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NEW BUS BOARDING FOR JUNE 2012

589 replies

desperateoldie67 · 23/08/2011 06:40

Struck out this month...anyone care to join me on the June 2012 bus?

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Mama5isalive · 19/09/2011 18:46

Hi all and welcome newbie needinstructions
Hi Loulou - it really only takes 1 good go! so go and do it for the team!
GTR - hope the charting and temping gives you good results this month and you get your BFP!!!!!!!
we are due a good string of BFP's - i just Pray im in there not feeling very hopeful though( i cant shake of the feeling that old hag is coming)
help.com - feeling blllllaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!
shopping trip i think for temp good factor, although a BFP would be better!!!!!!

Ilanthe · 19/09/2011 19:21

I introduced myself further up thread but didn't add myself to the list, so here goes...

SWI/SS/2WW-ing/POAS - abbreviations R us
Princessesmummmy(26) ttc#2 AF due 15 sept ish ,pram freak already chosen 1
mrsmellow (33)TTC#1 CD6 AF due ~18th Sept (ish) triathlete and happy camper (starting to knit - will outdoor sex follow soon? )
Mama5isalive (35)DC3 = TTC#4 - AF due- 20th Sept????????????
onlinefriend(36) TTC#1 AF due 22nd Sept
festiemum (38) TTC#4 AF due 24th Sept
Louloubella(27)TTC#1,AF due 25thSept, looks like an angel;swears like a trooper
Floralflora (39) TTC#3, cycle 1, AF due 25th Sept-ish
Deelite(37) TTC#2, AF due 26th Sept
jmjam (35) TTC#3 AF due 29th Sept
rubia (37), TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 30th Sept-ish
Grinningbee (40) TTC#3 Cycle 3, cd2, AF due 4th October (but who knows)
needinstructions (36) TTC#3 cycle 1, cd17, AF due 5th October (very very roughly)
ffnorm (35) TTC#2,AF due 6th Oct,impatient rule follower.
The Cake (31) TTC#1 Cycle 9, AF due from 7th October
Rusulka (30) TTC#1 Cycle 3, AF due 9th October, likes rats, making jewellery and writing inappropriate rhyming poetry, slightly kinky.
Readynow (34) TTC#1, cycle 8, AF due 9th October-ish
MrsGrumpWantsABump (34) TTC#1, AF due 10th Oct
Ilanthe (32) TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 10 October ish
ChocolateWindmill (24) TTC #1, AF due 11th October
Pipbin (36) TTC #1 cycle 2 really, AF due 13th Oct
pixarmum, TTC#2, cycle 2, AF due 13th Oct
MoominGirl (31), TTC#1, cycle 3, AF due 13th Oct-ish
Bradderswantsababy (29) TTC #1 cd 2 AF 18th Oct
Sn0wgoose (27) TTC#1, cycle 6, AF due 22nd Sep - experimental

Waiting for a sign, any sign
Prunella79 (32) TTC#1 CD1 seamstress tilting skyward
cheekycurls (25) TTC #2, cycle 41, CD 1, has 2 cats, a crazy puppy & completely worn out by school holidays!!
jemimapuddleduk (32) TTC#1, cycle 18 (cycle 4 after last mc), CD5. Will also be encouraging DH to perform lots of doggy style in between training our new puppy (sounds v wrong)
trilottie (30) ttc1, cycle1, CD10 very excited triathlete and bunny mummy
MyGoldenNotebook (29) ttc#2, 4th cycle, cd 6 will be trying it doggy style; enjoys knitting; isn't 2.
desperateoldie67 (43) - TTC#1, CD1 enjoys knitting; shags like a demon
Pillow(28) - TTC#1 - makes frilly knickers for a living
KinkyDorito (32) TTC#3 has 2 cats and a tilted womb. Used to knit, might explain outdoor SWI.
sweetpb (33) TCC#1
LittleMissT TTC#1 for the last 3 months. garden blogger and camper
GTR2882 (29) TTC#1 CD26 Jam making football fan who wants a dog as much as a baby but DH won't allow a dog, so a baby it is!
MorningHasBroken (29) TTC #1. Already has 2 stepkids, 1 puppy, 1 cat and a falling-down house but needs to add a bit more to the mix.

