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The BESH plumbing is blocked up. Where's a man with a big tool when you need one?

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FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 23/06/2013 15:57

Welcome to the BESH plumbing thread, where we have blocked pipes, dirty u-bends and leaks aplenty.

Newbies are welcome to seek out the BESHtionnaire submit highly inflated quotes for consideration. Instadiffers will be massively overcharged and sent packing.

Hmmm, this job is gonna cost a bit Wink

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TWinklyLittleStar · 17/07/2013 16:47

Oh I'm so glad the bleeding has eased and that HWHNN will be there for the scan. And that your boss is being so good. Big squeeze.

TWinklyLittleStar · 17/07/2013 16:49

And don't dare blush for sobbing! Ffs I almost started crying on your behalf and we've never met, you did well not to collapse in a puddle of despair on the floor in your office.

evilgiraffe · 17/07/2013 17:58

Absolutely no reason for Blush face! Glad to hear it's easing, and that HWHNN can come to be with you.

MissOtisRegrets · 17/07/2013 18:34

Oh Franks I missed this yesterday - I'm so sorry you're in limbo and just wanted to add an extra hand to hold. Hopefully 'tis nothing to worry about.

OhBuggerMe · 17/07/2013 19:12

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evilgiraffe · 17/07/2013 19:36

Well done, Bugs :)

JethroTull · 17/07/2013 20:13

Oh Frank Good that the bleeding has stopped. Sending you some positive sticky thoughts.

FizzyFeet · 17/07/2013 20:37

Hello all,

frank hope you're doing ok. Sending lots of positive vibes your way and joining moll in telling that bleeding to naff right orf.

bugs good skillz with the stabbing!

rasp sorry to hear the appt was a bit of a headfuck. It's so hard to keep reminding ourselves of the short term pain/ long term gain thing. I was talking to a friend who had (successful) ivf four years ago, and she could barely remember many of the details! I'm looking forward to the point where we can all look back on this period in that way.

sinky hello! Thought I hadn't seen you for a long time.
Talking of AWOL BESH, where's our norfy?

SinkyMalinks · 17/07/2013 20:55

Hiya Fizz.

I hid away getting my head sorted pre embarking on stabbing in the Autumn. Except i've only gone on a fiver today and appear to be diffed.

Am slightly shocked. But have stopped saying fuuuccckkk a lot.

evilgiraffe · 17/07/2013 21:12

Fabulous news, sinky! Grin

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 17/07/2013 21:14

Really happy for you Sinks

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lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 17/07/2013 21:17

Hurrah sinky. Big congrats! Uberclusterdiffage!

Well done for stabbing bugs. It gets quite easy, honest!

Waves from a bloaty but otherwise fine lemon!

lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 17/07/2013 21:18

Quick waves to fizzy and otis.

Big hand hold for frank. Wishing time away with you til Friday morning (when we hear what our eggs and SB's bits got upto today!)

TWinklyLittleStar · 17/07/2013 21:20

What a great FCFU sinky, huge congratulations :)

bugs I can't believe you're stabbing now, it feels like that's rolled around so quickly. Well done.

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 17/07/2013 21:20

One of my colleagues has phoned to offer to stay the night with me so I'm not alone. Bless. I've turned her down, but it's nice that people are thinking about me.

I'm feeling better mentally, there's nothing I can do either way so I've just got to wait it out till Friday then plan our next step.

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TWinklyLittleStar · 17/07/2013 21:24

What are your plans for tomorrow frank?

OhBuggerMe · 17/07/2013 21:31

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TWinklyLittleStar · 17/07/2013 21:33

Oh I'm glad I didn't just lose months of my/your life bugs :) Easy mistake to make though. I haven't been reading it because I'll get angry. And banned.

CatsCantFlyFast · 17/07/2013 22:08

Frank, have two extra hands to hold x

CaptainMoll · 18/07/2013 07:56

Frankle - thinking positive sticky thoughts for you today, hope it flies by and you get to happy scan news double quick. Thanks

Big congrats Sinky! Yippee!!!!

I'm never one to follow a trend, dear BESH, so I peed on a fiver this morning (only 1or 2 days til droid is due) and it was more arctic than a polar bears bum. Apologies to anyone who'd backed my ironidiff..
So now we're waiting to hear if clomid is the way forwards.

Drizz- hope you're well recovered from ec.

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 18/07/2013 08:06

Thanks everyone. I slept ok and thankfully it doesn't look like I've bled overnight - there's a little bit of old brown blood, but I had to, er, furkle about to find it.

I do have a slight pain, but I wouldn't call it a cramp.

My friend told me that, when she had her miscarriage she bled pretty much constantly once it started. Was this the case for others? I'm pinning my hopes on the fact that it seems to have stopped at the moment.

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lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 18/07/2013 08:15

Sorry about the artic stick moll, wish it would have been different.

Holding hands out to frank and petting with the cod of comfort. My mc started slow, but continued to increase in amount of blood. There is nothing anyone can do, except hold hands and wait. No blood overnight is good though.

Recovery from EC seemed complete last night, so I went out for dinner and had a sneaky glass of wine. I did feel quite a lot worse for wear after that. Now I am awake, working as you can tell and only ever so slightly sore in the abdomen. It was a fair bit of poking about!

FriendofDorothy · 18/07/2013 08:16

That's great news Frank. Old blood is much less worrying (although it is easy to say that but hard to deal with) so I am really hopeful that things will be good.

Just to say though, I had several bleeds, none as big as the first one, but each time it sent me into a terrible tailspin. I hope it doesn't happen again to you, but it might. Hold tight.

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