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Just MC and ready to try again? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake overindulgence

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WhyAlwaysBoris · 24/04/2012 20:36

Continuation of the last thread.

There's cake for scoffing, backs for patting, and screeching death metal for all your metalling moments. All welcome so come on in and get settled into the plush sofas!

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So settle into the mosh pit, we have special VIP area's for those on the 2WW, the new bumps metalling with segregated areas for the first/second/third trimesters and the club class cocktail bar for those who have just got AF and can get-pissed let loose for the first two weeks!

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tasmaniandevilchaser · 14/05/2012 17:49

hi all, glad your manic monday is going ok martha I will have a go on that chair, thanks!

backward hell yeah! You can feel burning, seething jealousy as far as I'm concerned, mixed with happiness, sadness and a touch of self pity"why not meeeeee?"

confusedmum I've heard pink tinged EWCM is very very fertile, I'd get cracking! I had loads after the MMC and DH decided he had some v v important evening social engagements, which involved getting in v late, bastard! Haven't quite forgiven him for that, can you tell??!!

mumtum hope friday scan goes well. the waiting is awful Sad

tasmaniandevilchaser · 14/05/2012 17:50

hiya boris I think I can test on Friday, had a horrible weekend fretting about another ectopic, had to give myself a stern talking to! Hope it's good news for you on Thursday.

JaffaSnaffle · 14/05/2012 18:36

Haven't time for a bit post, but I conceived this baby with pink tinged cm. Just saying...x

WhyAlwaysBoris · 14/05/2012 19:32

Evening everyone!

Welcome to the thread whatcakeydid and confusedmum, I had conflicting advice about when to start trying again, but was very helpfully told to make sure i got a bfn on a test first so that i could trust later tests.

mumtum, glad you got them down till one week- still seems horribly long. I work from home sometimes and found it dreadful just after my MC when not in a good space. I'm thinking of you.

manda, such shit timing on the measles front, :(

mrs pears Congratulations on your pregnancy :) Look at you all official :) Sorry about the lack of early scan. I hope the doc also sorted out the hip or is that too much to hope for in one appointment?!

tas fingers crossed for thursday and friday, i would offer to wait and test with you but DH around thurs not fri and feel i might need him around for hugs when get the test result.

I phoned the hospital about my may appointment being moved to august 31st and spoke to a complete jobsworth who told me the date wasn't a typo and there were no earlier appointments as the consultant will be away in between these times.

I then asked what else i could do, and she said, you could ring every day for cancellations, so i asked how would there be any cancellations if he was away? Looooonnnnng silence down the phone. And then she said, "well, he's not away, away". Confused

In the end I got his secretary's number out of her and eventually managed to speak to her, & she sounded much more sensible. She agreed it was ridiculous wait and said she'd see what she can do and will ring me tomorrow, so fingers crossed.

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ConfusedMumDotCom · 14/05/2012 20:29

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome and positive comments re: ewcm.

jaffa thanks for the heads up, DH is not going to know what hits him tonight Wink

boris I have a spare test in the bathroom - will use it tomorrow to double check as there is no way any pregnancy hormones left in my system will be from a new pg - great idea, thanks. I'm sorry, I haven't read the whole thread, so am not sure what your appointment is for, but good luck with getting a better date tomorrow.

backwardpossom · 14/05/2012 20:35

was very helpfully told to make sure i got a bfn on a test first so that i could trust later tests.