I am already feeling weird. SWI on CD 5. Since then, sore boobs on and off. Not normally a symptom round now - usually before period. There is no way in hell I could have got knocked up on day 5, is there? If indeed, given my spotting it was day 5. It could have been day 12 or 14 or something. Who knows.

Oh, and Mama - you were on my previous antenatal thread. Grin

GTR2882 · 20/09/2011 07:33

Morning ladies - just a quick update, I think i might have to jump off the June bus, i think the old hag is about to make an appearance :( have been crampy for the last 2 days now (it has gotten worse this morning and is eminating down my legs as well) and when i checked my cervix this morning, it's medium, soft and kind of open (i say kind of because it's sort of raised on the edges and dipped in the middle never felt it like that before), so I am assuming that impending doom is looming in the wings!!

Loulou - i promise i will get some links for the sexy undies at some point this evening, was working late yesterday so i never got a chance (and then the footie was on..........sorry Blush)

Mama5, festie and to all those waiting to test etc - really really hope you get your BFPs this month!!! I will be charting a July bus soon and don't want to see any of you on there Grin

Will linger around here for a while longer so i can keep an eye on things!! :)

trilottie · 20/09/2011 10:02

right i can finally add myself to the POAS section - it's day 17 of high temps but i chickened out of doing a test this morning - will try tomorrow seeing as thats day 18. have some weird symptoms but that might be PMT symptoms, i haven't had a proper period for so long I have no idea what they used to be like. Spent a tenner yesterday in Tesco on the double pack of the clearblue digital conception thingy - who knew they were so expensive! had to surreptiously go to the checkout hiding it as i was in there with some guys from work.

SWI/SS/2WW-ing/POAS - abbreviations R us
Princessesmummmy(26) ttc#2 AF due 15 sept ish ,pram freak already chosen 1
mrsmellow (33)TTC#1 CD6 AF due ~18th Sept (ish) triathlete and happy camper (starting to knit - will outdoor sex follow soon? )
trilottie (30) ttc1, cycle1, AF due 18th Sep - very excited triathlete and bunny mummy
Mama5isalive (35)DC3 = TTC#4 - AF due- 20th Sept????????????
onlinefriend(36) TTC#1 AF due 22nd Sept
festiemum (38) TTC#4 AF due 24th Sept
Louloubella(27)TTC#1,AF due 25thSept, looks like an angel;swears like a trooper
Floralflora (39) TTC#3, cycle 1, AF due 25th Sept-ish
Deelite(37) TTC#2, AF due 26th Sept
jmjam (35) TTC#3 AF due 29th Sept
rubia (37), TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 30th Sept-ish
Grinningbee (40) TTC#3 Cycle 3, cd2, AF due 4th October (but who knows)
needinstructions (36) TTC#3 cycle 1, cd17, AF due 5th October (very very roughly)
ffnorm (35) TTC#2,AF due 6th Oct,impatient rule follower.
The Cake (31) TTC#1 Cycle 9, AF due from 7th October
Rusulka (30) TTC#1 Cycle 3, AF due 9th October, likes rats, making jewellery and writing inappropriate rhyming poetry, slightly kinky.
Readynow (34) TTC#1, cycle 8, AF due 9th October-ish
MrsGrumpWantsABump (34) TTC#1, AF due 10th Oct
Ilanthe (32) TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 10 October ish
ChocolateWindmill (24) TTC #1, AF due 11th October
Pipbin (36) TTC #1 cycle 2 really, AF due 13th Oct
pixarmum, TTC#2, cycle 2, AF due 13th Oct
MoominGirl (31), TTC#1, cycle 3, AF due 13th Oct-ish
Bradderswantsababy (29) TTC #1 cd 2 AF 18th Oct
Sn0wgoose (27) TTC#1, cycle 6, AF due 22nd Sep - experimental

