TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

maddyd - holding up better than i thought actually. have a few aches and pains though, not holding much hope.
how you doing?

maddyd - holding up better than i thought actually. have a few aches and pains though, not holding much hope.
how you doing?

good luck slinkstah - fingers crossed,

xxx
not sure what happened with my posts

blumin bl**dy flipin bum sharks

BFN

oh well better luck next month

when you due slink?

Mums- Forgive me for being blunt but that's the way i am. Sounds to me as if your dp is making excuses and maybe does'nt want a another child. After my 4th mc, my dp was desperate for another.
As everyone keeps saying, you need to talk to him. Maybe if you talked to him aout it instead of on here (or showed him these messages) it might help?

well have to go uni now - will be back later for a cry

Slink- So sorry hun!!! Here's to next month x

Mumswish - now first of all i will say you asked for our opinions and I am going to try and give you that as honestly as poss. I think you need to ask your DP if he actually wants children. It sounds to me like he might be "stringing" you along a little bit. I might be completely wrong, and i hope i am, but you really must ask him this question and ask him to be 100% honest with you. I have a feeling the holiday and weddignplans might just be a scapegoat.

I really do hope I'm wrong mums, i know how much you want a baby, just like the rest of us do on this thread. But you don't want to end up on your own with a baby.

I hope i haven't been too harsh, but needed to be honest with you

Im fine Diddle, alot better than before. Im lucky i lost it so early this time. Physically its just like a af, emotionally a bit harder but im alot stronger than before. xxx

slinkash???????

Mumswish, you have to talk to him and be open and honest and really decide where you both want to go from here. If hes stalling there has to be a good reason why.

day 22 of 26 day cycle so i guess theres still hope but i really shouldn't kid myself.

*about. God my typing gets worse lol.

So, so sorry slinkie Will have a proper chat later hunXXX

Slinkash Are you late yet though?

Sorry about the BFN Slinks. Maybe it could still be ok. Whens AF Due?

HK - I've spoken to him loads of times. I'm worried if I keep talking to him about it he'll think I'm nagging.

Thanks gals. i think we're gonna have to have a sit-down talk. I'm not gonna let him leave till I get a straight answer out of him. If he doesnt want kids yet, I can deal with that, It'll be hard but at least if I know I know. Instead of doing things like coming off the pill and getting excited only to be told no kids yet.

slink - it is still early days, i never had a bfp before i was due on. stay positive there is always hope until af comes

mumswish - I seriously think you need to have a good chat wiht your fella, he obviously doesn't have a clue what he wants, and to be honest if you need to nag him then do it, you won't get anywhere just giving up when he gets mad at you for asking. Tell him what you want, your plans for the future should ne joint splans especially if you're getting married, which you can discuss with him. give him a nudge, surely he has had chance to ask your dad if he really does want to be married. you don't have to do it right away, if financially you couldn't afford it or wanted a longer engagement you could. I'm good at nagging though, you never get anywhere with a man if you don't, they don't think like us women.
Sit him down and have a good chat, don't let him make excuses.

Thanks for everything girls.

Its prob just me being impatient. I dont know,

Anyway enough of me bugging everyone. Whats everyone got planned for today then?

cleaning tidying playing and painting today, got plenty of energy today for some reason.

Although i am certain i am being haunted my pregnant!!! We went to the jewellers last night and the lady who served us, who we know from going in for our wedding rings last year, if 6 months pregnant and showing off about it. somehow i managed to join in. Then i played my new sims 2 game for my pc and chose a family with 2 kids and my sim mom, was pregnant too, didn't sya that when i chose her, she kept getting bigger and bigger then out popped the baby, so jealous. I want one!!!!

I LOVE the sims! We've got it but I never get to play no more as DP has put LOADS of games on it and now theres not enough space! Getting a new comp soon tho so I can play it on new one and he can play with the old one!! HA HA

I'm going for interview about new house today (we're renting so estate agent gotta check we will pay) Hopefully they'll say yes and give us the keys there and then otherwise I'll be very annoyed. Been waiting 2 weeks now.

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Hi Mygirl

Of course your welcome here, more the merrier. Hope your ttc goes as you want.

Hi MyGirlLollipop, welcome to our group, so sorry to hear of your miscarriage, and congratulations on your dd as well. So your ready to add number 6 to the family, wow you are brave.
You are more than welcome to join us here, we are a great group and i personally have made some wonderful friends. It will be nice to have someone to ask about medical stuff too, think we all get our info from experince or the internet, which is never always right. so welcome and feel free to join in as much as you want.
we also have a stats thread that you can add your details to and read a bit about us too.

heres the link

ttc after miscarriage stats

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