Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 8)

[MummyAbroad]

A safe haven for those just off the mc rollercoaster and thinking about getting back on or are already on the TTC rollercoaster. Be warned these lovely ladies chat, and the thread moves lightening fast, but all are welcome to join in any time

For those who have just mc'd, there is great info about your first cycle here

If you want to add yourself into the stats, just copy and paste the lot, change everyones CD (cycle day) if necessary and add yourself in.
WTF = first cycle after mc
WTTC = waiting to TTC
CD = cycle day
UCL = usual cycle length

dachs ow I am sorry, but I didn't get BFP till 10 days...

Thanks Pff yes I'm on iPhone... def as thick as a short plank!!!!... thanks for link.... Seems to be much easier on the eye!!

Sorry x post dachs it impossible not to test isn't it...fx for good news

belated B-DAY WISHES to all
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i loved the HP movie but the dramatic start was somewhat lessened by the person beside me chewing her popcorn so loudly I am certain Harry himself turned around to stare at one point - now I may lick cakes but I would never do that! You need to know where the line is ....

Dachs arghhh bfns suck. There is no fat lady singing yet though ... collective force of will still in place.

Lol at ff predicting dead Nix - no chance of that lovely lady!

Waves to all

One good thing about the new site is the ability to type more than a box's worth.

Afternoon all,
dachs sorry about the BFN but as you said you are early so FX it will appear in a couple of days. Also happy birthdday !!!!!!!

Well Im ok but feel like wishing my life away which isnt good. Its DD's birthday on thursday and her party next saturday plus loads of stuff needs doing at work next week so I am hoping all that will distract me.

I havent had any more red blood but have had weird orange discharge every now and then and also brown yucky jelly stuff ( sorry [blush )

On the positive side though I DO feel queasy and thats not me imagining it either. My stomach feels weird too, like AF is coming but not. Boobs still ache. Aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I just dont know !!!! So either its stopped growing and is just sitting in there or I am pregnant with all these weird things happening to me !!!

Sigh....I havent the energy to do this again if it goes wrong but DH got quite annoyed when I said that. Thinks we should carry on, but I dont think I want too anymore

I should be 8 weeks tommorrow. But I have NO idea if thats right as at the scan on wednesday there was just a sac and that puts me at about 5 weeks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[[http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1873b3
my fuckingwierd chart today]]

and i havent used the 34.41 temp i got this morning... i put in 35.41 as i didnt dare!!
I thought i would be showing as dead then!!

(heating was on, 3 of us in the big bed since 5am!) the last 2 days have been taken after broken sleep but even so!

Betweener I am so so hoping you havent just got an empty sac my lovely. Your dates must surely be wrong. Is there a strong chance they could be? Yucky brown jelly stuff... i got that after mc so it could be all ok? Its hopeful, especially that you havent had any clots :) stay strong and positive, good you have DS party to focus on xxx (is there no chance of pulling re-scan forward? or paying privately?) If you feel queasy still thats a good sign :)

dachs ((((((((((hugs))))))))))

lolly no MN sadly doesnt have an ap, go in via safari and take it from there! Got it!!

fondant felt like i was sleeping outside! put heating on at 4am, turned thermo down, then woke up to an icebox...wTF? victorian house full of character but also draughts and a whole lot of them! Pink are you taking Bcomplex is that why you have got neon wee? Mine is usually illuminous!

Izz day 15 i think, but lady i bow down to the SWI efforts chicka xx you are on the way to knicking knitters crown - defo!

Its snowing here! Woke up to an inch which meant i had to take DS shopping for big winter boots! Hmm we ended up with thomas wellies and he wont put the big furry boots on, or the slippers! Went to see the big switch on of christmas lights last night, it was very lovely and very festive! happy that i live in a little town that still does things like that... full of little stalls of mince pies and tombolas and santas sleigh.... fabulous! (still not in the mood!) On a plus, i have got some fab christmas bargains off ebay this year, toys etc... v pleased :)... means i dont have to battle in the shops

see you later if i am not yet carked it!

sorry for all those non swearers.... my chart was supposed to show as fucking wierd chart today

try again

[[http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1873b3
CHART TODAY]]

and again.... argh..!

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nicks that is very low...I take it AD's not shown up yet though? Mine generally goes down to about 35.85, having said that i tried taking it after being out in the snow this morning and it was 35.4 which is about what you're getting - have your feet been getting really cold at night? I'm wondering if that's affecting it - as soon as I warmed my feet up after snow incident my temp
shot back up to 36.5. Just a thought x

inbetweener keeping everything crossed for you, lovely. I had early bleeding in all three pgs and it never turned out to be anything (my 3rd pg ended in mmc some time later with no bleeding or symptoms at all). Fx that the lack of more red blood/clots means it's just breakthrough bleeding...

dach fx for you too, are you testing officially tomorrow?

