TTC after a Miscarriage - Love and Luck to all who need it!

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Well its about time you had a new thread.
I wanted to wish you all the best of luck with your trying to conceive and say that it might take weeks months or years, but you won't find a better group for support.
We have all been through the same experinces and talking to someone who has felt the same makes a world of difference.
You will all get your BFP's soon and in the meantime, lets try and keep as calm and de-stressed as possible.

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Potty - You have to go about this the way you feel is right. There is no right or wrong way of doing this, only the best way for you and your DH. You do what you feel is right, and blow what others think. If you feel you will recover better this way then go for it.
What you are going through is tough and is a major trauma both physically and mentally, but you will get through it. This is not a trivial occurance, and you must take time to recover, rest take good care of yourself and take all the time you need. You will get there, I promise

DH has got support too, me as well as good friend and folks. Were very lucky that way, mum was in tears too, although at first acted a bit off hand and strange, dont think she knew what to say. Still v emotional, also sister in law pregnant and coming back from living abroad after xmas, dont know how i will cope seeing her and bump. Its hard enough as i work at a womens hospital and a work collegue is also pregnant. I dont want them not to talk about their pregnancy when im around. Because i loved being pregnant with ds, and strangely i find the child chat comforting. im not wierd am i?

That is not wierd at all Potty. I am the same. I love talking about babies and Pregnancy. I am starting at college in Jan to begin my training as midwife, I am a B/Fing counsellor at present which involves lots of home visits with tiny babies. And I am compelled to hold these tiny little bundles. It cuts me up inside but I need to be around them

no you're not weird at all, I do the same, my Best friend gave brith about 3 months ago, and although its torture, I loved hearing how the pg progressed and I love going to see her little girl. Maybe we're just gluttons for punishment?

I hope you are ok tho and seriously do as ASH says, take time for yourself to greive and get over what you're going through

of course you're not weird, if the worst does happen and you're baby leaves you, then some people, especially pregnant ones may not know what to say to you, when you feel confident enough, i would tell them that you don't want them to feel like they can't talk tot you about their pregnancy.

potty i dont think your weird at all anyway dont use the word weird i think myself as eccentric it sounds so much nicer lol!

Girls - I've got a very unappropriate query. (inappropriate because of the subject we're on now) can I ask it, or would you rather I waited. I'm off for lunch in half hour so will ask after lunch if you want.

thanks for saying that ash, just thought people would think i was being morbid.

Juat ask Mums, you know we are not easily offended!

speak for yourself ASH i am very easily offended

only joking mums ask away

Ask away, i might be upset, but im not selfish

no not offended, inappropriate. I know you cant be offended but it is inappropriate

come on mxw

get on with it

oh well maybe she's gone. right what shall we chat about

Potty how many other kids do you ahve?

maccaroni cheese makes great comfort food. Especially after my healthy few months

ok had AF on Thursday (for one day, really light) but before and since, I've got really sore boobs, really need to pee, constantly sick, and bad guts aswel. I thought it was all to do with this cold but I woke up today and felt fine (coldwise) but sooo sick. I keep getting light-headed and found myself falling asleep as soon as I got in from work last night (5pm) I cant eat.

mmm macaroni cheese, really WANT that now.

just a ds 3yrs old. absolutely biteable! Sorry typical proud mum.

MUMS WHERE ARE YOU????................ Sorry for shouting anyway quick question from me then... every now and then i get a tingly sensation in my nipples(?) does anyone get this b4 af arrives its quite strange it isnt constant just every now and again, and its quite sore tingly

whats af?

Sorry Mums but I have to say it -

The only thing you can do is test!

mumsxmaswish - think i remember you feeling the same last month, maybe these are your AF symptoms since coming off the pill. I had the same, I convinced myself i was pregnant every Af for 6 months. I think its probably just your time of the month mums.

Sorry Potty - AF = Aunty Flo = period!!