Hello all! And greetings from the other side of Christmas. Yes Iggi I am with you, I am glad it is all over. Will be happier too once NYE is done with (I think I will be having my quietest NYE ever!) and we can all go back to normal. It's nice but, this is more to do with my lifestyle rather than any pregnancy things, I love my freedom and time off but also love it when everyone else is in their offices and interesting work can come in. But of course I am still the one in control of my own hours 
Firstly, a raft of new posts to address!
Hi Cornflakes and welcome. Didn't you also pop in not so long ago? Sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's not a good news story on my behalf but with my first pregnancy on the Pred I never saw a heartbeat or foetus and had a round of weekly unsuccessful scans before an ERPC at 8 weeks, so I can relate to what you're going through. I have no idea what the other sac could be but seeing a heartbeat there is a very good sign and hopefully you will get some more positive news on Wednesday. Do let us know how it goes. I know the waiting is awful, unfortunately that's often all we can do.
Sarlat don't be shy, it's lovely to have you here! Although sorry of course for what you have been through. I am not a doctor of course but it does certainly sound a bit suspiciously like implantation issues from what you say. My personal opinion would there would be no harm (apart from the cost of course, but worth it if you could get the money together) for being tested. A friend of mine (not on this thread) went through years of unsuccessful IVF only to get pregnant and have a mc at 7 weeks and I just knew deep down she needed to get tested for NK cells. She has indeed been recognised as having them with Mr S and he has now put her on the superovulation programme rather than going down the IVF route. When I was in the same position earlier this year, no problems conceiving and only one recent mc (I had two in my early 20s) I too suspected there might be a problem and just wanted to 'rule it out' anyway. I am glad I did as I went on to have another mc and am now 10 weeks pregnant (hopefully - haven't had a scan for a week) on the treatment. So for me personally it is worth testing for even just to rule it out if you turn out to be ok. It sounds like you and DH are making a huge effort to make this work though so good on you both, and sorry it has been so traumatic. We can all relate.
Hello too to CareBear! Most of us here are under the care of the Miscarriage Clinic which is based out of Surrey and Harley St (you can find it easily online). There are a couple of others across the country but this clinic has excellent success rates and seems to be very good. You can also get a referral to Mr Shehata (the man who has pioneered a lot of this treatment) on the NHS via Epsom Hospital or St Helier but it can take quite a time to get an appointment and you might need to have had 3 consecutive miscarriages before your GP agrees to refer you. If you have any more questions do ask as we have acquired quite a bit of knowledge here as a group! And of course we spend far too much time on Dr Google and probably have that 'a little knowledge can be a dangerous thing' issue going on, but hey :)
So how is everyone else? Kittens we are all thinking about you still. Stogan it is very understandable to have negative thoughts. If I ever get beyond a first trimester I imagine my Dr Googling will progress to things about later losses. But all seems to be going well with you and you just have to try to believe it will continue and be positive.
Duggs did anything else develop with the testing?! Am now in Brighton now for a week Duggs, so not in town, but really looking forward to spending a few days by the sea, seeing friends and hanging round in coffee shops.
Brownie I was thinking about you and your quiet Christmas you were telling me about when we met. I hope you are feeling a bit more relaxed now as time goes on. Well done Digi now being over viable! It's a wonderful thing. When do you go into the 3rd trimester slot? I am an expert in early pregnancy but sadly not yet anything beyond the first trimester!
As for me, well I am feeling sick and tired on and off and then still mentalling when I feel better. Can't win. It seems so long to wait until the next scan. But wait I must. Today would be 10 weeks, if all is still alive and well in there.
Can I ask a question from all you 2nd trimester ladies? Were you scared about tapering the Pred. I suddenly got all freaked out last night thinking it was too early to be doing it. I am now down to 30 having started to taper from Friday 23rd as told by Mr S. Of course, he knows what he is doing but I am still worrying! If I keep tapering 5mg every 4 days (and stay pregnant of course) I will be totally off by 13+3. When I see him on the 6th Jan, again if it is still alive, I will be staying for an intralipids. That will be 11.3 so just a bit before that 12 week mark. Oh and he also said he would like me to have an extra intralipids just as an added boost around 16 weeks. But am jumping the gun a bit now, does anyone have any comforting thoughts about the taper...?!
Big waves and lots of love, luck and happiness to all for 2012. This is going to be our year everyone! 2011 was a bit of a pisser all round, we deserve a good one :)