Feck off with your babydust - The hut of gl/doom, home of inadequate reproduction

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ok, so the hut disappeared so I decided to open a new one. tis a 20's style gin joint!

Warm welcome new ladies!
I get annoyed with all the pregnant people, wouldn't watch graham Norton last week cos of Kate Hudson's bumpness and the Bt ad bloke's lady is up the duffer. Annoys me every time!

bex i know I saw the ad last night a I think i actually snorted when it came on.

happy to be here in good company at least, thermometer ordered, nearly went for 'taking charge of your fertility' book but that thought wait and see what all the tests reveal. If infertility is on the cards then a book like thats no good. Will drag out my zita west book and read all the bits ive never read before as it never applied to me till now! Always handy to have a book to torment yourself with when browsing the internet isnt an option!

Thanks Bex. I can't avoid pregnant people because I already have a son so surrounded by babies and lots of friends are pregnant again with 2nd or 3rd (or 4th actually!)
I just bought a zita west book off ebay. Not sure 'taking charge of your infertility' would have sold so well bossy
It must be frustrating knowing it happened quickly first time for you. I've got a while to go before I match how long DS took, and what if that was a fluke?!

Oh yeah all the mums dropping kids off at nursery and no2 or no3 on the way, I just stand there holding the door open for them all as they wheel their prams in. I did actually ponder the book thinking that it would be easy to sell afterwards!

Oh well got waterloo road on sky+ to watch so will get my Tom Clarkson fix tonight

Another friend just announced their pregnancy despite saying they only wanted one. FFS! I want another one!

DH and I are going to have a month of rekindled romance and not just SWI at the correct moments- it's all got a bit pressured recently!

rekindled romance sounds nice, dare i ask what you might have planned?

I think turning my laptop off occasionally may help! Just generally not taking each other for granted. Can just about remember in the past where we actually did the deed for fun and not to make babies! Perhaps just need to take the pressure off and maybe I won't tell him every detail of my cycle like I normally do
Can only hope that trying something different may do the trick!

i'm not sure i remember how to do it for fun anymore, i think laptops have a lot to answer for!
we're about to redecorate our bedroom as currently its horrendous and hasn't been touched since we moved in. it looks like a cross between something owned by a pensioner but with clothes, washing and a variety of other crap everywhere. its not a sexy place and neither of us like it. i think when we finally change it it will make a huge difference to wanting to spend time in there...

Yeah I'm thinking about updating the bedroom at bit too- how funny. In fact, I'm just trying to think of any project to do to keep my mind off wanting a baby

Just a tip though- black silk sheets and a rotating bed might not be the look you want to go for...

Oh I don't know, it might bring out a new side of my personality

Lucky Mr Ninja!

Ladies, I'm bored and fed up. DH has gone to bed early. AF is about to arrive (not too upset since DH would have been a tad suspicious if I did get a BFP since we haven't DTD since DC3!). I just have that pre-AF aura. G&T anyone?

Yes please, make mine a hendricks and real lemon lemonade, ta.

no way !!!!!!!!! love it

awesome!! ooh yeah let's have it with real lemonade. yum yum!

dp has just put on some seventies 'shaft' style nonsense called black dynamite. it is both dreadful and very funny.

hello!!

hello lissie! are you alright??

meh, feeling a bit crappy this morning. its 4y since my EP and my ribs are hurting, which means that when we see the cons on the 18th he is more likely to tell us there is nothing they can do and to stop.

how are you?

Oh Ninja, you and your DP are getting into the porn star vibe with your 70s boom chicka wa wa music and that classy new bedroom planned!

Sorry I missed the gin invitation. I had one glass of last night then promptly fell asleep. Wild think on a Friday night me!

Lissie sorry you're feeling crappy, is EP ectopic pregnancy?

can I join you?

Feelin a bit isolated in rl and Mn life and loved your thread title.

Have one dd And been trying to conceive no 2 for about 18 m

can I join you?

Feelin a bit isolated in rl and Mn life and loved your thread title.

Have one dd And been trying to conceive no 2 for about 18 months on and off (1 mc last year and after that stopped whilst recovered and did a bunch of inconclusive tests- had 2 mc and a termination due to abnormalities pre dd2). This last year of trying due to age etc so am not necessarily always up for amount of pregnancies and people who seem to conceive effortlessly or banging on about life with a toddler and pregnancy/newborn.

So light relief and like minded chat welcome.

hi hardandsleazy, welcome to the hut, im like you, cant really fit in on other ttc threads.

lol ellangirl, im the same. no stamina anymore yep, ep is ectopic pregnancy. been ttc #2 for 5.5y now, had 12 mc's and an EP. am thoroughly pissed off. and I dont know what CD Im on, because there doesnt seem to be any point taking note any more!