Thanks for this advice, I've ordered some cheapies on ebay :)

MarthasHarbour · 14/05/2012 20:47

mrspear i like your reverse countdown idea - i shall do that Smile

i have been revelling in the fact that i have been feeling nauseous all day, DH is metalling too bless him, everytime i go to the loo he shouts up 'everything ok dear' Confused

boris i smiled at you catching jobsworth out! Grin but well done on speaking to the secretary, she sounds v sensible and i will keep fingers crossed that she can get back to you with a better date

backward i hate FB notifications with a passion, a friend of mine has been posting every fucking day since her 12 week scan 'oo look at pregnant me' 'i am dragging my pregnant belly to the shops' 'pregnant me is going to bed'

pregnant-you can go and shove it you smug git Angry

so yes you can be seething furious on our behalf! the only FB notifications i have ever been happy about is my cousin and her DH as they have been trying for 3 yrs and have just got preggy - now as far as she is concerned i am chuffed to ribbons - but the rest can bugger off!

welcome confused cakey and backward

confused i know what you mean about your NCT friends, i had my MC in March last year and two of my friends from pregnancy yoga got preggy again at the same time, the three of us were so excited together and then bam - at 10 weeks mine left us. I also had to remain thrilled for them both but secretly jealous that they had another year together.

However - one year on and they are driving eachother bonkers - it seems that almost three years of living literally in eachothers pockets has been counterproductive Grin hope that helps!

thanks all of you for all the hand holding - it seems that my Manic Monday is reaching a satisfactory conclusion Grin

Any news of me old mucker manda hope LO is hanging in there and DD is coping ok with the measles

MarthasHarbour · 14/05/2012 20:49

and mumtum i havent forgotten you - as always i am soothing your brow Smile

onedayatatime73 · 14/05/2012 20:51

Evening all
I have been abroad for a week and as I couldn't afford the roaming charges I had to go cold turkey on mumsnet - v frustrating.

jaffa I spent each day worrying and wondering on your news- it was the first thing I checked on when landing at Gatwick last night. Honestly! Congratulations am so pleased for you.

So so glad to see so many posts with smiley faces - unbelievable. This thread may bring us all together in sadness, but it brings some good luck and support too.

Welcome to the newcomers - do ask as many questions as you want to - there is some great advice here.

mumtum sorry you are still having to wait but glad the date is now sooner. I feel for you that this is so slow and tortuous for you.

mrspear we share the same due date. I say that with such caution on my part - can't bring myself to believe this is actually going to happen this time. I got to 8 weeks last time - so that's my first milestone. Can't decide if I can hold out for a 12 scan, or if will be too desperate for news and pay for a scan. I keep prodding myself for tender signs and convincing myself I feel sick (when I don't). Oh the days really are like dog years here.

I am sure some wise woman on here had found a way to secretly knicker check in public! Is that true? If so please come forward and share your clever secret - I need to know for my own sanity.

Finally- is mrsnesbit around? Have been thinking of you and wondering how you are.

iq keep popping in to see us. It is lovely to hear from you

MandaHugNKiss · 14/05/2012 21:28

To coin a phrase marff - today I am pregnant! I really need to stay this way for a while yet... DD so poorly - just taken her temp again and despite two paracetamol AND two ibuprofen at 8.15 it's 39.6. FFS. I'm not even sure at what point I'm gonna need to involve a healthcare professional again (temp-wise, I mean...) she's literally gonna boil at this rate.

Doesn't help she won't bloody listen to me and keeps covering up because she feels 'cold'. Ugh.

YikesHereWeGo · 14/05/2012 22:02

I like the sound of this thread, you seem like a fun bunch. Can I join please?
In the interests of 'moving on' from my mc last week, I donated my (never worn) 'Baby On Board' badge to a colleague who announced (on the same day as my mc) that she was 13 weeks preggo. She was delighted with the gift and it did make me feel a bit better that at least the badge was going to a good home, but I do still feel gutted that I'm not in the same boat. Ah well, bleeding seems to be dying down a bit so hopefully I can soon get back in the game (not 'on the game'!) Presumably I need to wait for my 'all clear' scan a week on Thursday first though?

backwardpossom · 14/05/2012 22:08

Manda is it worth a call to NHS Direct (or NHS 24 if you're up my way)?

Hi Yikes

Munchin · 14/05/2012 22:08

Hiya ladies tg Monday over.

boris thanks for that. I ideally want to wait till first AF comes before ttc. But im still waiting for the bleeding post erpc to stop. It will be 3 weeks tomorrow. Fed up of it at this stage. Fair play to you though for persevering with your hospital. Unbelievable and hopefully consultants secretary gets you sorted sooner.