Waiting for a sign, any sign
Prunella79 (32) TTC#1 CD1 seamstress tilting skyward
cheekycurls (25) TTC #2, cycle 41, CD 1, has 2 cats, a crazy puppy & completely worn out by school holidays!!
jemimapuddleduk (32) TTC#1, cycle 18 (cycle 4 after last mc), CD5. Will also be encouraging DH to perform lots of doggy style in between training our new puppy (sounds v wrong)
MyGoldenNotebook (29) ttc#2, 4th cycle, cd 6 will be trying it doggy style; enjoys knitting; isn't 2.
desperateoldie67 (43) - TTC#1, CD1 enjoys knitting; shags like a demon
Pillow(28) - TTC#1 - makes frilly knickers for a living
KinkyDorito (32) TTC#3 has 2 cats and a tilted womb. Used to knit, might explain outdoor SWI.
sweetpb (33) TCC#1
LittleMissT TTC#1 for the last 3 months. garden blogger and camper
GTR2882 (29) TTC#1 CD26 Jam making football fan who wants a dog as much as a baby but DH won't allow a dog, so a baby it is!
MorningHasBroken (29) TTC #1. Already has 2 stepkids, 1 puppy, 1 cat and a falling-down house but needs to add a bit more to the mix.

trilottie · 20/09/2011 17:00

OMG!
Just did a test, couldn't wait any longer, and its only a BFP! Says Pregnant - 2-3 weeks. waaaah!
am shaking! Can anyone tell me when I should use the next test in the pack of 2 just to confirm? tomorrow, 2 days, a week? AF was due on sunday.

Readynow · 20/09/2011 17:24

Congratulations Trilottie Have not yet had a BFP myself so I'm not totally sure but if your temps have remained high, your period is late & you have a positive test then you probably don't really need to do a second test for confirmation.

TheCake · 20/09/2011 17:27

trilotte that is fantastic news- congratulations! X I think retesting is up to you- you are pregnant and don't have to retest unless you personally want to. Never had a bfp myself, but from what I've seen on here it varies- some people test and test and others don't.

Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome. Starting swi marathon last night- tried the position beloved by this forum! But- tmi alert- my DH always gets cramp in that position so we had to switch to me on top and I ended up with a bit of spillage! I know people say missionary or from behind is the best for ttc, but it is easiest for my DH to cum when I'm on top. I will just have to be quicker at jumping off next time Grin. Or maybe I could do I handstand after !

TheCake · 20/09/2011 17:34

trilotte you will get your olympics maternity leave too!

LydiaTheTattoedLady · 20/09/2011 17:46

I'm new and have no idea if I should board this bus or wait for another - feels a bit weird posting just after Trilotte just broke such amazing news.

Have FINALLY worked my magic on BF and convinced him to go childwards. Thought that would be the hard bit.....but (after looking into it) not so sure -Sex ed at school made it sound so flipping easy to get pregnant, sad to see that it's probably not going to be instantaneous.

ANYWAY...this is our first month of really going for it (last month wasn't really a concerted effort, as he only reached the realisation post OV) and now I'm terrified of the Old Woman - AF due on October 8th....Crossing fingers (that's how you have babies, right? Or did I not listen in sex ed?).
REALLY lovely to meet you all. I've been really inspired by all your posts.

trilottie · 20/09/2011 17:55

Thanks all - am waiting for DH to come home now - I've taped the test to the front door!
Good Luck Lydia - You sound as clueless as I was - but I'm now an expert due to reading the (very well regarded on MN) Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Really interesting and easy to read, I found. Asked DH to read a couple of chapters too.

Mama5isalive · 20/09/2011 17:56

WHHHHHHOOOOOOOOOPPPPPPPPYYYYYYYYY for Trilotte i wouldnt use the other one if you got a positive!!!!!!!! its a clearblue dit - you can take a picture of it(i did but had a poundland cheapie positive, then broke out the cld)

well its a roll on this thread so hope it works out for us all - BFP!!!!

louloubellamozzarella · 20/09/2011 18:17

Wowweee trilottie, great news - have updated you to the grads list below Grin

I wrote a long post earlier but it never went up, grrr! Can't remember what it said exactly now annoyingly but ended in me saying I think I might be out for this month and onto July bus. Just don't think we've SWId enough and I don't have any symptoms to speak of.

