And before I catch up with everyone else (I've now moved to the laptop as I was getting frustrated with the phone so, as the washing is still in the machine and needs hanging up but not until the dry washing has been moved, it doesn't look like that early night is happening for me at all) has anyone seen this thread? It's full of women like us trying to explain why other people's bumps are so difficult to cope with.
I actually got quite irrationally
with DP's pg-friends-due-in-July yesterday (on the inside, I didn't actually say anything!) as we were out walking with three other couples who were staying with us for the weekend (hence me not being on here all the time, too busy baking cakes and playing hostess!) and we'd stopped for a drink in the pub. I was just thinking how nice it was to have 8 of us all hanging out, most of us in our mid thirties, and absolutely no baby talk, when 8-month-bump walked up and said hello and as if the bump wasn't enough, they were there having a meal with friends and she was holding their baby!!. Felt like I'd been slapped round the face with a wet fish
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Hi Lullah I tried the vit b6 for two cycles, first time LP increased to 10 days, second time 9. I've now got clomid, waiting to start next cycle, so not trying again. Is it working for you?
Glad the christening went ok Bunny
Boom the refusing to attend weddings with me would pi55 annoy me as well. Is there any justification in having to work? Would he be using up valuable holiday he could spend with you in other ways, or it it just a transparent excuse?
Kitty I made a similar decision to you on the job front. I decided that extra stress wasn't going to help ttc, and I might be on the IVF waiting list soon, so didn't need any extra disruption. Also, if I tried to steer myself back to my yellow brick road of positivity (if I could be arsed building it again after you've all finished playing jenga with the bricks) I was thinking that I wouldn't want the extra stress when pg either. I think I'm just going to stick with the status quo for at least another year, and if I'm not upduffed by then I'll reassess. Having said that, there will be opportunities available in two terms, when pg collegue's maternity leave ends and there's another staff reshuffle. So might be rethinking sooner than a year, but definitely not before next Easter.
It's now 11, I still haven't sorted the washing or got my stuff ready for the morning, and I was so determined to get a nice early night before my lesson observation in the morning. To pass my performance management it needs to be graded outstanding. No pressure then
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