Hop on board the October 2012 BFP bus

[takingthestairs]

I will be your conductor thread starter for all of us that are hoping for a BFP in October 2012.

Allow me to start.

takingthestairs. Cycle 1 BFP due Oct 2nd

Ha indeed nic and after I made him have a vasectomy when we were together too evil cackle good news on your nerve enjoy your shag

That's quite funny, Purple...at least he can't be a lazy twat for anyone else. Service to society, I reckon! :-)

lol indeed, that's my perspective too

Updating list to include me:
Ella0 - cycle 3. BFP due Oct 1st
Littlehelp cycle 1 BFP due Oct 1stAnotherCerealNameChanger - cycle 6(?ish NTNP) BFP due 1st/2nd
VioletCherry - cycle 2. BFP due Oct 2nd
MrsTwinks - Cycle 1 after MC. BFP due Oct 2nd
Minaa - Cycle 1. BFP due Oct 2nd
Weechops - cycle 4. BFP due Oct 3rd
Peacock - cycle 4. BFP due Oct 3rd
PerpetualProvocateur - cycle 2. BFP due Oct 4th
TuesdayNightClub - cycle 13. Happy Birthday BFP due Oct 5th
TakingTheStairs - cycle 1. BFP due Oct 5th
JellyCurls - Cycle 1 after chem - BFP due 1st wk of Oct sometime
Addictedtocrunchies - cycle 2. BFP due Oct 6th
PerditaMcLeod - Cycle 1. BFP due Oct 7th
Chookford - Cycle 1 after MC. BFP due Oct 8th
Almond - Cycle 3. BFP due Oct 9th
Wavesandsmiles - Cycle 1. BFP due Oct 9th
LexiLoganberry - Cycle 2. BFP due Oct 9th
33PinkLadyApple - Cycle 2. BFP due Oct 9th
Littlepinkfizz - cycle 3 after mc. BFP due Oct 12
Sazzababs, Cycle 1 after mmc, BFP due 13th October
HelloMist. Cycle 5. BFP due 13th - 15th October
kNickerBockerGloryCherry - BFP due 15th October
BlueSkySoftSand - Cycle 3. BFP due around 17th October (I think!)
MadameJ - Cycle 4 - BFP due somewhere around 18th October??
Sorelip - cycle 1. BFP due ...?
PurpleGeekyGirl - cycle 2 - BFP due 23 October
Woody17 - cycle 3 since 1st mc cycle 1 since 2nd mc - bfp due 25th Oct ish
Blargl - cycle 2 - bfp due oct 28th
Stickybeans - WTF cycle. BFP due ?

Any more Curly Wurly's on the go?! damn I love a Curly Wurly!! Littlehelp have you tested yet?! Its so exciting.... come on the BFP!!!!

Purple you are an inspiration to us all, if only more women did that to useless men... worls would be a better place!

lol chook not sure he'd agree. I think his actual words (2 years after we split) were "if you have a child with someone else I'm not sure how I will feel given you MADE ME DO THIS". issues much I think it says it all when I say my lovely BF is more of a dad to my child than his biological 'father' has been in his whole life sigh

passes out curlywurlys and opens a mega bag of jelly tots. Mmmm jelly tots

Oh god jelly tots & tooty fruities are my absolute favs!

Yeah it is so annoying when biological parents just cant take the responsibility isnt it.. I have a 7yr old step-daughter who I have helped raise with my dh since she was 18months, she does see her mother but tbh she is useless very selfish woman who struggles to put her childs needs before her own! makes me so cross when people like that just have kids without much thought, and then all these lovely people who would shower them with love struggle! grrrrrr

opens more jelly tots, I like how they make my mouth fizz

OMG, that's my ex-dh too... Pathologically i-n-c-a-p-a-b-l-e of putting someone else before himself. And no it's not too early to get angry but it's not good either . Karma. That's my mantra!

chookford Tested bfn, too early i think (i hope) lol

Ella not got a clue how many days to be honest trying not to think about it too much,
Had spotting last thurs/fri so prob best to test again then not due till 1st anyway

The suspense! this week is going to be loooonnnngggg

ooohh chill pills, good call!!

Yeah what goes around comes around, she does me me laugh though she is now talking about wanting more kids with her bf... cant look after the one she has let alone more! should be sterilised in my opinion!

Right time for a anyone else?

OOOO Little yes hopefully just a shy one, will hopefully have a bfp by next week!!! fx!

I love jelly tots - can't remember the last time I had some but I've got a real craving now!

little hopefully it's just too early and you'll get your BFP soon.

You guys have me craving jelly tots now

littlehelp Fx for next wk, I'm sure the BFN was just because you were testing so early.

Grrrs at the pathologically incapable fathers..... My 2 haven't seen their real dad for aproaching 4 years, and we haven't had maintenance for a long time before that. We don't even know where he lives. Fortunately, DH adores them, and treats them as his own, as do the rest of his family.

