Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

[meliesmummy]

Hello! If you have recently miscarried and are thinking of or actively trying again come and join us! We offer plenty of cake, tea and wine if needed! Come in and laugh, cry and rant as needed, and don't be afraid of asking whatever questions you need answers to and we'll try our best to answer them.

Add yourself to the stats list whenever you are ready.

wtcc = waiting to try to conceive
ucl = usual cycle length
wtf cycle = the time after your mc when you have no idea whats going on with your normal cycle

Lets hope this is a lucky thread and we all get our bfps!

part 14 of the thread

stats to follow

mel collie* we tried that, he doesn't give up he screamed for the rest of the night at the gate for a week, bangs his toys on it and basically caused one hell of a noise.

chloe my parents offered to have him, but if mum stayed here ironically i'd worry about him waking her up, and we can't afford to pay for a week nursery without him actually going. dh and i have a night away on 17/4 and ds is staying at the parents for the night, we're planning on having a long lie in. who wants to start the betting now that i'll wake early.

Hi everyone
just a quick one my mood is all over the place today, does anyone else get mood swings around ovulation? I have never had them before but i tell you its been an awful day currently in bed while the wee one has a nap just feel dire!

Collie Thank you for the advice, so touched you wrote inbetween all the appointments!

Collie thanks so much for that. It was really good for me to read too. I sent it to him and he said he is sorry for what he said in the heat of the moment and he does understand/will try to more and loves me. So that's something!!

Cep I hope you have a lovely night off when you go away. I honestly don't know what to suggest as you sound like you are doing such a good job trying lots of different things. I think I might have missed your original post on this - when did it start? Did he used to sleep well?

Really I am so sorry you are feeling down. I was feeling loads better two weeks ago and this past week have been a crying mess. It is PMT for me and I think when our hormones go up and down at different times it is bound to affect how we all cope when something really traumatic and upsetting has happened. Don't be too down on yourself. I am sure you will feel a little better soon and until then eat lots of chocolate...don't worry about calories as upset = stress = burning calories so really it just balances it all out.

Olismum sorry you are having a rubbish day too. I def think your moods can change at different times of the month...at least I like to think that is what happens to me and I am not "emotionally unstable" as my DH claims!

Sorry if I've missed anyone off - I am a bit rubbish once I can't scroll up and see the posts as I get everyone confused!

xx

Bump loving the philosophy that stress cancels out calories! Will it work on the croissants that dh over stocked on for mothers day that I can't avoid eating?!

Thanks for the offer Collie but cleaning my own house is more than enough for me...this morning I used oven cleaner on the oven for the first time since it was fitted 3 years ago, I've always just used general cleaning spray before now and I was disgusted at the colour of the water when I rinsed it...

Any luck with the HV Cep? good luck for tonight x

Bump Thank you for the lovely advice! I love your philosioy too - brilliant! Sorry to hear you're a crying mess, I send you tissues and some of that chocolate

collie so pleased for you. It must be so reassuring to see the little heartbeat.

loving your philosophy bump hope it works on crisps too. Hope you're feeling a bit more cheerful.

really oils hope you're both feeling better too

Got a strange pain in my side today which is like the one I had with the mc. Probably af on it's way but can't help reading all sorts into it!

Just playing catch up

Chloe so pleased you are being referred somewhere better, so pleased you are getting proper monitoring, sometimes a cycle off in between doses can put the mind and body at rest. So hope you get some good news soon (((hugs)))

Bump so sorry your DH was so unsympathetic earlier on, echo all the comments by the other ladies. Men do have a different way of dealing with things. The website Collie sent you, really helped me, and I sent it to some friends, my MIL and some close colleauges, the section on things not to say were really useful for all of them. HOpe you have a better day tomorrow

Collie so, so pleased you got to see the HB, how lovely. ,

Cep good luck for tomorrow FX, and really hope you get a decent sleep.

evening ladies,

bump it feels like forever ago, he used to sleep really well, never really late but woke up just before our alarms went off, then he started waking really early say between 4-5 then it got to all times of night, sometimes he goes back to sleep sometimes stays awake like last night. is typical he sleeps "well" while i've been signed off then starts off waking early again just before i go back to work.
I'm going to stop giving him his multi vit, i think he may be getting too much vit b's (worth a bloody try anyway) but his cereals have had it added as well and apparently it's good for giving extra energy.

thanks for all the good wishes. sorry if i've missed anything, i'm off for a bath and yes you guessed it an early night....again.....hope it's worth it. he didn't even have a nap today was just pure energy i don't know how he does it. anyway night night ladies.