I know it might be a bit early to call but I'm not getting my hopes up. Think I'll test this coming Monday just in case... not sure if is too early though? I could have ovd anytime from the Friday before last (when I had cramping) to last Wed (when I had positive on ov stick - but didn't POAOS before then so might not have been first positive day!) Hmmm,....anyone have any views?

Will post with alluring knicker pics later Wink

louloubellamozzarella · 20/09/2011 18:19

OOpsies, forgot to paste

Olympic gold medal for maternity leave timing
trilottie (30) ttc1, cycle1, AF due 18th Sep - very excited triathlete and bunny mummy BFP !!!

SWI/SS/2WW-ing/POAS - abbreviations R us
Princessesmummmy(26) ttc#2 AF due 15 sept ish ,pram freak already chosen 1
mrsmellow (33)TTC#1 CD6 AF due ~18th Sept (ish) triathlete and happy camper (starting to knit - will outdoor sex follow soon? )
Mama5isalive (35)DC3 = TTC#4 - AF due- 20th Sept????????????
onlinefriend(36) TTC#1 AF due 22nd Sept
festiemum (38) TTC#4 AF due 24th Sept
Louloubella(27)TTC#1,AF due 25thSept, looks like an angel;swears like a trooper
Floralflora (39) TTC#3, cycle 1, AF due 25th Sept-ish
Deelite(37) TTC#2, AF due 26th Sept
jmjam (35) TTC#3 AF due 29th Sept
rubia (37), TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 30th Sept-ish
Grinningbee (40) TTC#3 Cycle 3, cd2, AF due 4th October (but who knows)
needinstructions (36) TTC#3 cycle 1, cd17, AF due 5th October (very very roughly)
ffnorm (35) TTC#2,AF due 6th Oct,impatient rule follower.
The Cake (31) TTC#1 Cycle 9, AF due from 7th October
Rusulka (30) TTC#1 Cycle 3, AF due 9th October, likes rats, making jewellery and writing inappropriate rhyming poetry, slightly kinky.
Readynow (34) TTC#1, cycle 8, AF due 9th October-ish
MrsGrumpWantsABump (34) TTC#1, AF due 10th Oct
Ilanthe (32) TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 10 October ish
ChocolateWindmill (24) TTC #1, AF due 11th October
Pipbin (36) TTC #1 cycle 2 really, AF due 13th Oct
pixarmum, TTC#2, cycle 2, AF due 13th Oct
MoominGirl (31), TTC#1, cycle 3, AF due 13th Oct-ish
Bradderswantsababy (29) TTC #1 cd 2 AF 18th Oct
Sn0wgoose (27) TTC#1, cycle 6, AF due 22nd Sep - experimental

Waiting for a sign, any sign
Prunella79 (32) TTC#1 CD1 seamstress tilting skyward
cheekycurls (25) TTC #2, cycle 41, CD 1, has 2 cats, a crazy puppy & completely worn out by school holidays!!
jemimapuddleduk (32) TTC#1, cycle 18 (cycle 4 after last mc), CD5. Will also be encouraging DH to perform lots of doggy style in between training our new puppy (sounds v wrong)
MyGoldenNotebook (29) ttc#2, 4th cycle, cd 6 will be trying it doggy style; enjoys knitting; isn't 2.
desperateoldie67 (43) - TTC#1, CD1 enjoys knitting; shags like a demon
Pillow(28) - TTC#1 - makes frilly knickers for a living
KinkyDorito (32) TTC#3 has 2 cats and a tilted womb. Used to knit, might explain outdoor SWI.
sweetpb (33) TCC#1
LittleMissT TTC#1 for the last 3 months. garden blogger and camper
GTR2882 (29) TTC#1 CD26 Jam making football fan who wants a dog as much as a baby but DH won't allow a dog, so a baby it is!
MorningHasBroken (29) TTC #1. Already has 2 stepkids, 1 puppy, 1 cat and a falling-down house but needs to add a bit more to the mix.

