Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

[meliesmummy]

Hello! If you have recently miscarried and are thinking of or actively trying again come and join us! We offer plenty of cake, tea and wine if needed! Come in and laugh, cry and rant as needed, and don't be afraid of asking whatever questions you need answers to and we'll try our best to answer them.

Add yourself to the stats list whenever you are ready.

wtcc = waiting to try to conceive
ucl = usual cycle length
wtf cycle = the time after your mc when you have no idea whats going on with your normal cycle

Lets hope this is a lucky thread and we all get our bfps!

part 14 of the thread

stats to follow

Minnie I am keeping everything crossed for you. I bled for about 6 weeks with dd, it was always red fresh blood and now I have a gorgeous 2 year old so it isnt necessarily negative!!

Hello to everyone, fingers crossed to the 2 week waiters. I am now 11 days post IUI and no longer want to be inside my own head. Going to accupuncture tomorrow which always calms me down.

Minnie (((hugs))) thinking of you xx

Minnie i hope the bleeding stops and it's all ok, can't offe rmuch advice (sorry) but lots of people on here have bleeding on and off and now have DD and DS, so Fx for you.

olismum, sorry to hear about the bleeding, silver cloud and all at least you are CD1 and can get going again. I've just started having more reddish bleeding (sorry tmi) so am thinking its AF at 11/12dpo, early but I'm thinking positive, I go on holiday tomorrow so can have a week of relaxing, drinking and waiting for the next bloomin ovulation!

hihp good luck to you, really hope a BFP awaits.

hopeful1 how are you getting along?

bump are you now on the 2ww? If so good luck with crazy symptom spotting!

Why is it so bl**dy hard to get a BFP girls?

xx

minnie thinking of you fx everything is o.k.

I haven't tested yet, its not on my mind that much. Should find out today if ds gets into the school we wanted so think once that is done with will get alot more impatient.

MONDAYS LIST

TTC

HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD45
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD39
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD38
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD36
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD33
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD30
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD30
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD29
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD27
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD26
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD26
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD23
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? CD15
wellieboots ttc #1, cycle 3, UCL 33-35 CD10
ochaye ttc #3, MC#2 Apr 11, WTF cycle, UCL 31, CD10
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD10
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 3 CD8
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD5
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?
hopeful1 ttc#2 IUI with clomid
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP
Emoo BFP 30/1/11

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRm, Mumtum, Stitch, Knitter

Good morning to everyone. Good luck to the testers!

How are you today Minnie?

Minnie how are things?

Okay, I am scared. I poas yesterday (FMU) at 11 dpiui and had a very very faint line. I poas again this morning (FMU)and line was slightly darker but still faint although quite visible. Then last night I got af pains like it is coming any minute and still have them today. When I mc'd last month I had very faint lines and at my 16 blood test the hcg levels were too low. Sorry for the me me me but feel so anxious that the same thing is happening again!!

hopeful fingers x'd for you lovely. Can you see the doc? 11 days is still very early, one of my faint lines is nearly 5 now.

I got a bfp too, also a faint line.....promptly burst into tears and thus reassuring dh of my mental stability. Not. I'm terrified too as it'll be 4 weeks on Wed since last mc. But if I have to have 3 mc's to get investigations then maybe it's best to get it over and done with. Lots of crampiness and some sickness, but that's normal for me and can be af or prg.

Oh fuckity fuck!!!!

Argh clicked too soon:

Minnie hope you're ok lovely, been thinking of you.

Just a quickie as on a deadline but Minnie hope things are continuing to ease. Just wanted to say AGGGGRRRRHH to Harassed and Hopeful for the BFPs!!! I am not so clued up on this game to think they can mean anything else except you are pregnant - surely you don't get false BFPs....?? Wooooo! Am watching in the hope you will become sure of them. Yes Harassed you are right. Fingers crossed it goes ok this time but if the worst happens at least you will be eligible for treatment. Can't believe people have to go through this three times to get to that stage. But hoping this is a sticky one for you xx

Oh, goodness. It's all go over here.

hihp congratulations!

hopeful congratulations too! What tests are you using? If it's Internet cheapie remember that on some batches the line won't go very dark anyway. I would wait til 14 DPO and then test again. Good luc with schools, we just found out about ds's this week.

Minnie sorry you're in limbo. A lot of the freakouts have had early bleeding post mc. Blood tests may be the only definitive answer so early on.

Waves to all, I'm in the 2 ww now, and glad of it! Hope you all had lovely weekends in the sun.

Morning ladies!

Blimey it is all go!!

HIHP and Hopeful this all sounds really positive. Oohh I'm really excited for you. Fingers crossed those lines still keep coming and getting stronger. Keep us posted and try to stay calm (I know easier said than done) and not freak out!!

Minnie hun so so sorry you've had a bit of a scare. The girls are right though - it doesn't always mean there is something wrong. How are you doing today?

Melies you feeling better after the weekend?

Loup have a good holiday!

