Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

[CollieandPup]

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
6. And the presence of symptoms.
7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.

10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

See here for the old thread.

Oh dachs I am so, so sad and angry at life's desperate unfairness. Lots of love to you and DH, I am praying with all my heart that everything works out ok

dachs and dachs dh thinking of you and hoping so desperately that all works out ok and both pups are fine.

Thinking of you dachs. Praying it all settles down for you xx

So sorry to hear your news Dachs, am saying a prayer for you and the little ones xx

Keeping all things crossed for dachs

dacha and dachaDH you have been constantly in my thoughts today. I hope and pray everything is going to be ok for your little pups xx

Thanks for all your good wishes everyone. Not a lot I can do except lie here and wait. Doctors don't have much hope but there is a small possibility that a miracle could happen. (their words not mine). DH and I are gutted right now. Not sure how much I'll be posting but I'll let you know if anything happens.

Hoping and praying for a miracle for you as well.

Dachs have only just seen this. I really am hoping and praying for a miracle for you my love xxx I too read mrsS twins/TTT transfusion story recently and hoping for the same miracles for you xxx

You and mr Dachs are very much in my thoughts x

Oh Dachs thinking of you all, sending lots of love and praying for a miracle too. xx

Dachs if miracles can be conjured up by collective force of will then there is one on its way to you, Mr Dachs and your pups right now xxx

dachs my darling, you and your DH are in my thoughts, I have everything crossed that it's not as bad as they think. xxx

Dachs thinking of you and keeping absolutely everything crossed that the miracle happens and it all works out ok xxx

Dachs I am so sorry to hear what has happened I am keeping everything crossed for a positive outcome. I know you must be terrified but try to keep strong I know of so many ladies who have PROM'd and gone on to have heathy babies/children. You may find this website helpful, they also have a support group on Facebook www.kanalen.org/prom/ xxxxxxxxxx

Sorry I only just saw this. Dachs and MrDachs you and your pups are in my thoughts. I am hoping and praying for them both to be safe and that life can't be that cruel. I still have one exam result to get, I would gladly fail for you to have my luck xxxxxx

Fuck fuck fuckity fuck Dach and DHDach can't believe what I'm reading and am in tears so goodness knows what you're going through. Sorry for the rage outburst of swearing. Some things are just so unfair. I am hoping that the miracle occurs for you guys. Thinking of you and sending you lots of love n hugz xxx

Dachs and MrDachs and the pups.... I can't believe this is happening, you're the last people in the world who deserve it. Sending you both hugs and keeping my fingers REALLY crossed...

Dachs and MrDachs I am so angry at the unfairness of it all, but am praying for that "miracle" for you. They DO happen and every part of me wishes that it will happen for you. Look after yourselves. xxx

Dachs and DHDachs I am so so sorry hun to read your news. Sending you all our love and thinking of you. Will keep my fingers crossed the hole closes up, infection stays away and those two little beans are ok. Sending you a huge hug xxx

dachs I hope you get the miracle you deserve. Like everyone one on here I?ve been thinking about you, DH and your little pups all day. When will they check on you again?

izzy did you have a scan today? If so, I?m sure we?d all love to hear some good scans news, I know I would. x

Isn't someone being scanned tomorrow? I am sure i remember someone is but its not on the list. fx for whoever its is xxxx

I just feel shocked to the core about poor Dachs I got all teary on the way home in the car and I just have such a low mood. Just really upset by it all, I can?t imagine how they are feeling as i'm truley gutted for them. Just a very rude awakening to how fragile it all is ? have spent the whole day incessantly knicker checking. Why does it have to be so hard.?? Its so cruel and unfair.

Oh goodness....I'm so sorry you have to go through this Dachs. I'm praying for a miracle for you.

Dachs and DHDachs I'm hoping for your miracle too. I'm so gutted for you, I've been checking my phone (in lessons) all day to hear your news and I'm so sorry they arent hopeful for you. I can't imagine how you are feeling and I wish I could do something to help :(.

oh Jesus dachs have just seen this. Am so very sorry for you and your family. I so hope waters replenish and it was just a leak. If only they get to 24 wks, theyt will have a chance.

Don't know what to say, thinking of you. xx

dachs you are all in my thoughts and prayers XXXX

Dachs just popping over to say I'm thinking of you and hope hope hope all is ok.