TheCake · 20/09/2011 18:31

trilotte you've taped the test to the door! That is brilliant! I could not do that as my door opens straight onto the street, the old man next door who is always on his step smoking cigars would see it before my DH.

GTR2882 · 20/09/2011 18:49

Wooohoooo trilottie that is great news!!! This does seem to be a lucky thread :)

sweetpb · 20/09/2011 20:23

Just updated to include the other BFP!!!

Pregnantville - BFP!
Olympic gold medal for maternity leave timing

DialM
Wellies&Pjs
MusicalMrs
trilottie (30) ttc1, cycle1, AF due 18th Sep - very excited triathlete and bunny mummy BFP !!!

SWI/SS/2WW-ing/POAS - abbreviations R us
Princessesmummmy(26) ttc#2 AF due 15 sept ish ,pram freak already chosen 1
mrsmellow (33)TTC#1 CD6 AF due ~18th Sept (ish) triathlete and happy camper (starting to knit - will outdoor sex follow soon? )
Mama5isalive (35)DC3 = TTC#4 - AF due- 20th Sept????????????
onlinefriend(36) TTC#1 AF due 22nd Sept
festiemum (38) TTC#4 AF due 24th Sept
Louloubella(27)TTC#1,AF due 25thSept, looks like an angel;swears like a trooper
Floralflora (39) TTC#3, cycle 1, AF due 25th Sept-ish
Deelite(37) TTC#2, AF due 26th Sept
jmjam (35) TTC#3 AF due 29th Sept
rubia (37), TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 30th Sept-ish
Grinningbee (40) TTC#3 Cycle 3, cd2, AF due 4th October (but who knows)
needinstructions (36) TTC#3 cycle 1, cd17, AF due 5th October (very very roughly)
ffnorm (35) TTC#2,AF due 6th Oct,impatient rule follower.
The Cake (31) TTC#1 Cycle 9, AF due from 7th October
Rusulka (30) TTC#1 Cycle 3, AF due 9th October, likes rats, making jewellery and writing inappropriate rhyming poetry, slightly kinky.
Readynow (34) TTC#1, cycle 8, AF due 9th October-ish
MrsGrumpWantsABump (34) TTC#1, AF due 10th Oct
Ilanthe (32) TTC#2, cycle 1, AF due 10 October ish
ChocolateWindmill (24) TTC #1, AF due 11th October
Pipbin (36) TTC #1 cycle 2 really, AF due 13th Oct
pixarmum, TTC#2, cycle 2, AF due 13th Oct
MoominGirl (31), TTC#1, cycle 3, AF due 13th Oct-ish
Bradderswantsababy (29) TTC #1 cd 2 AF 18th Oct
Sn0wgoose (27) TTC#1, cycle 6, AF due 22nd Sep - experimental

Waiting for a sign, any sign
Prunella79 (32) TTC#1 CD1 seamstress tilting skyward
cheekycurls (25) TTC #2, cycle 41, CD 1, has 2 cats, a crazy puppy & completely worn out by school holidays!!
jemimapuddleduk (32) TTC#1, cycle 18 (cycle 4 after last mc), CD5. Will also be encouraging DH to perform lots of doggy style in between training our new puppy (sounds v wrong)
MyGoldenNotebook (29) ttc#2, 4th cycle, cd 6 will be trying it doggy style; enjoys knitting; isn't 2.
desperateoldie67 (43) - TTC#1, CD1 enjoys knitting; shags like a demon
Pillow(28) - TTC#1 - makes frilly knickers for a living
KinkyDorito (32) TTC#3 has 2 cats and a tilted womb. Used to knit, might explain outdoor SWI.
sweetpb (33) TCC#1
LittleMissT TTC#1 for the last 3 months. garden blogger and camper
GTR2882 (29) TTC#1 CD26 Jam making football fan who wants a dog as much as a baby but DH won't allow a dog, so a baby it is!
MorningHasBroken (29) TTC #1. Already has 2 stepkids, 1 puppy, 1 cat and a falling-down house but needs to add a bit more to the mix.

louloubellamozzarella · 20/09/2011 20:49

OOps forgot the others - short term memory! Thanks pb.
Lottie, let us know how your OH reacted to the news!!
Any news from anyone else? I depressingly have nothing to report...still... will live for the moment vicariously tthrough others' BFPs :)

festiemum · 21/09/2011 08:27

Woo hoo! Congrats trilottie!

