Hello - back again, sorry I'm not on very much at the moment, am still ridiculously tired so spare moments seem to be feeling the call of my bed. I really need a laptop, so I can prop myself up there and type away. iPhones are all very well for reading but not great for responding.
Apart from the tiredness all seems ok here, waiting for another appt on Thursday to get results of nuchal/bloods, fingers crossed it's all ok.
So what's been going on here?
Congrats to EdwardCullensOW fantastic news!!!! wishing you all the best for the coming weeks m'dear 
GreenOlives so sorry to hear of your losses, welcome to the thread. I've heard mixed things about testing after 2 + ectopic, I actually got tested after 2 consecutive because I'd had a MC before my DS (who is 3.7), so you might be 'lucky' if you approach your GP or ask about it during your gynae follow-up. It's worth a try, even though it can seem to take a long time. Does peppermint tea help with the wind pain?
Loup and Tina sorry to hear this month didn't work out. 
Very hard when you're surrounded by reminders of other people's happiness. Perhaps your friend is is aware that it would be difficult for you to hear that she's pg and is unsure how happy she is about it, when she knows you'd dearly love it. I haven't had a hycosy myself, but a friend did before starting IUI and she said it was painful while it happened but not too bad afterwards and good to know tubes etc were clear. There is a theory that the flushing of the dye can clear the tubes out and prompt increased fertility afterwards, but I expect as more women don't fall pg afterwards than do. Has it been a year since your last pg?
mouseymouse poor you when it's bad, it's awful, just awful. How many weeks are you now? If there's any consolation, my worst weeks were around 7-10, it started easing 10-11 and now it's just evenings (right around 6-8pm, how handy 
). It's worth asking about anti-emetics, I don't know how useful they are if you're not actually throwing up, but have heard sometimes they can take the edge off. I got prescribed them but didn't actually use them because I assumed it wouldn't work on someone not throwing up all the time. Keep having little snacks, salt & vinegar crisps, ice lollies, crisp apple slices, lime cordial, all those sorts of things helped me. And sleep whenever possible. Poor you.
digi yay for a good scan 
Twittwoo and Wiggle good luck for yours , Mouse is yours this week too?
ceropegia it probably would help to take a day off and allow yourself some time to cry. You have to let the tears out eventually, a big howl is often quite therapeutic. Big from me. Oh and don't be daunted by the 3-a-day method, it's not compulsory , more often than not DH and I would only manage every 2-3 days and I usually was up the duff within 6 months (I'm 37). This time around we had sex once because I got a cold after that, it was on day 8 and I normally ovulated on day 15. I know these sorts of stories can be irritating when you're trying and trying and it doesn't work, but I think it just goes to prove it can be a complete f&*king mystery as to when it's going to happen and why.
Knitter Thinking of you on this sad day.
to Velvet, Falcons, Zam, Collie, Izzy, YRMOTB, and anyone else who I've missed.