dont know what to do

[wunnybunny]

hi every one dont know where to post this

im ttc #2 but got bfn today

went out with dd to come home to house robbed and set alight.

i have nothing now no money clothes or any of dd toys or her bed time bear.

im gutted as i have no family near by and cant get rehoused for 2 weeks.

any ideas what i should or can do.

anyone please

hi wunny,don't know if I can help you but didn't want to read and run, so sorry you're going through such a traumatic time, at least you and your dd weren't in the house, you're safe and you're together.
Can the police /social services not point you in the direction of some temporary/emergency housing and support? Could any friends/neighbours help for now? Even if your family aren't near ,if you contact them could they not come to you?
Hope you get sorted out.

Wunny, that sounds awful. Are your friends able to help until some emergency accomodation is sorted for you? SOrry i have no clue what to do, hope someone else will be able to advise.

What about dp ?

Hi wunny, have you been to the police? This has happened to a friend of ours and they set alight to the house as they saw his police uniform upstairs and either panicked or decided to "pay" him back! They should be able to tell you which direction you should take and point you towards help with accomodating, as Irish mentioned is there anywhere nearby that you have friends or family? I have dd age 10 months and would happily send you a care package of toys and clothes if these would be any good? She has plenty I too have loads size 10/12 if they are helpful to you
Don't worry about posessions at the moment alot are replaceable and you may find when you get in the photos etc are ok, it's usually clothes are furniture that are beyond repair from smoke ( alot of computers and cameras can have info retrieved even if damaged)
Is there anything short term we can do to help you poor thing? Cxx
Don't panic about pose

Where do you live ( area)?

How awful! So sorry to read this

Have the local council put you up in temporary accommodation? Xx

hi i live in scotland my dd is 5 years old and im a size 14/16 thanks for offering support

im currently staying in a refuge and dp at his friends house.

its horrible place.

been back to the house its a mess my pc and money jars were taken and my bussiness is gone.

all bussiness money was in house and all gone

Oh wunny I'm so sorry, wish there was more I could do to help, prayers that you will get some light at the end of this particular dark tunnel x

Oh wunny am so sorry xxxx

well firemen retrived my photos off my wall adn £10 in loose change but everything is gone left with a shell and no insureance no family able to support me so feel lost and alone

Oh wunny- I just saw this :-( how awful! Have the police found out who did it? You poor poor thing- don't have anything constructive to offer- just wanted to send hugs x

omg that's terrible! Thank god you weren't at home. What have the police said?

police still trying but wont give me clothes or dd clothes am starving and hate it here

:( wunny whereabouts in Scotland? Can you post a 'help' message on MN local? What a shit thing to happen.

south ayrshire, i dont know how to do that help in mn local

Try here - there'll be a talk page on your local site. I'd try starting a topic there. Sorry you're going through this. I'm in Aberdeenshire, so a bit far away to be able to help practically.

i checked it but its not active

Ah that's a shame. You could try netmums? Maybe?

My god wunny I'm devastated 4u.
Do u have home insurance? They'll pay 4 temporary accommodation. Failing that go 2 local council they should b able 2 put u in temp accommodation, like a b and b.
I hope u get sorted. I hope they get the bastards that did this. Go 2 local paper with dd, a bit of local publicity might bring on some help nearby.
Keep us posted how u get on. x

Definatly agree with ribs, go to the local paper, if nothing else it might generate some goodwill with locals who could raley round

oh no wunny so sorry this happened! Big hug to you.

I wish I could help, have you got some temporary cash in your bank account?
Where do your family live? Is there any chance you can go see them? You really need some tlc at a time like this. I am so glad you weren't in the house!
Are you and dd eating properly? Is DPs family near? xx

i dont have cash i have £10 to buy food or clothes my family are 50 miles away

dp family on holiday for 2 weeks

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