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Charter's Anonymous: Volume 4, hoping our bodies obey the rules!

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MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 16/12/2010 15:14

Brand new shiny thread created (sorry Getdown, I am bored at work Xmas Grin)

Hoping that all of us still waiting get the news we want and soon!!

At least it's almost New Year, new start Smile

OP posts:
MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 13/01/2011 07:25

MrsP any news? You haven't updated for today yet. Am keping fingers crossed :)

OP posts:
MrsP81 · 13/01/2011 07:28

Morning MrsA! I have just updated and my temp has risen again. I decided to POAS and still BFN. Argh!

spilttheteaagain · 13/01/2011 07:34

I reckon you've cracked it MrsP.

I'll have a look later but there are stats on how many DPO people get there BFP at. I think even at 14DPO only about 65% of people get their BFP even though they are pregnant so I wouldn't lose hope.

What was it I was saying about well rested = less nauseous? Had a crap night's sleep, knackered and started the day with violent puking. My insides hurt Sad
Oh the temptation to phone in sick!

MrsP81 · 13/01/2011 07:44

I think you're right spilt, so I hope I'm one of those people. FF is telling me not to test until at least tomorrow.

Go on, do it. One day off sick won't hurt. Smile Sorry you're feeling so awful.

Folicacid · 13/01/2011 08:01

Doris I thought 'take your temerature orally' meant in your ear. [shocked]

Not really. I have been putting the therm in my cheek. I blame sleepiness. Just occured to me one day. When I put it under tongue it temp is higher.

Ho hum.

franjam · 13/01/2011 08:06

Morning all! Quick question about the thermometer.....is it OK to change the battery or will it affect the temps? I'm 8DPO and the BBT is flashing 'Lo'....grrrr....talk about timing!!!

GetDownYouWillFall · 13/01/2011 08:39

Just checking in - Ooooh MrsP those temps are up again! Looking at your last cycle they were definitely on a downward slide by now, so hopefully this time will be the one! Annoying about the BFN, but as others have said it can take a while to show up.

As for me, the sickness seems to have gone Hmm but I accidentally took my temp again today and they are up again - yay! So trying not to read too much into the lack of symptoms.

Sorry you're feeling rough spilt - I think a day off in these circumstances is perfectly justified. Have you told anyone at work??

folicacid Grin re. orally meaning in your ear!! Ha ha ha! But inside your cheek is prob ok if you did it consistently, but agree that under your tongue is better! Grin

franjam not sure re. the changing the battery. My one is from boots at it's sealed. I read in the instructions you can't change the battery so when it dies you just have to get a new one. However, been using mine for over 3 years now and still going strong!!

MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 13/01/2011 09:06

mrsP oh looking good!!! And with DD I didn't get bfp until cd42. Assuming I ov about cd25 or 26 that's 17 or18 dpo. Just depends on how your body reacts. Good luck!

PSML at temping in ear!

No change for me. Cd 14 and no EWCM. Perfectly normal. Could be another week or more yet.

OP posts:
TerrysNo2 · 13/01/2011 09:45

Morning all

franjam what BBT do you have? I have the boots one and it always flashes up "lo" but its nothing to do with the battery, I don't think. Confused

GetDown glad temps are up again, at least you will stop worrying for maybe half an hour! Smile

folicacid yes, under the tongue is best, and I keep my mouth closed whilst heavy breathing through my nose!!

Right my chart stalking feedback:

MrsP go on temps not on test, you are still in the running! Temps are higher than ever on 13DPO!

AuntD your temps are back up again! Maybe the dip was implantation?

Truffkin temps back up and looking good, perhaps an implantation dip today!

Tory temps on the way back up!! When are you going to POAS?!!?!

PS - can I make a request to those who have not already done so, to make the chart stalking easier, on FF can you:

  • go to "My home page"
  • then "Home page settings"
  • then at the very top of the page under "Your Charting Home Page Web Address" can you put your MN ID at the back rather than the code, its much easier then when you are stalking lots of charts!!
Thank you Grin

Stalk over!!

I am very annoyed this am, DS woke up at 5am and I jumped out of bed to go see him and forgot to temp, so took it after 1.5 hours sleep (when he woke again Angry) and it was 36.2 which is too high!! Now my chart is going to be messed up regarding OV which is frustrating! Cervix wasn't really soft today either so don't know if it might happen tomorrow?

Q when you get a +ve OPK do you do another one the next day as well or just stop?

Sorry for loooooong post! Good days all.

TerrysNo2 · 13/01/2011 09:46

Oh gosh, that was long. Blush

Iwish · 13/01/2011 10:53

Flippin eck terrys that was a long post! good stalking skills too :)
I did the opks until they went negative :).

franjam my thermometer says lo every day and has done since I got it so I think it's normal.

mrsp still keeping my fingers crossed for you :) x

getdown glad your temps are back up but now you must hide it from yourself!

mrsa I hope you get your little eggy soon, hope the acupuncture brings OV forward x

Wave to everyone else, I'm at work so doing a little sneaky update hehe.

Well temp went down a bit more this am but FF still sticking with OV on cd10. Will see what happens in the next few days.

digitalgirl · 13/01/2011 12:14

New chart URL here specially for Terry!

