Hi girls
Sunny superb news and FWIW I really wish I could wind back time and make the same decision. I'm sure your strategy is spot on, both for getting that cuddly bundle in your arms and for peace of mind.
Pocket officialdom! brilliant and hope you have a saner booking-in process than I did.
Badger wow, setting up the nursery, that means it's really going to happen you know!
Weller brilliant, welcome to the loony bin 2WW and pamper yourself and those brave little embies!
So... sorry, Me Me Me alert...
I had a bit of spotting on Tues and Weds nights, but, primed by the received wisdom that the odd bit of spotting was nothing to worry about, accordingly didnt worry (much). Last night I had a soaked pad when I was getting ready to go to bed, so went to A&E instead. They examined me and said that my cervix was still closed so it was a threatened miscarriage rather than an actual miscarriage, and kept me in. This morning they scanned me, and found that my baby was dead. So I've been sent home to await the gory next steps. Sorry for breaking the chain ladies.
DH and I are completely numb. Darling, perky little 2YO DS has kept us going today but the mask must have slipped at one point because he looked at me this evening and said 'Mummy sad' and came and gave me a big cuddle and a kiss. I'm counting all my lucky stars that I have him and trying not to think about the next bit.
Thinking back, I think I even know when my baby died. It must have been around Thursday last week; my mood suddenly plummeted away from the slightly dopey pregnancy haze I've been in since the second half of the 2WW, I've had a headache constantly since then and I've behaved in an uncharacteristically cut-throat way.
This Doesn't Mean Any Of You Can Get Away With Stopping Believing