Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other... Part III

[YourFriendBrian]

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads.

Lots of love
Brian x

AandR so sorry you are going through this :(

Knitter I'm fine, just a viability scan to see if I made it further than last time.

velvet thank goodness... was worried something had happened. FX everything will be fine

AandRMum I'm so sorry, and really shocked too. That just seems so fast. Is it really all over? I hope you are being looked after. If you are really interested in testing come on over to this thread where you will find lots of info. Dont feel like you have to rush into anything just yet though. Huge hugs xxx

AandR life can just deal such a shit hand sometimes. I'm also shocked at the suddeness of this happening. Hope you will find some answers in the not too distant future. Hugs to you & yours.

Waves to all newbies, sorry no personal mention, on phone so keeping it short. And of course waves to all regular mentalists

AandR Thinking of you this eve. So sorry to hear you're going through this. x

AandR I'm so sorry to hear that :( :( will you go to A&E? I hope you get the help and support you need and deserve (((hugs)))

AandR I'm so so sorry for you . I don't know your history but there are some basic tests you can ask your gp for - day 2-3 hormone tests (fsh, lh, prolactin, testosterone and various others), thyroid, anti-rubella antibodies, lupus anticoagulant. They may not be able to request them all - you may need to see a consultant for that, but the results will help speed up recurrent mc investigations if that's what you want.

aandr you poor thing - absolutely gutted for you :( This is such crap - can't believe it's happening to you again :( Is your DH at home this weekend? xxxx

aandr woke up thinking about you-how are you doing hun? Xxx

Hi Ladies, Thanks for all your support. We have a scan on Monday and will see if it has all passed. Don't really want to go to a&e and have no temp or pain at the moment so hopefully it will sort itself out. Good luck everyone with your beans. I am sure they are snug and safe and I will sort out what is going on with my body and come join you again later on.

wishing you all the luck and love in the world A&R. Take good care of yourself x

Digi how are you doing? my thoughts are with you x

A&R , I'm so shocked and sorry. I really hope you can join us again down the line. Your last post was so sweet wishing us all luck. Glad you're feeling alright with no pain at the moment. I really hope you recover quickly. Take good care of yourself, these things are so shit you never know when the emotions are going to hit you.

AandR you are so kind to wish everyone well, I'm thinking of you both xxxx

Tunnocks get yourself a book to distract yourself, quick :)

Mummya thanks for the link I managed to get it working, makes a lot of sense and explains a lot of things. A nice work colleague who commented on my shape kindly gave me a run down of what shape she was with hers, so feel a bit more reassured. For now!

Tunnocks me too. I went back to bed for an hour as I was freaking DS out by dry heaving into a bowl all the time. DH has offered to take him to the softplay so I can have a day to myself. Go to sleep, Tunnocks, you can't mental when you're asleep.

I'm sure this one's a girl. I never felt this sick with DS. [Trys to stop thinking of gender, not out of the danger zone yet]

AR thinking you of you lots hon xxx

AandR so sorry for you, thinking of you today

I've got my first app with the gp next weds to have a blood test and see if I can get referred for an early scan. Or can I call the EPU and ask for one?

AandR how is the bleeding? I didnt have natural mc but surely if there is no pain isnt there still hope? I'm really :( for you

A&R so sorry my lovely, hope you are okay and being very well looked after :( :(

hils i have booked a private scan - I don't hold out much hope in my area of an early NHS scan - they didn't want to scan me when I was miscarrying so it's unlikely they'll do it after one mc. I know that all areas differ so good luck at the GP and fingers crossed. Have you made your booking appt with the midwife yet?

Ar gutted for you mate xx
Big hugs to you and those gorgeous gals
Hope they help to get you through xx

Hello Everyone!

I am only 4 weeks (found out today!!) but would really like to join you.

I had a natural miscarriage 31/12/10, (fell again very quickly i know!) and am SUPER scared.

xx

Hi Francesca

Glad you made it over here :)
Super scared is normal here as is constant knicker checking and general mentalling so feel free to join in

Thanks velvetcu - Yes I can feel that lots of knicker checking will be done!!

Not sure how I will cope as the weeks seem so far away!

Francesca Welcome. Lovely to have you here and congratulations on your BFP.... We're all very a bit scared over here so you're in good company :)

Fancy joining our list?

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Saturday's list

Nickster 18+6 EDD 7/8/11 next scan 21/3/11
Orange 14+6 EDD 4/9/11 next scan 20/4
Wombat33 14+0 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 23/3/11
Daisybell 13+4 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 11+5 EDD 24/09/11 next scan 18/3/11
mamapower 10+4 EDD 4/10/11 next scan 24/3/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 10+1 EDD 7/10/11
Emoo 10+1 EDD 7/10/11
Lovemysleep 9+4 EDD 11/10/11
KnitterNotTwitter 8+1 EDD 21/10/11 next scan 18/3/11 and 5/4/11
Onions 7+2 EDD 27/10/11
Velvetcu 7+1 EDD 30/10/11 next scan 18/3
IreneHeron 6+5 EDD 26/10/11
MummyAbroad 6+1 EDD 4/11/11 first scan 16/3
Hils74 5+3 EDD 8/11/11
Haffertee 4+5 EDD 14/11/11

Thinking of.... hairy; ladybee; digi; AandRMum

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Waves to everyone and hope you're all having nice boring weekends.