Trying to conceive after mc? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Recently graduated from the mosh pit? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake! Part

[Dorita75]

Hi, thought I'd start the new thread. This is a brilliant thread for anyone trying to conceive or who has got a bfp after mc, full of lovely ladies, fab advice and a lovely place to metal, so called because someone said metal instead of mental and the rest is history......

What a wankbadger wilde if you get awful morning sickness book to visit him and vom on his chair. for you!

hope you get sorted with an early scan wilde that doctor sounds like a dick.

manda I don't think you are wishing your baby away. I agree with wilde its a very complicated thing.

I am freaking out a bit here. had some ewcm with pin pricks of red blood. it was tiny and I don't think a normal person would have noticed but its has worried me.

I am seeing consultant in the morning so will try to get a scan

have Googled but nothing bad coming up

Wank badger is brilliant state may have to borrow that for suitably frustrating situations!!

wilde what a day, what a dick! Enjoy your hols and hope you manage to chill ax!

martha lunch date sounds good and well deserved!

pebs hope you're ok but def step AWAY from dr google!!

Welcome to the newbies sorry that you find yourselves here but get comfy for some understanding hand holding

AFM husband thinks I should watch OBEM from last night bout multiple births but scared that it'll tip me over into sadness abyss?!

Just asked for my last post to be deleted as i have outed myself a little too much I have recreated it here (in edited form!)

wilde your GP is a complete fuckwit, this CERTAINLY warrants either a complaint to the Practice Manager or to the PCT. He has been a complete dick and has disregarded your concerns and just not cared for you. Yes go to see nice lady GP - i urge you to do this, and if you cant face a formal complaint have a blardy good bitch to her. And enjoy your hols

oh sweetie, of course you are not wishing DS away, not in the least. When i was PG with this last one i was saying to my belly that i wouldnt be in this position if i hadnt lost my baby last year. That doesnt mean that i didnt want this pregnancy. You have an amazing gift in your li'l miracle. And as for darling Teddy, i am raising a glass to him right now, in fact he is playing with Jack (DS2s name - everyone ok with me outing him?) in that funky little mosh pit playgroup in the sky. Take care of yourself, you are of course still hormonal. My DM told me when i had DS1 that i could be post natal for up to a year. Never underestimate the female hormones.

Thanks for the info on the BVits. Funnily enough i was in Holland and Barratt buying them and i had your stern words in my ears!! I did indeed get more B50s as i couldnt get away with the size of the 100s. I have bought the Agnus Castus now so will take them, even though my cycles are usually normal

pebs i just know everything is going to be ok, but i am holding your hand

state you really do do revenge dont you? i reckon everyone needs a state in their lives!!

Is moomins about? I saw your posts on the Kym Marsh thread, i know that this is a metallic time for you at the moment and that thread was shite. I hope you are ok and just want to give you a wave and a lick, as well as some of the gorgeous lemon yoghurt cake that SMIL send down for us yesterday.

Waves to all x

I can't even use baby brain as an excuse wilde I registered her in July 2011! this is the first time she will be left with anyone other than my Mum so I'm very nervous but it will be so good for her she is 4 in two months and gets so bored and lonely with just me for company, plus quiet mornings when heavily pregnant/with a new baby will be wonderful, and her having nursery that is all hers iyswim when we have a new dc will be good for her, ill miss her though :(

pebs get off google! I had some spotting early on. Relax x

Blimey, manda sorry to have missed you off my previous post, just at this reflective/metalling time. Raise a glass to lovely Teddy and it really doesn't sound odd how you think about your bump, it's a real mosh pit of emotions, hormones, memories and what ifs!

thanks everyone. I have calmed down now. it was a pin prick of blood which I only noticed as I analyse every bit of toilet roll.

I am trying to relax in bed.

Dr Google didn't bring anything bad up which is quite surprising as usually everything I type in comes back with miscarriage

pebs it was probably a bit of fluff from your saucy red knickers!

how did you guess Martha!!

