TTC after recent mc - Thread 2

[woody17]

Hi everyone - I've started the new thread as our original one is nearly full.

I really hope that this is the one where we all get our BFPs and don't have to experience any more heartache.

I don't do whispers, I'd rather hope for the best! Congrats blol and gary! This is a good month! Can only hope the luck continues to rub off...

Have started dtd in earnest, it's only cd11 but can't hurt eh? Here's hoping I'm joining you BFP ladies in a couple of weeks better do or I can sense a massive breakdown on the horizon

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bear have you been to your booking appointment yet? If not, when you go just tell the midwife you don't know exactly what your dates are because of dodgy post-mc cycles. Then they'll send you for an early dating scan for free xxx

Hi Bombastic that's not a bad idea... I could certainly try. Altho mc was on Oct 15th, so not that dramatic... Not phoned up yet was thinking of phoning tomorrow or Thursday. There's a self-referral system here (East Yorks) but didn't want to call too early. I'm 5+1 ish (by ov) or 6 (by lmp) and I wanted to get past 5+2 before taking steps... Will do another digi on Thursday to see if I get 3+ but would worry that if I left it that late I might not get a booking appt before Xmas.

Oh, and do enjoy the DTDing

Wow!!! Congratulations to both!

I so need to get me a 'b' name!!

Congratulations Bellisima and GaryB! On a very positive roll now....

Very faint bfp here too....I was hoping for bfn

How many days has it been thunder since you started bleeding? I have been told it can take ages
I'm still in freaking out mode. Did a frer. Have one more for tomorrow and a digi.
And need to tell DH too!!!! Told you lot first!!!

Hey lol, how will you tell DH? I told MN lot first time too- ha!!

I had ERPC on the 13th Nov, so 13 days ago. Grrrr!!

Boo to the BFP Thundercats. If it's faint though it must be going in the right direction? Must be so frustrating though

Ahh thanks bear. It's a bit bizarre hating a bfp eh?!

I guess that getting past tomorrow will be a good milestone for you? I hope it whizzes past without too much stress!

Thunder I had a faint one at 14 days. Give it a week or so and it will all be gone, don't worry.

Congrats to the bfps! Am jealous but in a very happy way :)

No af has arrived yet for me, so looks like I won't be getting my Christmas BFP. Boo hiss.

Are you waiting til after af comes to ttc again, pink?

Thank you for the poas advice, I'll try to stay positive for a bit while longer (not literally)

Ibelieveinpink when was your mc? I'm still waiting too. Maybe we'll get a nice BFP for a new year's present

I think it can take a month for a bfn. Thund you were quite far along so it may take longer
Hope it ends soon!!!
I'm trying and failing not to panic!

Hiya and wooohooh for Blol and GaryB
and for me as I got a BFN! Sorry you didn't get one thundercats but I did start to mc on Oct 14th so it feels like a long time coming to me.
Now just to wait for AF, think i'll definitely be waiting as I'm still getting brown blood and weird stringy shit so I want to get a period to flush it all out. Hope nobody is eating their tea whilst reading this :)

Bear, hope things are better between you & OH now?

(((bthunder)), hope you get your bfn soon,
Glad you have your bfn kittyb, I got my bfn on day 2 of mc & continued bleeding for a week after that.

As I've gone from mc to bfp without af in between will the GP be likely to want me to go for an early scan?
I'll do a digi tomorrow, and if it's still moving along in 2 weeks, phone the GP then (unless i have another mc, in which I'll see them asap)...

Omg another 2 bfp's, huge congrats blol and GaryB!!!! Here's to the B's. Wishing yous a h & h pg. (seriously need to get a b in the name)

Sorry thunder cats on the bfp. It just takes time.

Kitty bump I had lots of what you describe and got it again with first af.

Peanut liking your new name. I'm on cd 21 at moment. If its not a bfp next week af would be welcome also as it would mean a normal cycle. Good luck with the dtd fest!!!!

Fx for everyone else waiting on bfp's.

Bunchinbanjo?

Thanks for the nice words guys, I'm not very patient with this waiting game.

kitty I'm not surprised you're waiting- cant imagine that 'dried blood and stringy shit' is the best for making you feel saucy anyway.

I am so super pleased for these bfps, here's to sticky beans this time.

Thunder, yes waiting for next af. To be honest am waiting for bleeding to properly stop ( well, start again, then stop) as has been pretty much continuous spotting since.

Diet coke, my mc started on the 17th oct, had erpc 26th oct. ooh yes, maybe if it hurries up I could be in for new year! Next year better be much better than this year!

Ha ha thunder yes somewhat of a mood killer [grin ] sending you BFN vibes - but only you, BFPs for everyone else please x

Hugs to everyone hoping for BFNs - took me three weeks to get mine and it was really frustrating. AF came 2 weeks after that.

I don't want to kill the thread and all the positive vibes, but I've been wondering about this bleeding and wondered if anyone knows more about it- cant even find info through google.

So why do we keep bleeding after ERPC? What are our bodies doing at that point?

Happy to pm if I shouldn't be asking this here, but I really like to know what's going on!

I don't really know thund but I think it's the lining coming out. I don't know why it starts and stops though. Not very helpful sorry.
Did a digi today and it said 2-3 weeks. I'm starting to believe it.

lol! I believe it! x