too excited to wait even 4 hours for him to come home and tell him face to face Grin

There is NO way I could wait 5 weeks!!

Congratulations x x

Sparrowlegs248 · 31/08/2013 13:31

Morning all! Ugh really hate AF and its a mean one this time. Had none for almost 8 yrs due to havin depo injection - god knows how people do this all the time!!

leezl enjoy that harvest!! What are you having?

I drank some pimms and a whole bottle of wine last night. Oops. On the principle that i soon will not be drinking at all. Enjoyed it though.

Have you testef disney ? Fx for you!

ChubbyKitty · 31/08/2013 13:31

Daisy I've told my friends and most of them have been supportive, all except one really.

I've found the best people to talk about it all with are the ones trying and the ones who already have babies/are pregnant.

That's just my friends though and they are a weird bunch in general!

mama31 · 31/08/2013 13:44

Morning everyone!!

Daisy I agree with the ladies you should confide in your closest friends just to take the pressure off but I understand that can be difficult if you are a private person. Wish I was a bit more like you....I can't hold my own water :/ but you know we are all here for you to share your thoughts/conerns and happiness :)

WELL....guess what arrived in the post this morning from amazon?!!! And they are staring at me....I'm sure I actually heard them speak to me....saying "go do a test, do it". INSANE?! YES....

justhayley · 31/08/2013 14:13

Daisy it def makes it a bit easier to tell a few close friends, it stops the "are you planning on having another one soon" question every few days.
Only thing about telling is they may ask you every month if your pregnant and when your BFP finally arrives it's harder to lie.

My 3 closest friends are all pregnant - one of which POAS in my bathroom just 5 weeks ago. At this point she didn't know how hard iv been TTC, when I told her a few weeks ago she felt super guilty for asking me to hold her hand whilst she peed, which wasn't what I wanted. I text her the pic of my v faint BFP or LSP (little slim positive) as it is at the moment, yesterday amd she's SO excited, hopefully not prematurely.

With DS1 I was at high risk of MC until 16 weeks, we told parents at 12 weeks, close friends at 16 and everyone else at 20 when I couldn't really hide it any longer, and accepted my LO was a sticker Grin This time im ready to burst, iv already told my 2close friends, & may have to tell another as I'm a bridesmaid in 2 weeks & not sure how the I'm not drinking at your wedding because X excuse will go down. Really hope I'm not disappointed on Monday. Think thinking iv got a BFP which ends up a BFN will be worse for me than the usual monthly BFN.

Iv done a bit of calculating with my extra long cycles I think I ovulated on CD24 this month, which would already make me 5 weeks. Can't go by LMP as that was ages ago and iv done a fair few tests since then. If I went by my LMP with DS1 I would have been due to give birth when I got my BFP lol.

DP is home in 5 weeks - if I'm already 4/5 weeks it seems crazy to wait till 10 weeks before he knows, but can't imagine having the conversation over the phone. Especially if something went wrong between then and now.
Also really don't think I could keep it a secret for that long it's killing me already and I'm not even sure.

Thinking I may send him the test in the post? Think the non digital ones keep their lines? Or could cheat and felt tip a line on the test so he understands.
Before he left I asked him if he'd want me to tell him whilst away if we got our BFP and he said Yes then No then yes then I don't no - really helpful! After so long don't think we really thought it would happen this month. I booked myself an appointment with the GP for next week to try and get treatment going so we'd have a better chance when he gets back in October.

Good Luck to everyone POAS this weekend, if I can get pregnant with all my problems you girls can too Grin

justhayley · 31/08/2013 14:15

Ps of it helps, this month every time we dtd I "helped myself along" afterwards (read somewhere clitoral orgasm after sex makes cervix contract pulling sperm in quicker), and then laid upside down for a good 20/30 mins. Grin

DisneyDiva87 · 31/08/2013 14:53

I didn't test today. Not yet anyway. I think it'd be a waste AF is surely on her way. Is that your tests from amazon arrived mama? I'm jealous you got yours already Hmm. Aberdeen is classed as highlands by post and couriers so we can't get next day delivery from a lot of places and it takes longer for stuff to get here. Bloody annoying

keepswimming1 · 31/08/2013 15:13

so I have just been in town and resisted buying a test :) I'm very impressed with myself.

Also I lost 3lbs this week...so happy :)

Good luck Disney if your testing today :)

Nulanoo · 31/08/2013 15:20

Hello everyone just getting

Nulanoo · 31/08/2013 15:22

Oopps...

On the new bus!

So today my 'symptoms' are an inquenchable thirst for water. I've just drank a litre bottle shopping round asda! And this morning I had some white coloured ewcm it was stretchy but not clear.

Can anyone help?! I'm really not sure on a definite ov day but I'm guessing it was between 10-14 days ago

internationallove985 · 31/08/2013 15:24

Hi everyone. Well it seems I'm out. A.F arrived this morning at the most inconvienient embarassing time. I'm sure you all get the picture.
He saw the funny side though. I suppose that's all you can do.
I really don't think it matters how many times you D.T.D. I think pregnancy is like a lottery really.
Congratulations to our new B.F.P's xxx

mrsmummytobe · 31/08/2013 16:02

mama & daisy my tests arrived today too! I'm holding off so far though....

mrsmummytobe · 31/08/2013 16:03

Sorry I meant to write disney not daisy! Doh!

mama31 · 31/08/2013 16:15

TMI ALERT!!!

Just been to the toilet (as felt something wet down below) and my underwear had a smear of brown coloured stain and when I wiped there was more. Could this actually be another AF after my last one only being on 12th August?!!! Or is this an implantation bleed??? Its not spotting it was quite a big smear :/

Bet its just coz my 1st af after coming off the pill was 12th august and now my cycles are gona be manic for a while :(

Anywho...yes disney the amazon tests arrived! Mrsmummytobe hold off on the testing and good luck!!! :)

mrsmummytobe · 31/08/2013 16:21

Ahhh mama sounds like implantation bleeding to me!!!!! So exciting!

mama31 · 31/08/2013 16:33

Mrsmummytobe do you reckon???

ATTENTION PREGGERS FOLK....please tell me about implantation bleeding and what it looks like!!!! Agggghhh! Why am I stressing?!!

VickyVix · 31/08/2013 16:36

mama it could be implantation :)

Just hot back from the shops, have bought myself some HPTs......just need to wait until Wednesday now.....easier said than done