dont know what to do

[wunnybunny]

hi every one dont know where to post this

im ttc #2 but got bfn today

went out with dd to come home to house robbed and set alight.

i have nothing now no money clothes or any of dd toys or her bed time bear.

im gutted as i have no family near by and cant get rehoused for 2 weeks.

any ideas what i should or can do.

hi this was set up for me

www.gofundme.com/tmku0

forget all that rubbish i removed the page as i dont want it up for people to give me money maybe i need it but still thats wrong

Wunny you should put it back, we don't have to give but I for one would like to, for you dd if nothing else! X

Plus if you have an address, I have a lovely new jellycat pink bear that was a gift, I'd love to send it for your little girl as I know you said your daughter lost her night time bear

hi kitty i sent u a pm thanks you for concerns and offering of help

im so tired tonight washed out by this mess of a life

feel so sick as today i have eaten some rice and nothing more

dd is sleeping at last so can cry without her seeing

dp has came to stay but is restless cos hes not eaten today at all so we can feed dd.

been to doc to day got anti depressants but im still ttc and will be testing on 7th july which is my birthday.

thank you all for kind messages

So sorry to hear you're having a shit time and feel completely helpless :(

thanks for your kind messages winkle good luck tommore ie job interview

Wunny you could try going to a local Church to see if they can help, I know our church organises welfare packs for people in situations like yours, xx.

Do you have Surestart in Scotland? They will probably have or be able to point you in the direction of a food bank so you can at least all eat reasonably.

There's a nationwide charity that gives out food box donations but I cannot think of the name!! Have a google for food donation in your local area and they might be able to help with some basics xxx

wunny this is truly dreadful, am so sorry.

Have you tried the council reception desk, they should be able to help you with numbers for shelter (although I read you have some altho temp accom is just the pits :() and give you advice on where you can find some food.

I would also try a church even though i am not at all religious but they do do charity and might know who can help you re. food and some tic.

I would also try citizens advice bureau.

Do you have anything at all, do you have access to a bank account, do you not have your purse? Could you go to the bank and ask for a temporary overdraft?

Do you have home insurance, if so you need to call them asap because they might be able to help you.

I hope your family come and get you, tbh if it was my sibling/cousin/child I would be there asap come hell or high than have you guys with no food, dodgy shelter and possibly out on the streets. 50 miles in this instance is not that far? Do they not have a car? x

take care xxx

none of my family care really

i walked 6 miles to get pads today as af arrived

temp home ok

no home insurance

no money in bank

lost my business

social wont help me

so dp trying for job but they look at like hes a trap in his jeans and t shirt

we have no coats and one set of clothes each

dd has no toys

food is scarce food bank not open here yet

we get one meal a day but dd gets more

so hard to live like this but hope soon life improves

Hi wunnybunny, sorry you're going through such a tough time, wish I could help.
As has been suggested I would try a church ,often there are links with local groups who give practical help .
I know our church has links with the" St Vincent de Paul" who organize food and clothing etc for local families who are in need .
Is your dd at school? Could the school give any support?
Really hope things work out for you
x

What does bedtime bear look like as have a bag of bears off to the charity shop

it was a brown bear with green hat and scarf with tony bear on the hat

i have never seen another one like it

have nothing like it at all - is there anything else she liked?
Have two girls so have an abundance of pink in the house

Hi wunny, keep going, once you have hit rock bottom it can only get better, I have sent you a few things and you will hopefully get them today or tomorrow,follow up the advice from the others in regards to the church etc, maybe ring the Samaritan for advice too? Sending hugs x

get yourself to the citizens advice bureau wunny, they know everything about everything and are kind people good at fixing problems and have a strong relationship with the coucnil - thery might be able to advocate for better housing for you for a start.

Will think on. Am so sorry you have no family to help you. No friends to take you in and feed you for a night each at all?
x

sorry for the grilling dearie, am just trying to work through options. I used to work for a city council and help people like you so am working through options, but it was a while ago now!

council gave me food today after i camped inside there for 3 hours

its my 25th birthday tomorrow and im not looking for ward to it

thanks to everyone helping and sending good wishes

This is a heartbreaking story! Is there anything we can do to help?

Hi All

We have had a couple of reports about this thread about giving money to other posters so we thought it may be helpful to repeat our general warning about this: "We do advise all our members to be aware that not everyone on t'internet is who they say they are, and that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare."

Thanks
MNHQ

Just a note to say that anyone thinking about this - the OP posted yesterday asking another mumsnetter for a tracking number of an item she had bought off her, 'so she knew when she had to wait in for it'.
That will be waiting in the burnt out house, obviously.

Seriously? Still trying to conceive? That's madness.