Hi, feeling better this morning, stayed at home, and the cat and I are watching the snow flying past the window. Pain has died down and I am feeling more positive.
Last time...yes, well I had no choice, the m/c happened while I was in another country, in a hotel, on a business trip (luckily husband was with me), and so had to go to a strange hospital and everything, then be discharged back to an impersonal hotel room, quite a nasty experience. (And I just disappeared without warning or explanation from the work function I had flown literally halfway round the world to attend, which did my reputation no good).
Then, a day later, had to fly twelve hours to get to another country where we were getting married, the wedding was all arranged, family all there and everything, and so just had to get on with it. I drank so much champagne that night I can't remember much of it! It was so surreal, I was so happy to be marrying my darling, but there was so much else going on in my mind (and body!)
Well, I am looking on the positive side now, the obstetrician has done a whole battery of tests and I am hoping for an answer to why. (I am a scientist, and am trying now to think in a scientific and logical way about this, it will feel much better if there is some clarity on what is going on).
Thanks for letting me babble, this is really helpful. I have a friend who went through 2 m/c's befor having a successful pregnancy, and it was very good to talk to her yesterday about this, but I can't carry on to her all day!!
Thnaks. Best wishes to everyone else.