I don't think I am on the 2ww yet. I don't think I have ovulated (well according to period tracker on my iphone)but then I am a bit confused as the CM isn't increasing like it normally would (despite my grapefruit juice drinking!!). Maybe I'm not going to ovulate? Maybe I've missed it? I have no idea so I am just going to keep DTD...its tough but someone's got to do it

Morning to everyone else! xx

Harassed thats great news, congratualtions!! Lets hope they dont end up in another mc for the both of us

Bump goo luck this month

Youre I used the first response test, same as last time which was also faint but will test everyday to see if getting darker. Sent DH off today to buy a crate load of hpt.

Not getting my hopes up as know all too well this could end up not being viable too.

Yay for hihp and hopeful hope that it is good news for you both and the lines get darker.

I had a little bleeding yesterday so really though AF here and now nothing since so am on the usual rolle rocaster of "is it AF" or "is it IB", internet cheapies not showing a line but then I didn't get one before until 14 or 15dpo and I am 12 or 13 today.... No symptoms though so absolutely clueless as to what's going on. Will go on holiday armed with a batch of hpt and tampons to cover both eventualities!

Good luck "youremindmeofthebabe and all others on 2ww. Carry on with DTD bump good luck to you. THinking of minnie* too.

Waves to all others and hopes you can enjoy some of this lovely sunshine! x

Loup keeping everything crossed for you loup. Hope you get a positive hpt. Have a lovely holiday and try and relax if you can, hard I know!!

Loup how confusing!! Well if you take it all at least you are prepared for all eventualities.

Am feeling sick. I didn't feel sick last time I was pregnant (and I had lots of other pretty strong symptoms like going to the loo all the time, sore boobs, wind really emotional, off coffee etc ) so don't think that's what it is at all....in fact, I am not supposed to ovulate until Thursday according to the tracker thingy....but you know what its like...you just have to get that symptom out there!!

Just popping in quickly to lurk for some bfp...and voila....congratulations harrased and hopeful. Fx that all is ok minnie, can you go to the epu to get hcg levels tested to make sure its going up.

olis have you tested again today or did AF make an appearance? I think cd1 should be taken from. 1st day of proper bleeding.

That's great news harrassed & hopeful!

Am kinda bleeding, if you can call it that. It's almost like I am having a ridiculously light period that is so far lasting about a week. I can def not class any of the days as CD1 though as I know my own AFs and this is so far not one of them so am very and that I clearly didn't ovulate this cycle and I just wish my body would stop fecking about and just bring AF on!

ninu no bleeding today at all had brown stretchy CM PINK CM on wiping with a tiny red streak then brown stretchy CM a tiny bit then nothing all last night and still nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont know what to think boobs hurt and my sense of smell has rocketed, I am scared im in the same situation as before :( with hcg not rising I only tested on what would have been my 7th week and got a faint line baby was only 4 weeks scared now :(

congrats to BFPS

oli How did you test when you were pg with your ds? By which I mean, like collie does it take a long time in general for you to show a clear BFP? I tend to show days before AF due, have done with all my pgs which is why I generally know that when my AF is late it is probably because I haven't ov not because I am pg iykwim?

I dont know chloe I had no idea i was pregnant with my ds as my periods were irregular and i was waiting to be tested for infertility we had been trying a year and a half when i felt something was different i was 6 and a half weeks and got a very strong line i did test two weeks before and got a negative mind you i just dont know??

Freelance broke your good (Harrassed) news in the miscarriage threads. Just had to pop by and say I have everything crossed for you my lovely. Hope this one is a super sticky one. Congratulations to Hopeful too. Hi to everyone else. Sorry we're in this predicament. Hope this is a lucky thread for all who ride in her. Marking my place until finished miscarrying. Hoping to join you all very soon my lovelies xxx

sorry to hear your news diamonds.

olismum looks like I might be in the same position, I have had light periods since coming off the pill but have been on and off bleeding since Saturday but no symptoms at all, so confusing as to when I am CD1. Just wish AF would show properly to get me started again, meanwhile I secretly hope it's some sort of implantation.

Stocking up at Boots with some hpts on the basis that if this month it is a negative, there will always be next month!!!

will try and keep an eye on the thread from my mobile but whilst i'm on holiday, wishing all youo ladies lots of luck and sticky beans! x

well ladies AF must have known i was talking about her see is well and truely here now another month passes oh well offically CD1 now must now be more a 32 day cycle.....ho hum hope yours is a implantation bleed loup

MONDAYS LIST

TTC

HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD45
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD39
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD38
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD36
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD30
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD30
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD29
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD27
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD26
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD26
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD23
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? CD15
wellieboots ttc #1, cycle 3, UCL 33-35 CD10
ochaye ttc #3, MC#2 Apr 11, WTF cycle, UCL 31, CD10
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD10
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 3 CD8
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD5
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?
hopeful1 ttc#2 IUI with clomid
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD
Olismum TTC#2, Cycle 3, UCL 31/32, CD1

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP
Emoo BFP 30/1/11

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRm, Mumtum, Stitch, Knitter

Aww olismum - sorry to hear that but at least it's clearcut now and you have a starting point instead of wondering WTF is going on.

Diamonds - :( for you, hope you are ok.

olismum I think mine heard me discussing it too, have become much heavier in past couple of hours! Weird!