AF not AD, obviously...

izz i didnt have my usual furry dressing gown on, nor pjs on my legs so will do tonight! Maybe i am just a vampire or something!

Nickster cullen.... can i be married to edward?

nicks I slept in furry Shaun the Sheep socks last night - sexy or what?! Acu told me to keep myself warm during lp though...will have to give them up when it gets back to swi time!!!

Edward....mmmmmmm

betweener feeling your pain not quite as bad as yourself but.... Had period like cramps on mon night.... Put it to the back of my mind until tue evening when I got bright red blood nearly died... Was off next day thank god....rang our local epu.....fuckers didn't have an appointment till mon morning, so was on a total state.(don't think I ticked enough boxes) So made some
calls and got a private scan on thurs. everything looked good tiny bean with a beating heart...7/2 weeks excatly my calculations but then I was 100% sure about my dates due to ff & having an af after mmc..... So I'm still spotting & lots going on in my tummy!!! My next scan is on the 6th of dec & I'm currently off until then under advice of consultant.... So I'm keeping my fingers crossed for us both btw did your guy try an internal scan? As I was told this may be necessary if we didn't see anything on scan. It's a pretty weird uncomfortable place to be esp when RL continues all around, trying to stay positive......(not easy!!!) lots of love to you xxx

inbetweener fingers crossed it's just hormonal-as soon as i started bleeding I lost clots and got horrible backache so if you don't have those you've got every reason to be positive.

vampirenix my temp dropped by almost .8 of a degree yesterday just because at 3am I was lying awake worrying about work-I didn't get up or anything and went back to sleep and took temp at normal time but I reckon if that messes up my temp that significantly, getting up and changing the thermo etc will defo mess up your temps. Accessorise have got some lovely bedsocks, maybe you should give them a try? I've got a victorian house too-heating this year is gonna cos a fortune I reckon!!!

Wave to all, I'm off for a decadent afternoon nap then off to m&s on a sexy undie mission to try and entice dh before he goes away for a few days...

urban sounds like you've been having a tough time too - so glad your scan was a good one . Fx for another good one on December 6th x

dachs sorry about bfn, have everythin crossed it's just too soon xx

lolly crossed posts, sorry you're having a hard time, everything crossed for you too hun xx

Forgot to say I also have some brownish snot.... He said not to worry so much about this..... old blood..... stuff body hadn't got rid of yet esp since mmc not so long ago. Very relevent to you I think.... Btw he's one to top ob's in my area Fx he knows
his shit he was a lovely man

Thanks girls trying to stay positive even got some nausea A new experience but don't mind a bit!!! Dh thinks it's hilarious as I smugly told doc on thurs I don't get morning sickness!!!!!
Hope your all keeping as cosey as possible currently
on sofa wrapped in ds "bob" blanket. Big hugs((((()))))

lolly (((((((()))))))))) fantastic heartbeat..... it never rains but it pours does it?!?! Thinking of you lovely and hoping little snug bean burrows in deeply and settles down x at bob blanket, we are toy story!

Izz sheep socks huh thats now how i know you convince DH to twice a day... its the socks... bet you leave them on.... BAAAAAA!!

pink draughty or what huh? love my house and we have insulation issues in the loft ect but having cavity wall ins last year made a huge diff plus also switching elec/gas provider to OVO slashed our bills in half. (high gas low elec user) also had new windows in the front but the back are shot and our bedroom is in the back - hence BALTIC!... hence DEAD temps! Didnt get up to adjust the thermo lovely, had to get up twice to DS (downside to potty training!)

God, it's all going on here isn't it? So sorry urban and inbetweener that you've got so much to think about.

inbetweener Nothings definite until that second scan. You may well have ov'd at a wierd time, especially cos of the mc. Hugs for you.

nix I'm loving the charts. I want to show you mine, but seeing as i'm pre-ov nothing very interesting is there! Except for some bizarrely high temps on days 2 and 4, which i attribute to sleeping horrifically and having ds up at least 4 times in the night..

How is everyone? hope you had a good bday dachs.

*gonna do catch up with a lovely friend whos been travelling for the last 11 months tonight, and she's staying tomorrow. I just cannot wait!

Wagner out!
x

ok you have started something here now baubles!

now what can my christmas name be?

have a wonderful night baublebabe!