I feel utterly pants today - threw up this morning (several times) and am not enjoying my . There is a stomach bug doing the rounds, so i think it must be that. Although DH kept giving me "knowing winks" as I threw up into the toilet. Lovely. Far too soon to test - I had my coil out 6 September (never had a single visit from AF the whole time that was in), and kind of had AF on the 9th (but it only lasted a day), so I was thinking 9 October would be the very earliest I can test. (That is also the day we are actually moving house!)

little probably too soon as the others (while busy scoffing their jelly tots) have said. Fx for testing next week!

Cd 12 toady but still only a faint line. However, romance out the window and we are planning to DTD tonight. Que sera ,sera! (breaks into song a la Vera Lynn!)

at purple and her pathetic ex!

Good morning to everyone and their jelly tots..

Oh getting little crampy pains on and off today .

Could that be me getting ready to ovulate?

Please, please, please...

Sorry, MIA for the last few days!
I think we are just about pass our conception window this month, lots of DTD so hoping for a good result soon.
I was feeling quite bloated and crampy for a few hours last friday evening CD19 (31day cycle) and have now come to the conclusion that this was probably ovulation cramps. Does anyone else experience these?
I paid little attention to them at the time as I didn't realise that they might be anything to do with my cycle. I just started keeping a bit of a note of any possible cramps/twinges last month and this matched up with same feeling last CD19. We DTD CD18 but not over the weekend as we were staying at a friends and I thought ovulation had occurred earlier in the week due to EWCM. Does anyone think that this month might be a right off and we should have DTD on and after crampy evening?
Don't worry any of your thoughts appreciated....

littlepinkfizz I had similar feeling a few days ago. Would you plan to DTD before, during or after the crampy feeling? or just all of the above!!!

Arrggghhhhh!!!! 8 days to go until AF is due and it's driving me crazy! Been symptom spotting like mad,

1. Am completely knackered, has 9 hours kip last night and could go to sleep right now!
2. Sore boobage - DH gave me a cuddle this am and it hurt!!
3. Starving - (but this is not unusual tbh!!)
4. the thought of Lager makes me want to hurl (and this IS VERY odd)
5. Weird feelings in my lower right hand side not really pains JUST WEIRD FEELINGS

However, dont need to pee too much ( but bit of a camel) and dont feel sick (well a bit but have just scoffed a big bag of minstrals) and no discharge (sorry TMI)

Tried to talk to DH about this, but he says helpfully - nothings definate until the test says so!!! (pisses me off too!)

6. Add slightly irratable and emotional (and have been since Friday to this list!)

Please tell me I am not the only one! and help me get through to at least Monday before i POAS!

shiney, wow you have lots of symptoms! Fingers crossed for a BFP.
How many dpo are you if you don't mind me asking?

I'm on day 3 of the 2ww and I've no symptoms at all :(
I had loads over the weekend when I got my smiley on the opk. Huge emotional mood swings, nipples very obviously changed colour and size, and cramps in my lower abdomen. So I am 100% sure that ovulation happened.
...
God I really hope things take hold. I guess it just is far to early to be getting any symptoms but I live in hope!

violet I would think (in my non medical opinion) that you ovulated when you had the ewcm, not necessarily when you had the cramps. I know I ovulated on Saturday, but I had cramps up to last night too.
And the swimmers can live for days, so fx everything is as it should be.

far too* early.

Thanks, Taking your non medical opinion is very welcome
I don't want to count myself out of Oct before we had even finished Sept!

Taking

I think im 6/7 DPO AF is due early Wed (normally very regular!).

I was feeling ok until about Thurs/Friday and then became a moody, irratable biatch! then all of the other symptoms started, however they could just be PMT! So trying not to get my hopes up too much, just feel different iykwim!

FX for some symptoms coming your way soon, am not sure if mine are symptoms or I am seeing them as symptoms, Kinda ducked out of the game last month due to not DTD around the right time, but this time we did - lots and im not sure if its all in my head!!

xx

violet my symptoms are the cramping- intermittent , tender boobs, and don't know if it is ECM but it is certainly wet .
Planning on Dtd few times between now and w/end. Have still though had no dark li e on opk..

hello all!

liking the sound of all these symptoms!! I only ever have sore boobs when I'm pg, so, fwiw, I'd count that as a major BFP alert

I'm on roughly CD14 here. Pre-mc my cycles were around 33 days long, and I ov around CD19/20/21. Not sure whether I'll be back in same pattern now since my last wtf cycle was hardly anything to go by. Anyway though we've been dtd at least eod this cycle, I'm taking all my vits and folic acid and apart from a bit of a coldy/virusy kind of thing that's draining me this week I'm feeling pretty good and someone even told me today I'd lost weight lol Bit random! Anyway due to long wtf cycles the shagathon that has been going on for the last week has to continue for at least another week to make sure I don't miss ov. And then another week after THAT until I can test. Wahhh! I hate long cycles!! Really got fx for this cycle, tho, I'd love to be due next summer....