I have been bad and need a wrist slapping ladies!

I decided this month to be moderate with my POAS. Last month I was testing from 9 DPO and got into a bit of a pickle. Got my first (faint) BFP at 13 DPO and then as you know, miscarried, so.... anyway. After exhaustion and nausea aplenty, I made it to 11 DPO - pathetic I know, and unsurprisingly BFN. I didn't get one BFP on the cheapy internets last month, and I'm back using them this month, cos they've always worked for me before. So do I - wait a couple of days and try again with the internet cheapies or, go and get some decent tests and try again tomorrow?!

I am festiemum and I'm a POAS-aholic. Ahem! Blush

GTR2882 · 21/09/2011 08:42

Festie LOL!! You are officially a POASaholic Grin

As the internet cheapies are....ahem.....cheap, and given you have never had a problem with them before, I would wait a few days and test with fmu with a couple of them, if nothing (or if something faint) then I would definitely go out and buy and expensive brand just to make sure!! :)

louloubellamozzarella · 21/09/2011 09:10

Hold those wrists out festie!

I would say, try to wait till Friday then test again. Friday would be a far better day to test cause you can celebrate with a takeaway/meal out/chocolate if it's BFP or commiserate with a glass of Wine if it turns out BFN (maybe a small one just in case you want to test again on Monday)- win-win situation!

However, I'm so weak willed when it comes to POAS but they are sooo cheap and no one ever has to know.... but always regret it when I do and I know it's too early cause I'm 99% likely to be disappointed. Am trying harder and determined not to be weak this month Hmm

Ok, I've decided that I shall be strong and test on Monday... then if BFN (v likely) again next Friday. Do I have any testing buddies?

GTR2882 · 21/09/2011 09:18

Loulou - if i get the temp shift that I want tomorrow morning then that would put my ov date at CD32 (I am on CD40) and 9dpo. Monday would prob be too early for me to test (FF is saying 2nd October, we know i will have tested at least once 3 or 4 times by then :)) but I am willing to take an internet cheapie with you :)

louloubellamozzarella · 21/09/2011 09:47

Ok, pee sticks at the ready! will not test at weekend, will not test at weekend...

floralflora · 21/09/2011 09:47

I will test on Monday, Loulou, if AF doesn't show up in the meantime. I did already test Blush (BFN) because I reckon I ov'd a good 2 weeks ago, so I don't hold out much hope.

festiemum · 21/09/2011 09:53

Oh I'm just rubbish! AF isn't even due til saturday, FFS!

But, as you say GTR and loulou they're so cheap, it doesn't matter and I haven't told DH - ahem! They (men) must just think we're bonkers surely?

Anyway, looking at my chart on FF (don't temp, so it's not that helpful tbh) - I went for an ov day compromise, since my OPK just confused matters (not even sure it was a + frankly), and going by fanny batter - which the Bible (TCOYF) says you should always do - I may only be 9 DPO!

Blush Blush Blush

Oh feck, step away from the toilet, festie! So.... Monday loulou? You see, you're being sensible! GTR I hope you get your shift and testing can begin! :o

louloubellamozzarella · 21/09/2011 11:24

Yep, Monday. Three of us in so far, anyone else welcome to join in the pissathon Grin

My new substitute for POAS is PO ov sticks (POAOS as I like to say)... same kinda geeky testing of cycle and I can fool myself that if I know that I'm not oving still then I'm definitely in the 2WW and should hang on in case of a BFP. That sounds insane when written out. What a loon.