Oh of course, silly me. Jane is Jane and not Janet. Doh.
Hello Digi, I too am going to be staying in on NYE I think. My first ever night in! Not that I am exactly usually clubbing until dawn these days but DH and I are usually away somewhere hot and will go out and explore and get rip-roaringly drunk on some beach somewhere and find a random party. Could always go down Brighton beach with a flask I guess?
I think your conception efforts this time deserve a medal Digi so you are fully entitled to feel smug if you do. I remember it unfolding live ? to keep going diligently until day 31 was an incredible feat! I still can?t quite believe you did it!
Good luck to Stogan too from me!
Sorry you are having a frustrating time of it Euro. It?s funny how we all have those mental age targets. Those with children preferring a certain gap between first and seconds, those of us without children wanting to do things before a certain age. It feels like a bummer when you have to move the goal posts. I guess 35 was an aim for me at first but then I didn?t start trying until I was 36. I will be 38 by the time I have a baby now, and that?s if this one definitely survives. Oh well, people do have them quite a bit older.
Cornflakes I will indeed add you to the list. Do give us more details so we can make sure you are on there properly. I will leave a couple of question marks. Shall we add any other newbies too? Have forgotten who has been diagnosed and who is just speculating about testing for high NKC.
Ari that Positive Pregnancy thing sounds like nice a idea. I may investigate it if I ever start feeling a bit more positive about this pregnancy! Maybe if I reach the second trimester.
Duggs that is really depressing to have been pregnant two Christmases in a row and not have anything to show for it. I really feel for you and can of course relate. Luckily my LMP of the first mc of this year was boxing day so at least I got to drink myself through last Christmas and New Year. Not that it is all about drink, but it certainly does help take the edge off! Remind me, what is an IUI? I do hope you have a fab 2012 along with all the rest of us.
Scooter sorry you are feeling so sad still, it is bound to have a lasting effect though unfortunately. Especially as you got so far along this time. You have been on my mind of course as it is a reminder as to how fragile the situation is with all of us. I know there are no real answers to be had with these things but has Mr S speculated as to what might have gone wrong this time? It could of course be just one of those things, a chromosomal issue. I think my last one was ?just one of those things? and nothing to do with the treatment not working. But you are on my mind and will be on my mind too when I climb on the bed for the next scan hoping something is still alive in there. By my LMP I would be 10.3 today.
Hi Iggi! It?s great to hear that you are going to be getting later scans too. I have to admit, I have no idea what is usual after the 20 week scan. I have never investigated that far ahead.
Did I mention that Mr S says (thinking really far ahead now) that I could actually see him as my consultant for the whole duration of the pregnancy? It is something I would really like to do. He visibly winced when I told him what my local hospital was 
. Of course it would mean that the hospital I potentially give birth in is two hours away from where I live, which might at some point prove logistically complicated, but if I get that far along I think it is something I would like to do.
I am staying with friends in the country tonight and it will mean telling them about my ?situation?. I am always really nervous about this as I don?t want them to say ?congratulations? and will try my hardest to explain that although I am pregnant now I might not actually stay pregnant. It will just be too impossible to lie all evening about not drinking and not feeling crap. And they are close friends so hopefully it will be ok. But it?s not much fun though, this limbo stage that seems to be going on forever.