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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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RedRobin1 · 06/12/2012 09:12

Hopefully this is the last thread we start and all our dreams and wishes come true.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 05/01/2013 08:03

So I ferreted = interested. Bloody bloody iPhone

kittykatsforever · 05/01/2013 08:26

Oh when that's so funny GrinGrinGrin
My dh does exactly the same thing and I hear him talking like a teenager to friends online I have to remind myself he's not 12 sometimes
He probably thinks its the best thing ever as his mates will now think after all this time in a marriage he's the luckiest buggar in the world, win win really!!

kittykatsforever · 05/01/2013 08:27

Dtd before + ov definatly the best time, it's a good omen and fancy the story to tell grand kids ha ha

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 05/01/2013 08:39

This is the same friend who back in May / June phoned twice and knocked on the door in the middle of dtd. He really isn't helping matters.

Thingymajigs · 05/01/2013 08:57

Haha that's brilliant when. Grin I know what it's like to have a man-child for a partner although as I have 2 boys who are 12 and 9 he is the ideal partner for me. Besides, I take myself too seriously so it's nice to have that balance. My partner is under no delusions that I suddenly find him irresistible though, he knows my chart too well.

weechops · 05/01/2013 09:06

When that is hilarious! Glad your dh still took you up on your offer though :)

Grannyapple · 05/01/2013 10:02

Hi Ladies...delurking. Was on here for a few months, got BFP in nov...now 11+4 & feeling like normal again...nuchal scan next Friday...can't come quick enough!

Huge congrats to weechops & kitten Grin

And when your seduction story is hilarious....but at least you got your wicked way Grin Grin Grin

Lots of 2013 baby dust to everyone...this thread keeps me sane & is too too funny with all the stories!

fatasbutter · 05/01/2013 11:07

Hi granny! Welcome to the madhouse!

Well girls I am quite Envy of all your compliant DH's - feeling quite depressed today at the thought of being still on here while you all have babies Sad. My DH has a criminally low sex drive so as well as trying to work and look after a toddler, I have to try and stealth seduce him (doesn't want the pressure of ttc/ov) and most of the time I get shot down - it does wonders for a girls self-esteem!! So I struggle to dtd more than 1-3 times at all in a month - it is very sad Sad and I could never tell anyone that in RL as I find it a bit humiliating (even though I know he has always had a lower sex drive than me it has been worse since the mmc) - oh woe is me!! Sorry if I have depressed anyone but I could dare tell anyone else!! Blush

Thingymajigs · 05/01/2013 12:14

Try not to worry fatas, this is much more common than you'd ever imagine. If we relied on my DP's sex drive then we'd only be dtd 2 or 3 times a month which is why I went for charting, ovulation sticks and temping quite early on. He used to also struggle with the pressure but is much better lately and desperately wants his own child so he puts in the work. Could you discuss this with him or would that put him off more? Sorry to hear AF arrived. Sad

twinklestar2 · 05/01/2013 12:17

Hey granny, I remember you! . Yeah we're still here :(

Still chuckling at your story when, glad you managed to dtd.

Fatas - don't be [hgreen] or [hsad], I've been on this thread for ages and always feel like I'll be the last one here to turn the light out. You already have one child so you will def have another, you just need to get the timing right.

Cd13 here. Weird to think that OV is over according to the CBFM. Going to keep going every 2-3 days tho just in case. My New Years resolution is to get a BFP, I'll fuck every day if I have to!!!!!!!!!

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twinklestar2 · 05/01/2013 12:21

The weird things we do hey monthly?! Just in case they might affect us getting pregnant!

twinklestar2 · 05/01/2013 12:21

Pressed send too soon but I was going to add I don't believe in karma, fate or god really apart from when it comes to ttc!

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 05/01/2013 13:50

twinkle I think we are ovulating at the same time. How exciting. I am meant to test early to get the progesterone from my research midwife.

fatasbutter · 05/01/2013 19:59

Thanks thingy and winkle - you're right tho I do have one already and even if I can't have another I still feel like the luckiest person in the world to have my gorgeous boy!

When girls live together their cycles get in sync with each other - is that what's happening here?! Synchronised ovulation?!! Wink

Kittenkatzen · 05/01/2013 21:02

GrinGrinGrin laughing here at your story when definitely sounds like something I'd do! Hope you don't bump into that particular mate any time soon!

Hope you're all having a lovely weekend girls

twinklestar2 · 05/01/2013 22:47

Will be doing my 4th dtd in a row tonight! Looking forward to a rest tomorrow :D

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 06/01/2013 15:07

Blimy twinkle I think your shagging has killed the thread. Opk sticks have gone negative today. We only dtd on Wed and Friday, there is no hope tonight. I am feeling v v ill and dh is just as bad Sad.

fatasbutter · 06/01/2013 15:18

Yeah wink (like your new nickname?!) you've driven us away with EnvyEnvy - just kidding! Wink

What's up when? Have you caught manflu from your DH?! Wink

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 06/01/2013 15:37

It's just a cold but I'm so full of snot it's disgusting. Bizarrely in this house I'm normally the one who gets man flu dh is quite brave.

fatasbutter · 06/01/2013 16:13

Ah bless him! We give men such a hard time don't we?! Go and take some strong drugs and a hot chocolate (or lemsip?!) and put your feet up! X

twinklestar2 · 06/01/2013 17:25

Haha my shagfest isn't over just yet! Gonna keep going for a couple of weeks just in case. I told you I'd fuck every day if I had to! I'm gonna get my BFP this year!

RedRobin1 · 06/01/2013 17:32

Grin Good going winkle I'm planning to join you in that from next week!

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kittykatsforever · 06/01/2013 19:30

Love winkles moto
" I ll fuck evey day of I have too" should be the next thread title!!
You definatly put me to shame, when trying for dd we had just got to the point of doing it about twice around ov Blush
This time it was every other day at fertile time so around 5/6 times but once that opk went to negative it was once more for good luck then see you in 2 weeks ha ha

twinklestar2 · 06/01/2013 22:24
Grin

Def think that's a good title for the next thread, just hope I'm not on it :)

Kitty, in all the months I have been TTC I have tried every combination of DTD! Waiting till I ov, dtd eod around fertile period, every day around fertile period, eod throughout the month... I'm tired, man! We usually stop in the 2 weeks after OV time but it's my new years resolution to make an effort to dtd all month just in case. Its been really nice actually this month :) I could go again tonight even though I dont have to!

Does anyone else (I mean those still TTC) feel a lot more relaxed now its January? Feels like we have the whole year to get pregnant... obvs hope it doesnt take that long, but does anyone feel it too?