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Hoping for a July BFP?

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winkle2 · 09/06/2012 13:13

Come join me :)

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Dexidoo · 21/06/2012 10:38

Hello nice to see some familiar faces :)

I will be testing on July 1st although very unlikely for BFP- had an early MC nearly 3 weeks ago and while I was keen to continue SWI DH thought best to wait for a month but due to contraceptive issues while on holiday earlier this week we are in with a chance. Fairly confident I ovulated lots of EWCM and cramps.

Fully intend to be more hopeful of a late July BFP thanks to short cycles but trying to stay optimistic during this 2ww

Dexi TTC#1 testing July 1st

tedmundo · 21/06/2012 11:19

Welcome dexidoo. So sorry to hear about your mc. It is must be a tough time for you right now. I hope you are ok. There are a fair few of us TTc after mc so you will be in sad company :(

Let's hope this turns out well for us all.

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 21/06/2012 11:27

Hi dexidoo so sorry you are back here. There have been so many sad stories, just hope every one gets a BFP soon.

At least 1st July isn't too far way now.

resipsa · 21/06/2012 12:55

I think we should all get the CBFM: it seems to add a bit of excitement to the guessing game. Hope you get the sperm you need winkle. We conceived DD with my mum next door so MIL's presence needn't be a deal breaker! Just had appraisal at work; is it wrong that part of me wants to be pregnant just so I can get away from there for a year?

SunshineOutdoors · 21/06/2012 13:31

Hi Dexi, sorry to here you've had a difficult time with m/c. You sound positive and ready to try again though. I'll be testing on 30th June, I'll be staying on this thread though and lurking to see when others test. If I get a bfn unfortunately I'll have to wait until August as I have a long cycle.... but anyway I'll be here to see what happens when you test....

Not long 'til July and hopefully the bfps can start rolling in!

Is there a list thingy so I can see who's testing when?

tedmundo · 21/06/2012 14:48

Dexi ttc#1 testing 1 July
KFFOREVER TTC#1 BFP due 1st July
wishfulthinking- cycle 2 ttc #1 BFP due July 1st
Tedmundo cycle 3 ttc #3 BFP due July 1
Onemoreforgoodmeasure TTC#4 (1 mc) BFP due July 4th
fatasbutter cycle 2 TTC#2 BFP due July 4th
purplecorduroy ttc#1 BFP due July 5th
AmayaBuzzzbee cycle 2 ttc #2 BFP due 6 July
christelle2207 ttc#1 BFP due July 7th
lollypopsicle cycle 5 TTC #2 BFP due July 10th
winkle2 TTC #1 BFP due 11th July
WhenSheWas TTC #2 BFP due 12th July

winkle2 · 21/06/2012 15:36

Sorry to see you back Dexi :(

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Dexidoo · 21/06/2012 16:53

Thanks all. I'm finding it a bit weird to be honest, I was so excited to get the BFP then 3 weeks later it was over. It is almost like it never happened as only a couple of friends and no family knew.

Optimism is essential in this game, hey?

SunshineOutdoors · 21/06/2012 17:10

Yes, a bit of PMA will keep the PMT away!

Christelle2207 · 21/06/2012 17:34

Sorry for the new arrivals iykwim.

winkle fx we will both be getting BFP around the same time. I should ov in the next few days, but have a shortish LP - possibly edging a little longer now due to taking AC and, as of this month b6 (reckon it's ok to take both?)

Trying to DTD every other day for a week as of last night, I'm knackered though (work) and really takes a lot of effort! (not for dh though, he's easily pleased, though I've taken to just seducing him in bed rather than saying "we have to DTD on Wednesday, Friday and Sunday etc." which I think puts him off a bit. )

backwardpossom · 21/06/2012 17:42

DH will be back in a few hours. Hopefully he won't mind me taking advantage Grin. I suppose I'm on 2ww any time now then. CD15 today.

wishfulthinking1 · 21/06/2012 17:57

Dexi- so sorry to see you here- I think we were on the may thread together? I had a mc too- like ter says there are a lot of us in the same shit-boat at the mo- fx this is a lucky month!

Winkle- yes, I think you'll be fine- I would let him know the situation so you can have some 'alone tine' ASAP- I'm sure the time you have will be fine, but 12 hours is 12 hours- I wouldnt wait till bedtime just in case. Fx for you x

Result- you're right, the cbfm does add an extra dimension! I want one!

Cd19 with me- think I had some ewcm this morning but DF was just too tired and didn't want to pressure him but he's getting it tonight!

Xxx

wishfulthinking1 · 21/06/2012 17:58

Pah- iPad autocorrected everything!!