Congrats to latest pg ladies mrs pear and onedayatatime. Hopefully baby dust will spread on this thread.

mumtum tg you got your scan brought forward to this week. Do these people not engage the brain. You just need to know one way or the other. It's like a sentence this waiting and not knowing and the symptoms are just so unfair if baby is not to be.

martha glad your Monday is over.

Welcome to newcomers and sorry that yous find yourselves here.

I'm sorry I can't scroll up on phone and reread other posts again. But I am finding it a great help all the stories and tips. So thank you all ladies.

StateofConfusion · 14/05/2012 22:28

Just checking in to say martha monday is nearly gone Smile

I've calmed down a lot since the spotting last night as I feel very pregnant today --ie like shit--

Midgetm · 15/05/2012 01:27

My name is midget and I am a sneaky in public knicker checker. . Off on holiday today. Sunshine and sand but no sex. martha Monday is over. Screw you Monday, it's all about Tuesday now. Packed my Doppler and a big pack of KY instead if gel. May be a little embarrassed through airport security. Will check in for news and any foreign metalling updates.

pebspop · 15/05/2012 09:01

midget - did you ever tell us how you do it??

i once checked in a field but there was only dh around and it was hardly secret lol!!

farfallarocks · 15/05/2012 09:05

Just popping to say yay for marth!!!!

MarthasHarbour · 15/05/2012 09:12

midget dont get on that plane - tell us all about public knicker checking first Angry

woo hoo its Tuesday! thats it - i promise to metal no more on Mondays Grin

feel normal today Hmm but still no spotting so hoo bloody rah.

manda i would get onto NHS direct, even just for some advice, particularly given your 'vulnerable' state. And you cann'it tell a teenager can you? Thing is though if she is feeling cold with a temp then it could be a fever.

Breakfast anyone?

MarthasHarbour · 15/05/2012 09:13

high fives to far Grin

PieMistress · 15/05/2012 10:06

Whoop it's TUESDAY martha yippeeee! Begone Monday's never darken our doors again! :) I've only got 4 more weeks at work -eh?! where did the time go!

did baby ever come back on the thread as she would also be due now?

whatcakeydid · 15/05/2012 10:13

Hi, sorry went to bed early, y'know - to sleep, obviously. So I feel rude for not replying - thanks for your advice. Not had Internet cheapies before - shall I just google or is it just amazon?
Pleased for martha it's Tuesday now!
I would love to have a massive breakfast but - now you're all going to think I'm crazy- when I was pg before the mc I was due on Christmas day Sad and therefore wouldve been about 8 months in October for this wedding we are going to and therefore had a nice bump. Before I knew I was pg I was going to diet diet diet and be v slim and beautiful for this wedding. However, now we've decided to try again, if I do get pg I will be 1,2,3, or 4 months pg and therefore not bumpy or slim, just fat. Sooooo - I'm getting to the point- I was going to try and drop a few pounds in advance so at least maybe my arms might look slim.
Tbh it's not going very well Hmm.
Special K anyone? Thought not Grin

StateofConfusion · 15/05/2012 10:34

I am so glad I'm not the only public knicker checker Blush

MarthasHarbour · 15/05/2012 10:40

state how do you do public knicker checking??

why is nobody telling us? is it some kind of masonic handshake type thing? Hmm

cakey you can have a mushroom though coz that is a vegetable! Hmm

StateofConfusion · 15/05/2012 10:58

Its not particulaly(sp?) subtle, I don't think I can divulge this on mumsnet! --not atleast until someone else does and I can nod along--

Its best if you pop back to your car. Blush

MumTumWanted · 15/05/2012 11:53

Right now in this awful limbo ( and being to scared to walk out of the door just in case it starts) I would love to know how to get away with the public knicker checking Smile so some girls share the secret ....