November 2012 BFP bus

[TakingTheStairs]

Welcome to the November 2012 BFP bus for those of us that didn't make it on the October Bus and anyone else hoping for a BFP in November.

Passengers on Board
Taking the Stairs. Cycle 2. BFP due Nov 2nd

trying so hard to not think about it and symptom spot. But it's hard when i have sensitive nips today and been cramping since cd14. The cramping has cranked up a bit this evening and is actually quite sore watching a film and finding it hard to ogle over Ryan Gosling Don't know if i'm only noticing it due to looking for it iykwim, but i don't think i usually get cramping - normally only just before af. Also feeling heavy in the uterus and a constant wet feeling (sorry tmi) The cramping seems tpo be pretty central with odd little twinges on LHS. im 7dpo btw

la la la la must stop thinking about it ALL the time.

horse i'm so sorry to hear your news - i think tracking your next cycle is a good positive plan

lots of luck to everyone

Oh god horse I'm so sorry. I didn't understand what you meant in your post but now it has all become clear. I hope you don't think I was being completely ignorant prattling on about myself and not acknowleding your MC :(

Feel like a right idiot now.

Help.... ov time is approaching (i think) and i have seriously lost my mojo. How can i get it back, even just a little bit?

MrsWajs, no worries! I didn't take anything from your post...aside from [hconfused] about how messed up your cycles are.
If you're trying to keep away from temping/OPKs etc there is a group of us using the old Just Shagging approach to it here, lots of us are on this bus atm too (and being on more than one conception group fills that urge to go babymaking crazy).
We're stuck with 2 or 3 very small little ones as we're in a 2 bed atm (we own, very neg equity so we're stuck until the market picks up) too!

Calm, I got my very faint bfp on 9dpo, I think 7 is too early for a line (9 is too early for most brands) but holding out that you get a bfp this month, all the symptoms sound promising.

Jelly, could you get OH to do almost everything? [hgrin]
If there is any book/film/etc that turns you on, even just a little would that help you get in the mood?

Think I have a BFP [hgrin] did a poundland cheapie yesterday (11 dpo roughly) and got a if you squint it's there + so went and got a superdrug one and POAS this morning and got a stronger but still faint positive gonna do a frer tomorrow....don't think it's an evap line it's sitting staring at me right now and it appeared within time limit [hhmm]

AF not due til 31st or 4th depending on cycle

This bus appears to be moving very slowly! 6dpo, some lower ab pain yest, tho pain is probably too strong a word. Nothing else to report just counting down to poas day and thinking if this isn't my month I may not get the Dec bus and just give myself some time out to relax and be a normal person again. Cycle 6 of actively ttc and over 12 months of not trying not to, seriously takes its toll.

Hugs and cake to everyone who needs it

Hey all was supposed to.be testing today,but have lost all optimisum and cba to.be honest i no it will be bfn.

So just gonna wait till af arrives tbh

ooh ginger your news sounds promising! fx for tomorrow and keep us updated!
hai same as you, i'm gonna hold out as horse recommended. will try and be patient and wait til as near to mid next week as i can! altho i have a couple of sticks waiting in bathroom cupboard and self control is not a strength of mine!
paah agree - wish bus driver would be their foot down
jelly have u tried conceive plus? not tried it myself but may help. this month our DTD was v wierd around ov as you know you're doin it because you must rather than because the mood gets you.

Yeah my self-control very quickly dissapeared hence POAS so soon and of course getting a very very faint BFP possibility I went and got more sticks lol

Cheers ladies just can't face the whole shagging for a reason would rather baby making wasn't so mechanical. Need to get a grip though. Signing out for a few days be back when im on the two week wait x

Hi fellow passengers a quick hello while I have internet signal

horse my darling, I am so so so sorry that thigs didn't work out. Sending you some very un MN ((((hugs))))
I'll update the list when I get to a pc rather than being on my phone.

I've bought some frer, I know its not very sensible to test too early in case a bfp doesn't stick but I've had an emotional weekend (scattered my very much loved dog's ashes) and I've had to deal with my not so nice sister too so I'm allowing myself an early test in the next couple of days
please cross your fingers for me

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend x

Hi just a quick update from me, tmi but when i wiped earlyer i had some pinkish blood on tissue thought this was the startof af but now nothing?!