All the best for tomorrow Cep, I'll be lurking for news after my reflexology! I hope ds behaves for you x

Evening all, hope you had nice weekends

RUE and Chloe - antiphospholipid syndome is also called Hughes syndrome, it's an autoimmune disorder that can be one of the causes of recurrent miscarriage. I was diagnosed because I had DVT and lung clots after a long haul flight about a year ago, pretty scary stuff. My treatment was warfarin until I got pregnant and then the shots, becuase we wanted to try again straight away. Was quite relieved they let me stay on the heparin as I think going back on the warfarin would have just been too much for me on top of everything else.

Am totally symptom spotting as AF due tomorrow, my daily POAS is still BFN and not holding out much hope.

yay for Collie and the HB :o

Yay for colliebean HB! well done you, that's amazing news!
chloe so fab that you're getting re-referred - it's a pain that it's all taken so long (especially if the gp knew that the clinic you were going to was crap but hopefully you should start making progress now

Nice to meet you stitch, hope your stay here is short for the right reasons! :)
All the best for your scan today cep, really hope it's reassuring for you

bump olis and Really sorry you had rubbish days - this mc rollercoaster is a tough ride and as everyone else has already said, men talk a different language about it. I find it really frustrating to try and talk about something which I feel is just SO important and get noncommital responses or, on worse days, to be accused of being fixated :( I am starting to understand that this is just yet another area where they are just wired COMPLETELY different to us! Big hugs to all of you

morning ladies

stitch sorry for bfn's.

thanks for the scan wishes, i am scared, hoping the bad feeling is just due to last time. I don't think i'll be able to come back on until after work, so i won't be able to report till after 13:00.

ds slept through yay (but then would have been suprised if he hadn't since he didn't nap yesterday) big test will b next few days.

hope you're all ok.

Fx cep xx

Yay to full night's sleep Cep!! good luck today x

Anything to report wellie? You are top of the list...

Hello to stitch and collie and everyone else!

Fx that it will all be fine cep - big hugs and thinking of you today, it can't be easy to go back there, please keep us posted, glad that DS at least slept through x

Hi mellies thanks for the reminder :) - no sign yet though I had some very AF-like cramps in bed this morning, the UCL on the list is pre MC and I had a 33 day cycle last time, and a very long WTF as well - will prob test tomorrow if no sign of AF by then

waves to everyone else!

Tuesdays List

ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD34
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD32
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD32
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD25
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD24
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD23
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD21
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD20
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD17
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD16
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD14
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD14
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD13
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD13
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD10
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP 25 Jan 2011

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

Good luck with the testing Wellie and Stitch, keep us posted!

Good luck today cep And yey for sleeping all night!

Cep Thinking of you today, good luck, FX here for you!

Stitch Thanks for the explanation, what a way to find out you have it. Sorry for the BFN.

Chloe That's great news that you have been referred somewhere else - I hope they look after you properly.

Bump How did it go last night with DH? Did you talk about it with him? Sending big hugs.

Am feeling more chirpy today . Thank you for the kind words yesterday.

Hi Wellie, Minnie, Melie, Collie, Layla =, YRMOTB and everyone else!

Tuesdays List

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD34
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD32
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD32
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD25
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD24
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD23
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD21
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD20
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD17
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD16
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD14
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD14
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD13
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD13
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD10
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

Just some list tidying!

Hi everyone,

I posted a few weeks back after my mc. I have started another round of clomid and due for IUI tomorrow. Been put on aspirin for my lining this time.

I have been following you all all though I havent written much.

Cep - good luck with your scan today, cant wait to hear your good news and pleased you had a good nights sleep

Just added myself to the list

Tuesdays List

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD34
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD32
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD32
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD25
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD24
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD23
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD21
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD20
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD17
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD16
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD14
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD14
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD13
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD13
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD10
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?
hopeful1 ttc#2 IUI with clomid

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

Hi Hopeful, best wishes for tomorrow x

hi everyone i hope you are all well and sorry for the recent BFNs and cep good luck with your scan today, i havent got time to catch up properly as dd is poorly and wont get off my lap but i had to come on and tell you i got a faint positive this morning its faint but there at13 dpo and im only telling you guys, im not telling oh for a few weeks as hes been looking forward to a stag weekend for ages and if i tell him he will spend the whole weekend worrying so if its ok id like to stay on the ttc list for a while, this really is a lucky thread xxx

Hopeful Best wishes with the IUI tomorrow. How are you feeling?

Layla Congratulations - amazing news!

Are all these BFPs unusual for this thread?!