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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC 1st baby # Thread no 4

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Newbie2 · 19/07/2012 07:20

Wishing everyone a happy BFP!!!!!

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MumOfTwoCats · 01/08/2012 21:59

Is it too early to test this weekend?!

NicolaHazel · 01/08/2012 22:02

I'd say so, yes!

MumOfTwoCats · 01/08/2012 22:05

Boo! Even with a super 6 day before af test?!

NicolaHazel · 01/08/2012 22:15

When are you due?!

MumOfTwoCats · 01/08/2012 22:20

11/12 Aug?

NicolaHazel · 01/08/2012 22:24

May be wasting your money if you do...could you wait until at least mid week next week?

DulcetMoans · 01/08/2012 22:27

Hmm is a bit early...

FrankelSaysRelax · 01/08/2012 22:35

Even the so-called "early response" tests are only about 70% accurate at 10dpo. Before that it's not really worth testing as you are more likely to get a false result than a right one.

MumOfTwoCats · 01/08/2012 23:00

Ok. I'll wait. You let me know when. May have missed it. Day 21 today. DTD 9 12 14 15 and 21. So average 30/31day cycle would be ov on day 16/17? I did clearblue ov kit a few months back which was day 16.

So may just have caught it?

letsdothisthing · 02/08/2012 06:35

Well it's official, AF here this morning, plus temp drop so back to CD1 and onto cycle 2 for me! On the bright side, this cycle was shorter at 33 days so that's a bonus! Also I'm going away this weekend so can have some Wine

NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 06:59

Good and bad news then, lets. At least you can have a few drinks this weekend :-)

And it's only cycle 2...early days.

letsdothisthing · 02/08/2012 07:02

Yep, feeling ok about it and like you say - early days! Think I expected it after the cramps! Just glad I didn't waste another test and see a BFN!

letsdothisthing · 02/08/2012 07:19

I just googled Blush cycle day 1 and found this diagram to show changes in temp, hormones etc throughout cycle, stuff we already know but worth a look :) physiology of menstruation cycle

NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 07:35

I love Google...spent most of last night learning about ovulation and what may cause the pain. Still not sure if mine was before or after OV though. But if it was after, I missed the boat! I'm hoping as it lasted so long, it was before and after :-)

Feels so long until 11th! But time also goes really quick, so should stop thinking about POAS!

DulcetMoans · 02/08/2012 07:48

Sorry to hear the lets, you'll be at it again next week though so not long to wait to start again!

Sure the 11th will get here quickly nicola, just keep resisting the sticks!

NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 08:13

I know...as long as I don't think about it this weekend I'll be safe!

Just got to work to a computer that song connect to the network. Just what I need!

NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 08:14

Won't, not song!

Newbie2 · 02/08/2012 09:12

lets I'm sorry AF arrived but it's great that you're seeing the positive side and now you have a certain cycle date to start on (so you can use sticks and temping if you wanted)

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NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 11:27

God...MN is shit today. Can't respond to PMs. Grrrr!

Newbie2 · 02/08/2012 11:33

LONG POST ALERT A few people on MN have suggested FertilityFriend.com to help me chart my basal temp. Last night I felt a bit confused and sad about all the conflicting information I was receiving so I decided to put some time aside and start reading their lesson plan to help me understand 'All about Fertility and How to chart'. It's started to give me a greater understanding and answered some of my questions that I've been posting on here. I thought some of you (and particularly those who have shared my frantic moments) might be interested to read a couple of key points that I've learned:

Fact no 1. You may remember that last month I tested for OV with my cb smiley sticks. On 22nd July I tested at 8am and got no smiley face. I felt strange so I tested again at 11am and got a smiley face. I was interested in this explanation and as many of you use OV sticks I thought you might be interested too:

'The LH rise usually begins in the early morning while you are sleeping and it takes 4-6 hours for it to appear in your urine after that. For this reason, first morning urine may not give the best result. Testing mid-day is usually recommended. It is important to follow the instructions of your OPK for maximum results'

Fact no 2. I've been experiencing OV pains before during and after (I think that I) ovulate. This has caused me great concern, however, I now feel a bit better after reading this:

'Ovulation pain can happen before, during or after ovulation'

Fact no 3. On Monday I experienced a dip in my temperature. I thought it may be because we left the window open all night and I woke up cold. I thought this last fact was interesting for everyone charting their basal temperatures.

'The following factors may influence your BBT and should be noted in your chart data:

change of climate, use of electric blanket, change of room temperature, breastfeeding, fever, illness and infections (even those that do not produce a fever), cold, sore throat, drugs and medications, alcohol (especially in large quantities, though all alcohol consumption should be recorded), smoking (if you smoke, you should consider quitting before you are even pregnant), emotional stress, physical stress, excitement, sleep disturbances (insomnia, night-waking, upsetting dreams, poor sleep), change in waking time, jet lag and travel'

If any of you're interested in reading more, here is the link to sign up for Free: www.fertilityfriend.com

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NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 12:32

That's really interesting, thank you.

DulcetMoans · 02/08/2012 20:23

Wow, you have been researching newbie! Do you feel better now you have some answers?

NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 20:36

Hey Dulcet...I'm trying not to think about POAS!! Only 4 or 5 DPO, so need to stop thinking about it :-/

Newbie2 · 02/08/2012 20:43

Dulcet I do feel better. I like being in control and I can only relax when I feel I have a better understanding on what's going on with my body. This evening I've started to experience progesterone and reflux symptoms. It looks like this happens to me before and after ovulation. The symptoms are swelling of the stomach and heartburn that can lead to constipation. Its a real pain but tonight I've learnt what it all means by reading this article. Here is the link for anyone interested - www.livestrong.com/article/475206-the-progesterone-only-pill-and-reflux/

Nicola I so want to POAS too :)

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NicolaHazel · 02/08/2012 20:50

We need to stay away from the sticks!

Next Weds is the very earliest and may still be a waste. Quite annoying.

At least you know what's happening, Newbie :-)