Trying to conceive after mc? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Recently graduated from the mosh pit? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake! Part

[Dorita75]

Hi, thought I'd start the new thread. This is a brilliant thread for anyone trying to conceive or who has got a bfp after mc, full of lovely ladies, fab advice and a lovely place to metal, so called because someone said metal instead of mental and the rest is history......

Hetty - yes me! AF due weds next wek ish...

Hurry jaffa or i'll die fom holding my breath lol x

Congratulations midge x

Wow so much has happened since I last checked in - congrats to all the progressing baby bumps - fingers crossed to all those in the 2ww - and welcome to all the new ladies sorry you have found yourselves here but you could be in better company :) sorry not to name check everyone x

I'm back and in better spirits have had 1 AF since my second mc this year in July (at 10w) and now have no clue when she is due again but really enjoying dtd I am now firmly in my 42nd year so what will be will be x

Sorry couldn't be in better company! Damn iPad

Oh My!
I've just got the fainest of faint lines on POAS test!!! I'm a bit stunned. I guess I didn't know where I was in my cycle (still entrenched in the WTF), as I had a BFN the other day so assumed that was it for this month. I only did it because I've got the day off and I've got a bag of internet cheapies that taunt me every morning....Too early to get excited just yet I think. Not really had any symptoms either, in fact last month I was so sure I was pregnant as I had the works, sore boobs, cramps and the like. Had a bit earlier on in the month but since then nothing. Who knows, who cares! Today I'm pregnant and that's all that matters right now .

congrats sunday

jaffa good to hear you are being taken care of. sometimes the thought of lying in hospital being looked after sounds like bliss to me. i would love to go to a nice clinic for the next five months and just relax! no commuting no work no hassle!!

It's all go on this thread hey! Congrats Sunday on your BFP.

Jaffa - sorry to hear the ECV didn't work but sounds like you're being well looked after. I recovered very quickly from my EMCS - please don't worry too much about the surgery. I hope your antenatal ward is not too hectic and you manage to get some rest.

Stupidly did another test at 10pm last night - BFN. No more proper tests in house and am going to try to hold off testing for another couple of days.

If I'm not pregnant I just want my period to come so I can move forward. Am 2 days late already . Not a very patient TTcer!

Congrats Sunday oon your BFP.
Good luck Jollyb

I am bit worried today as realised today Slapped Cheek has been going round our office, with at least one adult confirmed case. More worry! :-(

Many congratulations midge!

Thank you for your advice ladies, have booked in with nurse on Monday

Congrats sunday this current bumps been pretty symptomless, my mmc had the most pregnancy symptoms I've ever had!

Congrats Sunday!

Congrats on the BFP Sunday!

yay sunday that's lovely news :)

Yay Sunday that's fab news!

jaffa at least you're in the right place, just think in a few weeks this will all be over and you'll have a beautiful baby in your arms!

Fingers crossed for you jolly that AF isn't coming for a while. MrsHercule I'm due on some time middle of next week too, am paying too much attention to every single twinge, feeling, emotion....but really trying not to!!

Hello to everyone else on this sunny Saturday...

Thanks all, felt a bit queazy yesterday, but that might have been down to the curry pot noodle lunch followed by half a box chocolates (it was raining and the cupboards were empty! ). Seem to be ok this morning.

I hear you jolly waiting is tough, time seems to go so slowly, and then all of a sudden half the year has gone by, ho hum.

I'm off to wee on some bicarbonate of soda, I'll report back later with the results

Great news Sunday yay!

Shame the ecv didn't work Jaffa and you're facing a hospital stay away from DD. It'll all be worth it when baby Jaffa is in your arms.

Lots of metalling going on here Should be 10 weeks today, according to my last scan. But I just don't feel pregnant any more. This is around the time my last pregnancy finished, but it was a mmc & I didn't find out for another 2.5 weeks.

Next scan is Wednesday, will find out then for sure. Just feeling meh about the whole thing.

Ps good luck with testing Jolly The 2ww fair messes with your head!

Big hugs, cheese Hope the scan on Wednesday is positive x

I had my flu jab yesterday and I feel really well, just got a bit of a sore arm where the injection was given. 20+1 today...

cheese try not to symptom spot - I know it's very hard. (this is from the queen of symptom spotting). Will be thinking of you on Wednesday.

Still no period- 3 days late. I resisted buying more tests this morning - am going to be strong and hold out til Monday. I did buy however a very smart fitted winter coat - maybe hoping the reverse psychology works.

Good luck to the other 2WWers.

Thanks Jolly am feeling calmer now.

I agree with your reverse psychology tactics! After finding out I was pregnant, I still bought some normal pretty tops, in sheer defiance of it all.

Good luck this week cheese

31wks today 9 weeks to D day! I'm now out of double figures to go...that's scary!

Hi ladies AF arrived today along with a letter from my GP advising as a mum to be I can have a free whooping cough injection :( they didn't even know about the 2nd mmc as I self referred to the EPU - they still haven't updated their records from April - had a little cry this morning (dh was at work) thought I was doing ok..........

Congrats sunday x

Oh Pixie that's double-shite - AF & a sad reminder in 1 day. I remember getting my maternity certificate in the week after my last m/c

Here's to better times & hoping tomorrow is a better day x

Sorry you've had a hard day pixie what awful timing. It's shocking really how little joined-up administration there seems to be sometimes.

Good luck for Wednesday cheese fx it's all good.

I've just realised my comment about bicarbonate of soda was from a conversation on a different thread (about an old wives tale regarding baby gender) so apologies if I came across crude, or just a bit mad.

aw pixie that sucks :( big hugs. I rang my MWs to cancel my booking-in after i found out about my nonviable pg at 6 weeks and had to leave a message which they didn't get, so two weeks later got a call from them asking why I missed my appt :( Why can't they all tell each other stuff?!

good luck for weds cheese. Please try not to worry, I am 10 weeks today and from the May AN board it seems that it is common for symptoms to calm down sometimes around now as the placenta starts kicking in. No good for you who obviously wants lots of symptoms but I hope it helps a bit. x

sunday that is so funny. I had no idea why you were weeing on bicarb! what is meant to happen then?!

I had food poisoning this weekend. better today. food poisoning on top of early pg and being old is bloody awful, i was only awake for 8 hours yesterday!

Thanks wilderumpus I'm exactly 10 weeks too (apparently).

I think my issue is more fear of another mmc - last time I had a good scan at 8+5, but the heart stopped in the early 9's - I didn't find out till 11.5 weeks & still had a few symptoms right till the end.

Last time I had a wee bump at 9 weeks - it just didn't grow - this time at 10 weeks I don't have one so I'm metalling that things have already ended

And that yesterday I passed on a soft boiled egg, licking the cake bowl & a boozy work night out for nothing!

Would be interested to hear about the bicarbonate of soda theory, Sunday haven't heard that one before - please share!