euro why, thank you. Here's to your ovaries and everything else playing ball for this cycle. Your hol should, hopefully, help. Xxx
jooooocie you are on the hardcore drugs and cycle programme now luv. No going back ! Try to enjoy it (easier than said, I know) but you will be well under way in a few days. It's well exciting, as we say down sarf.
crisps if I ever catch you not swearing and being generally potty mouthed on here, you will get a dig in the ribs. Swear. Rant. Rave. Swear some more. Swear just because you can. I think we have all been at the end of others 'wisdom' and this weird revisionist kind of fore-telling of history (if that makes sense !) because of the situation we find ourselves in. The 'Oooohhhhh, I just knew it would work for you this time' bullshit. Why ? Because you saw it in your tea leaves ? Because you have some sixth sense ? Because you saw it in your third fucking eye ? Bullshit hit you did luv. But, we grit our teeth and take it because if we do challenge this outrageous nonsense, we are accused of being too emotional or hysterical (and 'clearly' not coping). It's all bollocks, really. I think we end-up internalising a lot because of the lack of empathy shown to those in this situation.....maybe it will make us stronger in the end. It better had, or else I will spend the next thirty or forty years being a right bitch.
twinks thank you. That made me a bit teary you daft moo ! I have a friend who tried to empathise with my situ (she knew her and her other half would have difficulty conceiving so when they started to try, went straight to IUI and got diffed third try, after a total of three months trying). In the same period of time we've been trying, she has met a fella, got engaged, married, bought lovely house, had a year of enjoying marred life, and sprogged and yet is an expert in the emotional rollercoaster of ttc. Ffs. She's lovely and well meaning (but she does drive me mental sometimes). It's a bag of shit comparing our lives to others (especially when they have the ones we want) but we have to think that maybe our paths will take a turn that we didn't expect, but that doesn't mean we won't get to the end we want. Chin-up lass. You sound as though you are in good hands.
buzz go forth and be a train blazer for the de's amongst us. Will you have wifi where you are ? If not, sort it ! We are here to support you every step of the way. X
Where is motor ? I hope she's ok.
Noks xx