I get knocked down, but I'll get knocked up again, cos you're never gonna keep me down... The big fat posifrickintivity thread for people TTC after MC.

[SaggyOldClothCatPuss]

I thought I'd start the new thread and earn some brownie points with the posifrickintivity Gods...

thanks for the fishslap emki. and missP i'm so glad I'm not the only one with sore achey boobs, although obviously i'm sorry that yours are too. maybe if they're still hurting tomorrow i'll waste a stick poas tomorrow morning

oh no flower! lucky lucky lucky for black pants.

emki i think that i would poas tomorrow if i were you. that's just because i love to POAS and i want SOMEONE to tomorrow.

Well aly I'm flying back tomorrow .... Sister coming over in the evening - dh away ..... Oohhhh maybe I will - but it's quite early ..... Is there anyone else????

thanks to you girls I had a dream last night about flooded pads - there was blood everywhere!
doing my head in....

did anyone poas this morning?

Sorry aly didn't mean to give you girls nightmares!!

Hoping for some bfps today :)

Hi ladies - I'm back after a month long absence!
Decided to take some time out after a horrible AF last month which reminded me of the even more horrendous MC I had in March.

Glad to see some people have had great news though, and sorry to see some familiar names here still, but glad you're all staying so positive, it really is lovely and reassuring to know you're not alone.

So anyway, as per the rules, I POAS today and got a ng, but I was maybe being a bit premature anyway as my AF isn't due until Wednesday next week, though I'm not confident of good news.

I've been getting these awful sharp pains in what feels like my right hand ovaries/tubes, the pains I got just before I started to miscarry so maybe it's going to be bad news again, though I'm secretly hoping it might be some sort of bedding-in pain. either way, I never used to get them before the MC so obviously something is not quite right.

Hi ladies, i havent posted much, not been here very long. Had decided it was actually too soon to TTC but got a BFP yesterday! Feels a bit unreal to be pregnant so soon as MC was only beginning of May. Nervous but good news of course and I realise how lucky i am.
I hope you ladies have a great June full of BFPs. You really deserve it for your efforts and how you support each other with such good humour. x

Big congratulations rainbow great news & really hope it works out for you this time.

sundance probably a bit early for BFP if AF not due until wed. Hope what you're feeling is because of something gd happening though.

I'm 4dpo. It's dragging! Have gd weekends all. Weather looks nice

rainbow that's great news. Lucky thing!
I'm really hope this one sticks, I'm sure it will.

don't give up hope yet sundance

Rainbow that's really great news. Lets hope you have a sticky bean this time.

Congrats rainbow

Had my scan earlier and my cyst has gone (does a little dance of excitement)!! So, onto clomid round 3 and this is going to be our month a June bfp it is! Hoping I can hold on to that posifrickintivity!

Congrats rainbow xxx great news xxx

Great news flower xxx

Congrats rainbow great news.

Good news about cyst flower good luck for next cycle.

Great news rainbow! Hoping it all works out well for both of us and that we're joined by lots of others from this thread in June.

Congrats Rainbow, and great news Flower

Well I POAS Friday but for all the wrong reasons. My CB digital still said 2-3 and I was really hoping it would have jumped to 3+ since Sunday. I know I shouldn't have done it but it was calling my name from the drawer I couldn't resist so that started me off...

I then rang the Dr for my hcg results. 441. Now I know I cant confirm untill I have my next bloods (next week) to see if its quadrupled or whatever. But from what I've googled (I know, I know) it doesn't appear to be looking very positive for me feeling sorry for myself today. Wish this mess hadn't happened, I should be on day 13 now ready to dtd with optimism for my next cycle. Sorry for the self pity. Slap me with a wet fish and send me some unmumsnetty hugs please!

Sending lots of luck to everybody else.

x

Congrats rainbow great news.

Good news about cyst flower good luck for next cycle.

over did you use FMU? I think the dating aspect is only accurate with FMU. I guess it's just a waiting game - like this whole ttc malarkey.

Sorry you're feeling low but maybe there's still hope. Just have to wait & see.

It's horrible when you think you're taking steps in the right direction & then feel like it was all for nothing.
Rubbish. Hope you're ok.

Hi everyone

Can I join this thread? Spoken to some lovely ladies on the MC thread over past 4 weeks. Have been getting back on it pretty much straight away, no sign of AF yet, am hoping it won't be too long.

Congratulations to all with a BFP this week x

Evening all!

Had a text from my ex-husband this morning to say him and his tart girlfriend are expecting in December. This is the man that didn't want kids and was shooting lazy swimmers when we needed tests. He ran off with her as she was "more fun" and didn't want commitment etc... What a load of f*cking bollocks.

Trying not to think about it as I have my hen do this weekend, but struggling to push it to the back if my mind...

over sending you positive thoughts and crossing my fingers it works out ok x

Over, firstly, have a hug. Secondly, 400+ is within normal parameters for hcg at roughly 5 weeks PG. if you are expecting 3+ on your digi test then 5 weeks is about right. Don't forget, 1/ you have no idea when you actually ovulated, and 2/ every PG is different.
I can so so relate to how anxious you feel right now, and I know that trying not to worry right now is absolutely IMPOSSIBLE, but have some posifrickintivity, and a wet fish gentle tap. We're all right here behind you honey, chin up. It ain't over 'till the fat lady sings, and I ain't singin! sore throat!

And also don't forget, digi tests can be out by up to TEN days!

alice - yes was fmu. Thank you and thank you flower for thinking of me.

Saggy - Thanks for your lovely post, made me smile

Tomkat - Welcome and wishing you lots of luck.

Sal - I wouldn't even waste time thinking of him!

x

over. Exactly what saggy said and also a big hug. The waiting is horrendous. Stay positive and take care of yourself.

over I know how you feel. I will feel just as anxious as you if I get a bfp. I don't think I can relax until I have my 12 week scan. I know nothing I can say can make it feel better. But hopefully it will all be good news for you.