Ter = ted

Result = resipa

backwardpossom · 21/06/2012 18:03

Shall we do a list?

Dexi TTC#1 testing July 1st
backwardpossom - TTC#2 - testing July 4th - cycle 2 post mmc

SunshineOutdoors · 21/06/2012 18:08

tedmundo just posted current list, a little bit further up thread. I'm on phone and can't work out how to copy and paste it. Can someone please add me on sunshineoutdoors ttc %232 testing 30th June if a June one is allowed? If not 1st July and I'll just pretend I tested a day early Grin

backwardpossom · 21/06/2012 18:11

Whoops - not sure how I missed that...

sunshineoutdoors ttc#2 testing 30th June
Dexi ttc#1 testing 1 July
KFFOREVER TTC#1 BFP due 1st July
wishfulthinking- cycle 2 ttc #1 BFP due July 1st
Tedmundo cycle 3 ttc #3 BFP due July 1
Onemoreforgoodmeasure TTC#4 (1 mc) BFP due July 4th
backwardpossom TTC#2 (+ 1 mmc) testing July 4th
fatasbutter cycle 2 TTC#2 BFP due July 4th
purplecorduroy ttc#1 BFP due July 5th
AmayaBuzzzbee cycle 2 ttc #2 BFP due 6 July
christelle2207 ttc#1 BFP due July 7th
lollypopsicle cycle 5 TTC #2 BFP due July 10th
winkle2 TTC #1 BFP due 11th July
WhenSheWas TTC #2 BFP due 12th July

winkle2 · 21/06/2012 18:41

Whenshewasbad - I think I can only carry on testing for LH surge if the monitor asks me for the sticks. It's programmed to give you a peak after your first peak and then a high and then it stops asking for sticks as it presumes you have ov'd.

I did a quick google and looks like epo can shorten cycles. I never knew that. I've been using it for EWCM!

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 21/06/2012 18:42

Bit gutted I am the last one on this thread testing. July 12th is an optimistic date too, could easily be as late as 18th [sigh]

Christelle2207 · 21/06/2012 18:47

Well as I am taking b6, EPO and AC I ought to have super short cycles by now Confused

backwardpossom · 21/06/2012 18:48

Ah whenshewas I'm sure there will be more people along soon x

NicolaHazel · 21/06/2012 18:59

I'll be testing around 18th July :-)

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 21/06/2012 19:13

backward I hope so or you lot will head on over to the anti natal boards and leave me all on my own Sad Grin

christelle I might do the same next month if I am unlucky this cycle.

tedmundo · 21/06/2012 20:11

whenshewas chances are I won't be up duffed this cycle so my next test date would be 29th July so would still be on this month.

we have only DTD 4 times this month. not optimistic really. Didn't do it at all until got the Lh surge. Just could not be arsed. I feel bad about being so slack but my sanity is MUCH better in this 2ww. I think last months shag fest did my nerves some serious damage.

Off out for a slap up dinner! YUM!

FloweryBoots · 21/06/2012 20:12

Resipsa, the only thing keeping me going in my job (just about) is the thought of mat leave and ultimately not going back after. I'll still need to work, but I won't be going back there. It's a newish job, and has turned out to SUCK! Totally get what you're thinking!

On CD22 today. Really shouldn't be very hopeful this month since hubs was away mid cycle and for the first time I thought to try and have a look for this EWCM that folks talk of, and of course noticed it whilst hubs away. Still, always the chance his swimmers were in there waiting from the last shag before he left!

Adding myself to the list:

sunshineoutdoors ttc#2 testing 30th June
Dexi ttc#1 testing 1 July
KFFOREVER TTC#1 BFP due 1st July
wishfulthinking- cycle 2 ttc #1 BFP due July 1st
Tedmundo cycle 3 ttc #3 BFP due July 1
Floweryboots TTC #2, cycle 2, testing 2 July ish
Onemoreforgoodmeasure TTC#4 (1 mc) BFP due July 4th
backwardpossom TTC#2 (+ 1 mmc) testing July 4th
fatasbutter cycle 2 TTC#2 BFP due July 4th
purplecorduroy ttc#1 BFP due July 5th
AmayaBuzzzbee cycle 2 ttc #2 BFP due 6 July
christelle2207 ttc#1 BFP due July 7th
lollypopsicle cycle 5 TTC #2 BFP due July 10th
winkle2 TTC #1 BFP due 11th July
WhenSheWas TTC #2 BFP due 12th July

OpenMindedSceptic · 21/06/2012 20:22

dexi sorry to hear about MC. Hope you will get BFP again ver soon.

ted oooh, lovely! Enjoy your meal!

Can someone please add me to the list?

OpenMindedSceptic TTC #2 - testing 6 July