Sorry your appointment didn't go well wilde. Hope you and your womble have a good holiday. I'd definitely call your EPU when you get back

pebs. Hope everything goes ok tomorrow. Xx

Hi Martha I'm fine, there have been some very odd opinions on some threads today jack is a lovely name, I'm glad you felt able to share it with us

Have started the progesterone, ive been given cyclogest which can apparently be used to treat mild PND so maybe it will lift my mood a little!

I'm now worrying that I can't feel my cervix at all, I can feel a bit of the stitching really high up but that is all. I shall be quizzing my mw tomorrow. I know last time I could feel it but that wasn't necessarily a good thing with what happened, I seem to remember the time before it might have been quite high up

pebs don't do what I did and were white pants, it's not a good idea! Hope thru give you a scan tomorrow.

Wilde sorry the appointment didn't go well. Hope you have a good holiday

AF today. I hate her.

Thank you for making me feel so welcome ladies, am starting to catch up on the gossip

We're TTC again, but OH has 'performance anxiety' ffs

little sorry af got you. have some wine and get ready for the next cycle!!

daisy ttc puts my dh off dtd. i don't tell him he is ttc lol!

everything was fine today. the consultant was really nice and i have my booking in appt tomorrow and a scan next week then 12 week scan and consultant appointment the week after.

MY PEE IS YELLOW!!!!!

so the AC and BVits are working their magic then!! I have missed yellow pee!!

little at AF

daisy at performance issues, maybe you should have raced after him and had a go?

Quiet day chez Martha today. Me and DH did a bit of retail therapy but it has exhausted me so i am feet up with MN and magazines.

and the shaggers mother - has hedge clipping ishoos - neighbour left some flowers on our doorstep; might use them to line the composter in the allotment

Have missed the conversations about the colour of pee though!

daisy a few months back we were all talking about Agnus Castus and high dose B Vits, and were marvelling at how the pills turn our pee yellow. It is almost instantaneous and is quite addictive

We also had the discussion (if anyone remembers) that wouldnt it be lovely if we didnt have to symptom spot, and if, like on ovulation and conception our pee turned blue, so we would know in an instant!

Lol at blue pee martha - fab idea! Why did mammy nature not think of that one?..

I found out today that most people's cervix developed a blue tinge when you become pg, might be a but difficult to check for though

Developes and bit, blinking phone

Hi Everyone!
Sorry I haven't been around much this week, crazy busy at work with all the new children coming in to school...all the mums are pregnant (seemingly!) and moaning about it!
I have just read through all the posts I have missed and I hope everyone is okay. Martha I had a huge grin on my face when I read that you are back on the folic acid and B vits - good on you! My OH now thinks I have started an online relationship as I alternately smile and look sad at the screen!
My AF came, ten days late. Bloody nature! Cruel cruel bitch. So god only knows what my cycle is doing and I think I might have to get organised and try to track my ov this month.
Our staffroom is chocka with chocolates and cake, so help yourselves girls from this big tuperware bowl full of Quality Streets!

moomins i will check yours if you check mine

welcome back quicksie bugger that AF i am in the WTF cycle but am going to start keeping an eye on things.

kat where did you get to? come back with yer cupcakes!!

Feel like I have been off for ages, but only a few days.

Martha you are in my thoughts so often. Also, are you thinking of ttc in the wtf cycle? If you are, all I would say is it is good for the sense of wanting to get pg quickly, but a bit knackering physically. I have been pregnant since christmas, 41 weeks back to back. But I'd do it again in a second...

pebs, glad the bleeding has gone and that you had a good appointment today.

Wilde, what an annoying little man. Hope you don't have to deal with him again.

manda, I'm sorry I missed Teddy's birthday. I completely get that strange longing. There is a part of me that is the mother of 2 children now, one of which is a crawling, eating, 8 month old baby boy. Instead I'm a 32 week waddler. The only way I can make sense of it, is to imagine there is a little bit of my heart living a parallel life.

I am really metalling about movements. I have enough, I have anterior placenta..., but I cannot help but worry all the time. I don't care about the physical side of pregnancy any more, but I want it to be over, just to get some peace from the worry. Max 10 weeks to go. Bring it on...