anyone trying for a big fat positive in January 06?

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Right then girlies..........I know i cant be the only one! If you cant wait to get Christmas out of the way so you can start ttc in January, sign up here! all our ttc threads seem to have gone v. quiet lately, im drummng up business for the luckiest, most hopeful, positive thread for 2006 babydust essential if you can do it! Come on, get your names down, January is a long dark month you know!

yes i did am pleased for her too but again i thought she was i did say early down the thread

sorry trace, i didnt realise you wanted to chat to your friend , you should have said.

no i didnt , she hijacked so i went on messenger , but then about 10 wanted me so i had to get off sorry nothing to do with you

hey pussycat am not leaving you feeling like that so come back here now

ok hun, i was just getting all paranoid when i saw you make another thread for her.
thought twas me.
night night x x

come here am not like that

((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))) for trace and pusscat after a really long day x x

pussycat read the other thread please i was just telling her i could not talk on mns to her

s'alright darling, just me like i said paranoid i think!

as long as your ok i didnt mean you , cuffyj1 is a good friend whos pg only a few weeks left, and i uselly chat on msn,

go to bed trace!! is ok we shall chat tomorrow. i sorry for being too sensitive hun x x
im going to bed too, night sweetie

ok i will take care when your feeling better am gona shout at you

nighty night

PCM how are you feeling today?

hi girls,

how are you pussycat?/

northy any syptoms?

Morning Trace!

No symptoms, boobs a bit sore but oftern are.

we need a third this month, befor we go onto feb

northerner do you work in a travel agents then?? can you help with going abrord too

No not a travel agents, a conference agency.

Uk only for special rates.

oh yes i remeber you have said

anyone lurking?/

Pussycatmomma - as a manager, i know that your company / manager, whoever, HAS to do everything within their power to support your return to work after long-term sick leave (7 weeks would be classed as long term sick leave Im pretty sure). This includes returning part time - whether this is a day a week, 2 days a week or whatever you feel happy with. You also need to be referred to occupational health. If you cannot go back to the position you were in as it is too stressful, etc, then they must try to move you to another department which is suitable. You must discuss the issue of bullying with occupational health, as they can help with your deployment in a way so that you dont have to confront your current manager.

Please also get in touch with your local mental health team, or Psych Nurse as they will give you support when you need it, and it sounds liek you do need it at the moment. Glad your DH is also supportive.

Thinking of you and hope today went well xxx

HIYA BABY DUST FOR ALL IM TANYA AND I LOST A BABY AT 15 WEEKS IN SEPTEMBER AND AM CURRENTLY TRYING AGAIN SO WISH ME LUCK HOPEFULLY THIS TIOME NEXT YEAR ILL HAVE ANOTHER BABY IN MY ARMS GOOD LUCK EVERYONE XX

hello TANYAMUMOV2 sorry about your loss but hopfully this thread will bring you luck, and welcome you can chat and join in ant time

pusscat where are you i wana know how you are??

hiya trace...just got in and sorted , only just had chance to log on. Thankyou so much for chatting last night, it really helped , especially trying to take my mind off stuff.
Well, ive been (to work). Boss never even spoke to me, not even good morning. I am not feeling so shook up today as i was yesterday, and i feel a bit more in control. I am going to ask to speak to my line managers line manager iyswim. im going to be brave and ask for a confidential meeting, and take my colleague in with me, just so i can get it all off my chest so to speak. If i dont get anywhere I think i am going to put in a formal grievance with the union.
Have i done good? x

Pussycatmomma - you did great! Well done you for keeping calm and professional - alot more than can be said of your awful sounding manager! I think the idea of a meeting and taking a colleague with you is a good step forward. Good luck!