TTC after miscarriage - A New Start to a New Year x x x

[diddle]

Ok ladies, here we go a nice new thread for us to share our fears and smiles on.

Lets keep smiling and positive, and make sure that this is a Happy year for everyone.

Life is far too short to waste, and after such a rough year for most of us last year, lets make 2006 an extra special one x x x

[FirstNikki]

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Best of luck to all for 2006. xx


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[going4potty]

goodness you have to go away for a bit an look what happens. Goodluck and a good year to you all. Nikki are you there? My op was on thursday 8th dec and i had been bleeding previous to that on and of from thursday 1st dec, so when do i start calculating cycle day from? Also this may be a bit tmi but have had odd discharge 2day and have had really really watery discharge for last 2/3 days, is this all normal, i felt liked id peed my pants lol.

[FirstNikki]

Yes I am here...after my pc rebooting 3 times ...but I am back

I think it is a just wait and see until she arrives, although I was lucky enough to start 29 days from the actual loss (inc. that day and the date af arrived) so I am presuming my cycle has come back to normal..was 28 days every month.

I have read that some ladies who have had ecoptic been told to count CD1 as that date so may be count yours as the 8th Dec (but this wouldn't be reliable)..but I really do think that you have to wait for the first after loss..

Discharge.. don't know much on stages for this but do know that watery is at around ov'g time....the strange thing is I can't say I remembered or noticed discharge when found was pg so don't have an answer on that I will look around and see...

[FirstNikki]

take a look at this its a link on discharge (nice) when pg.....well there's also a chance you could be...

How many days was your cycle??

[going4potty]

il post this then look at link. previously was 28 day cycle according to "my monthly cycle" if ectopic bleed taken into account as well as op bleed, then i have 33 day cycle and would have been due 2 days ago, so amlate either way

[going4potty]

Nikki, was that about discharge during pregnancy? But i cant be yet can i? Confused, was that the right link? Or am i being really dim?

[FirstNikki]

now..its tricky all this isn't it...probably take an early pregnancy test (which tests at 10hl or 20hl thinks its hl ne way) or wait for another 3 or 4 days and test with regular pg test.?? I know some have waited upto 6 weeks for an af after mc as it can through your body about.

[FirstNikki]

well...its when pg and you have had unprotected so there is a chance surely?

[mygirllolipop]

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[going4potty]

Dont know what to think its only been month since op and i too have hear can take six weeks for af to arrive. I dont want to hope cause i will be disappointed and also worried as was hoping to get af b4 ttc unless not here by 14th as agreed with dh. Im still having thoughts that ive released dodgy egg or it will happen again and i wont have any tubes etc. Think im still scared tbh. We only did it once....... without protection that is.

[mygirllolipop]

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[FirstNikki]

is everything ok when you pee? (sorry for being too personal just read it could be sign of water infection too but obviously should have other symptoms to...)

[going4potty]

peee is fine thanks Just made my self laugh reading ivillage link, regarding taking temperature, where do i put the themometer lol. Thanks for the links and info, like going on the internet and having your own tailored search engine.

[going4potty]

seriously though where?

[FirstNikki]

oh G4P (((((hugs)))) ...of course you will still be worried and have questions and fears... didn't mean to get hopes up if I did

I am sure you have nothing to worry about...xx

[FirstNikki]

"seriously though where? " what the thermometer?? not sure

[going4potty]

The ivillage site was recommending to take your own temperature to work out ovulation, and it doesnt say where to put thermometer. Im probably being dim but arent there different places that you can put the themometer? eg ear, mouth, armpit elsewhere?

[going4potty]

Now i will sound stupid, but if you insert thermometer near to bits your monitoring is it more accurate

[FirstNikki]

....CH...can you help with this have you got some books ready for your course?

[FirstNikki]

Fertiliity friend comments on temperature. Can be done orally or vagina!

[going4potty]

So im not completly stupid then

[FirstNikki]

no no no...it gave some friday fun investigating

[FirstNikki]

I don't know if you are the same G4 but the first time I got pg it was relaxed and happened easily..this time round I am counting this and that wondering this and that and getting all confused sometimes so much to think about.

[carly82]

hi ladies just a quick one!
CH you are not to go anywhere hun who else will mock me and tell me off for early testing
I was going to stay and have a nice convo about knitting patterns but am offended by talk of thermometers put up your....ahem vagina








only joking
cant stay as have tea on the go hope all have a good weekend xx

[FirstNikki]

lol lol what a nice chat at the beginning of the thread.... the V word...