Af has never started with spotting before it has littrally been wipe dark red blood then af in full swing straight away quite, heavy, so have no idea whats going on ?

If i had a normal cycle lenght wud not be due af till the 4th nov but going on last months 21day cycle i wud be due 2moro which is why i thought maybe it wss af early but i have never had spotting day b4 af due before.

Anyone wanna shed some light on this??
Has this happened to anyone before did it turn into af or did it result in a bfp

Implantation bleeding Hai?

hai really hope it's implantation not AF. guess you'll only know if continues tomoz...

i'm comin down with a cold and i'm havin definite crampy feelings plus i've been totally irritable today and have had pre-AF spots and sore boobs for a week. so expectin AF tonight/tomoz. need cake. or microwave brownie already had wine and chocs

taking my fingers firmly x for you. sounds like tough wknd - hope brightens up with a bfp.

Ginger, oooh! Exciting! Fingers are crossed for frer tomorrow!

Fingers are also crossed for you taking, sorry about your dog. x

Hai, never had spotting myself but it might be that...or your af randomly going WTF, hoping you get a bfp out of it!

for pixie.

paah, same here (well 9 months of ttc, 5 months of which we've been trying to pay attention to ovulation), we were going to give it a break for oct/nov/dec but having this mc makes me want a sticky bfp more than anything.
Hope you get a bfp this month & have to give the Dec bus a miss for a better reason!!

I wish we could keep the [hangry] all year around, I've always pictured AF to be an angry little witch.

Fx taking and hai hope it's a BFP on its way for you x and thanks horse and pixie been feeling not crampy but sort of stretching?! sensations in lower abdomen area...okaaaay [hhmm] and been starving past couple of days

bus seems crowded, maybe standing room. just been declined for adoption, have 2yr old ds and they don't want me to apply until he is at least for4 so after lots of annoying timewasting they finally told us no on Thursday. decided last night might as well try for another. 2 late mc had been putting me off. so here i am straight from the adoption boards. hello everyone [hgrin]

Hi Calm! Here's hoping! Bet you'll be up the duff and going strong by January

Aww thanks horse you're a sweetie. I like your positive attitude, let's hope your body and brain can get in sync! unlike mine which woke me up at 5.00am on a sunday

Nice to meet you calm what crappy news about adoption. Hopefully you'll only be on the bus for a short time.

taking my heart goes out to you, our furry babies also mean the world to us.

Fx to everyone testing soon. My symptoms seem to have stopped and I've now caught the cold that seems to be going around so I'm just going to snuggle under a blanket at the back of the bus and see what happens.

Hey all well there has been absolutly no more spotting or anything since that one wipe yesterday, so am a tad confused now

I did think of implantion but didnt want to get hopes up, quick question tho if it was indeed implantation how long after wud i expect to get bfp?

Fx for everyone testing soon x

Just done frer and got a BFP [hgrin] line appeared before the control line [shocked] ive never had a BFP before AF is due [hhmm] btw paah I got the stuffy nose bit of cold (so its not even a cold ) for a week now and one of my friends did as well when she was pg it's how she twigged with each of her DC hai good luck :) and hi calm offers banana cake to all the passengers :)

Ooooo I've missed loads!!! stupid twatting 18 hour shifts for a nobjockey boss ahem. ginger that's fantastic news! Congratulations!!
Hi calm, no need to stand, this bus has lots of squishy sofas and fluffy cushions, pull up a pew! Sorry to hear about the adoption, don't know what gives them the right to play god and say no whole different rant but I hope you're okay x
taking I really feel for you Hun so sorry it's horrid when we have to say goodbye to our furry babies (paah sorry I stole your phrase didn't wanna just say dogs lol) hope you're ok xx
hai it sounds like it could be an exciting week for you! Fx crossed for you, when are you testing?
And good morning to all :)

• fresh banana milkshakes on offer here

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Massive congrats Ginger!!! Wishing you a sticky, uneventful pg & hope the cold goes away soon!

calm, how irritating that they didn't tell you soon, hope your stay on the buses is short & sweet. x

Hai, what cd are you on? I'd give it a week (or 5 days if you have lots of spare tests).

paah, DS decided to wake up at 0430 (the 'new' time as well, grrrrh!)