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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Definitely not too early! Throw cake and learn amazing facts about semen and mucus on the 2nd December bus!

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spidookly · 23/03/2011 15:45

I started another bus! I can't believe we got full so soon :o

From the last thread:
"He has said - 'no gym, no sex' - that'll do it!"

:o

OMG I love your DH, he sounds hilarious :)

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MickyLee · 06/04/2011 14:15

Ah seven maybe too early. Sorry for pushing you into the BFN

maybe you don't get two lines when not pregnant.

leaky · 06/04/2011 14:19

Hi, any room for me on your bus?!

I've been following your thread a bit, mostly yesterday & today & was also waiting to hear sevens news. I'm in the same boat (or should that be bus?Smile) as you as I tested this morning and got a BFN.But I'm only on CD34 so due today I think. Poor DH doesn't even know I tried to conceive, kind of, as I thought I'd already OV'd but didn't tell him that as he doesn't want any more really (we have 3 already).And I still can't tell him what's constantly on my mind as he's working on his dissatation for few more weeks so I don't want to give him more to worry about. I was feeling positive until I did the test but it still could be too soon for me.

maybebabyR · 06/04/2011 14:25

But it was the one with the cross micky and I have read things about the control line bleeding into it to make it look like a cross when it isnt.

So I am convincing myself that is what has happened.

I'm glad you like it spidookly I may let you borrow it Grin

Tanif · 06/04/2011 14:29

leaky I hate to sound preachy but are you sure it's a good idea to deceive your DH into another baby when he believes his family is complete? Obviously, accidents happen and they can be wonderful, but, and maybe I'm just reading your post all wrong, it seems as though you're at least half-trying to get knocked up without his consent...

leaky · 06/04/2011 14:44

I know what you mean Tanif. When we did it I was in CD23 so really thought it was too late in my cycle but half hoped it wasn't. After that I spoke to him about a 4th & he said no but I asked him to hear me out & he didn't seem so set against it, more worried about the finances etc. But then a few days later I told him I was happy to forget it, I'd woken up so tired I thought I'd struggle no.4. Anyway, I've been up & down, one minute wanting one, then changing my mind again. I just can't share this with him at the mo as he has a lot on. Definitely won't do it unprotected again though unless we chat first.

Off on school run nowSmile

sevendwarves · 06/04/2011 15:13

Hi leaky, we met on the other thread, sorry about your BFN.

maybe I used a superdrug test, someone said they were good (sorry can't remember who). My pee was a bit pale (sorry tmi) but I didn't think it would make that much difference when AF is already late. I'll do another on Friday if AF still hasn't arrived.

Tanif · 06/04/2011 15:18

seven fmu is always best. I've heard of people not getting a BFP for a couple of weeks after AF is due.

maybebabyR · 06/04/2011 15:21

Will keep my FX for you on Friday seven

I have kept my positive ones. I keep staring at them. Not good for sanity Grin

sevendwarves · 06/04/2011 16:11

maybe :o I'm that bad with negative ones, I have to put them straight in the outside bin otherwise I'll keep getting them out to check again. Blush

xstitch · 06/04/2011 16:43

Me too maybe

seven I wouldn't give up hope yet. You are only one day late so wouldn't be unusual to need FMU to show up. fx for you.

orangehead · 06/04/2011 18:02

Maybe I was like that with my first, I didnt believe the test and went to the docs to confirm it. I was very dissappointed when docotor said he wouldnt do a test as the ones you buy are not more senstive then the ones they use Hmm thats what he said anyway, and if it was positive then I was pregnant.
Sorry seven, but not over till af shows her ugly head.fx she does'nt.
Welcome Leaky, sorry about af.
Well think I might go to docs if nothing happens this month. Was talking to someone on another thread (thread actually by a troll about bf, funny how thread can take a different course) anyhow she having probs ttc for a few years and they think part of the problem is damage and adhesions from her cs. anyhow I had a laproscopy a few years ago due to various problems with my cycle and af. Consultant said there was alot of damage and adhesions from my cs and that was possibly causing my problems. He never said anything about affecting fertility but he knew I was very adamant I didnt want anymore. Since ttc this has been worrying me a bit but didnt know if being silly. But after talking on this thread think I need to go and have a chat

MickyLee · 06/04/2011 19:11

orange agree you should talk to a pro about TTC. Could be a really simole solution if it was causing problems TTC. When you say cs I take it you mean c-section?

I am feeling very strange inside. AF cramp feeling, like my womb is being dragged down. Not in my head at all either as it is stoping me in my tracks when thay come on. I am on CD12 so not sure what all that is about!

SomersetBelle · 06/04/2011 20:04

Can I hop on please?

I doubt very much that we've conceived though! We're supposed to be waiting until the summer to try for number 2, but DH got all full of the joys of spring the other day, iykwim.

I stopped bf DD a couple of weeks ago, AF returned on the 18th March, going on cycles before we conceived DD I'm 28 days, so it's slightly possible I suppose!

MickyLee · 06/04/2011 20:10

Welcome and good luck leaky and somerset :)

sevendwarves · 06/04/2011 20:13

orange sounds like a good idea to me too.

Welcome belle

orangehead · 06/04/2011 20:25

Yes mean c section micky, not sure what to suggest about your pains. Is it possible you get them every month around this time but you just not given them not thought before.
Welcome somerset.

MickyLee · 06/04/2011 21:04

orange Didn't have them last month which was first cycle off pill. FF did predict I ovulated on day 8 but then changed the prediction this morning. If FF was correct in the first place then maybe it is implantation pains!?!?! Confused

However all will be revealed on AF due date (I hope)

cookiemonster100 · 06/04/2011 22:51

Hey all, congrats on the recent BFP's and sorry if AF got you.
CD15 and I my CBFM has now come to a low (peak CD12 & CD13) so DH is resting Grin
On Tue off for my 1st set of tests to see what they fine. Blood test mainly so should be all good.
Good luck Thinking for tomorrow, let us know how it goes.
Spidookly - Big hug from your bus buddy Smile
mmmm we seem to be low on cake, what happened....lemon drizzle anyone?

maybebabyR · 06/04/2011 23:06

Evening everyone

Feeling very down, as have a very slight pink tinge to CM. Fair enough, I have literally been rooting around every hour to see, but still.

No cramps though, so will see what tomorrow brings. Think another sleepless night is ahead. And I think boots will be getting a nasty letter.

Sorry for yet another me me me from me today. FX for everyone that is testing tomorrow x

MickyLee · 07/04/2011 06:36

Morning Ladies.

My temp was high this morning so I think the pains yesterday were ovulation pains!

maybe This is what the thread is about! Hope you get an answer soon and some sleep!

cookie pass some cake to maybe think she could do with some

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MickyLee · 07/04/2011 07:14

vegas YADNBU Men! they just don't get this whole TTC business at all. FX he has some strong sperm

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maybebabyR · 07/04/2011 08:29

Thanks mickey and vegas No sign of AF but am now only getting negatives, s think it is all over for me. Think I am going to have to leave the bus as I don't think this is my month.

Thank you for all being so supportive Smile

MickyLee · 07/04/2011 09:08

Nooo maybe It isn't over until AF shows up!
Wait for a few more days and test again. Is AF normally late?

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