Am v confused today. My last period was preceded by no cramping (just a bit of ov-twitching which made me think I'm might be attempting to ov again). Anyway, since Sunday I have had mild cramping, all very normal just after ov. But today is is accompanied by back ache, tiredness, dizziness and irritabililty. Which are all my usual pms symptoms. However, am only 4dpo so shouldn't be feeling like AF will be arriving tomorrow. And temp is dropping. In fact, chart isn't looking too great.
It's also too early for any PG symptoms so I know it's not that. Yet temp is dropping. I'm fearing a very short luteal phase. Next acupuncture appt is next Tuesday, hope it's not too late by then.

I know I know...it's too early to tell which way temps will go.

TerrysNo2 · 13/01/2011 12:43

Lovely, thanks digi. I don't know much about your overall cycle but I would say that the drops aren't significant, and they are still quite near to the peak. Could there be other reasons for the symptoms?

Basically, don't worry yet!

Blardy hell - +ve OPK's are like buses, none for ages then three two at once! When do you reckon I will OV, today or tomorrow??

franjam · 13/01/2011 13:18

Terrys - I bought the BBT from Amazon - it has always flashed 'Lo' after showing the last temp taken when I switch it on, but it's started showing up as soon as I turn it on? I dunno, I'll wing it for the next few days and see what happens lol!!

If you fancy stalking my chart, here it is:

www.fertilityfriend.com/home/franjam

Has that worked?!

Any feedback welcome! As you can imagine I'm symptom spotting left, right and centre!!! As they say in hospital dramas 'The next 48 hours are critical' Grin

GetDownYouWillFall · 13/01/2011 14:51

terrys I seem to ov on the day after the last positive OPK. Good luck!

spilttheteaagain · 13/01/2011 17:23

Thanks GetDown and MrsP but I was very good and toddled off to work. Very glad to be home though now. My boss and colleague know so I don't have to explain my constant tardiness, snacking, white face and toilet lurking.

Excellent stalking terrys. I reckon it's today or tomorrow for you. Enjoy the "hair cutting" Wink

digi your chart has seen sense then and decided it wasn't CD8? How sure are you that you've actually ov'd yet? I'm half wondering if it could still be on the way for you?

weimy · 13/01/2011 17:35

www.fertilityfriend.com/home/weimy

Hi terrys have I done this right? lo at neighbours banging on the ceiling!!!!

Hi all in light of the possible +ve opk yesterday have been SWIing busily! was -ve today but will carry on every other day I think. I am def having some cramps so think that might be a sign of ov possibly or just (TMI) poo pains!

I had to get out of bed before taking my temp as the pup was being sick, should I disregard the temp that I took?

I think this might be a silly question but after SWI does it matter if everything seems to come straight back out/down again?

My thermom flashes lo after it comes on too.

Hope everyone is ok :)

Iwish · 13/01/2011 18:03

weimy try lying with a pillow under your bum after SWI for a while and it will stop it all coming back out, that's what I do anyway.
PMSL at poo pains! I get cramps from OV till af so you could v well have ov'd today but carry on anyway ;)

I just had a v faint line on an opk so hopefully in the next few days I will get a dark line and eventually OV! Woo! Last cycle I got a v light line then a dark line the day after but not as dark as the control line and ov'd the day after that. Hope that happens this time n I should OV Sunday which will be cd17 and FF can't stop telling me I've ov'd on cd10!

weimy · 13/01/2011 18:12

Iwish thats a long time to have cramps for!
That's good news about the opk!

Iwish · 13/01/2011 18:20

I know weimy I never got them till I came off the pill. They aren't like proper af cramps they are a little different. Still not particularly pleasant though.

nickstermum · 13/01/2011 18:47

Mrsp i will be watching with bated breath.....Grin
xx

MrsP81 · 13/01/2011 19:11

Hellooooooo!

Right, I?ve changed my chart web address Terrys, I love how you are giving tips to make stalking easier, it sounds so wrong to anybody that doesn?t know what we?re on about! Here it is.

Franjam, mine says Lo as well. I have no idea what it actually means though.

getdown, glad your temperature went back up today. Maybe you should lock the thermometer away now so that you can have no more accidents. Grin

tory, your temp has gone up today! Do you think you might POAS?

I?m obviously hoping for temps to stay up tomorrow. Don?t think I will POAS anymore just yet though.

Hope everyone else is ok. Smile

tory79 · 13/01/2011 19:24

Terrys thanks for stalking me, it makes me feel warm and fuzzy (and you are more interested than DH is Grin

MrsP wow your chart looks awesome! If you aren't pg I will eat my hat!! I have everything crossed for you!!

Re my chart, I did have a temp rise, but am not sure what to make of it - 1. I woke up at 5 desparate for the loo and 2. In my other cycles I have had temp rises right before af is due. So its a bit hard to know what to think - right now my chart is following the same pattern as all the other months!

FF says to test on saturday, I definitely won't be testing tomorrow, if I get another high temp I might allow myself a moment of excitemen. I am going to hold out til Sunday if I can and if af hasn't arrived by then. I have felt vaguely crampy today so I do think she is probably on her way, stupid witch!!

Tory xx

Pippaandpolly · 13/01/2011 19:34

MrsP this is soooo your month!

tory79 · 13/01/2011 19:45

ps terrys I have changed my chart url for you Grin