TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

OK. will speak to you later. Oh, and thanks Diddle re. email you didn't make me leave earlier, I was just finding it hard to see through torents of tears and couldn't see what I was typing.

Talk later xx

Oh, and BTW everyone, I'm SOOOO sorry for starting this thread off on such a low note. But things can only get batter from here and that means LOTS OF BFPs - WOO-HOO!!

No worries CH, you keep us all talking, it's a good thing.

Shame about the parade and fireworks diddle, that was may favorite bit....but then I'm a big scaredy girly girl when it comes to rides, so I just like the fluffy mouse and princess stuff

Might pop back after dinner to see if you're all a chatin'

Coathanger - stop apologising, we are here to listen, you can say what you want, when you want. This thread (like us) has its ups and downs too, don't add us to your worry list, we're fine, happy to be a support to you.

(((((((((((CH))))))))))))

Its still early days for you only being 4 weeks so you will still feel very raw.I totally sympathise with your situation.When we lost Philippa my husband,family and friends said thats it know.No more.Inside I was screaming NOOOOOOOOO I just wanted to be pregnant again,instantly.

We had a heart to heart,which I dreaded as I thought he was dead against the idea but he said ok.He just said he was trying to protect me from any more hurt (his friends later told me this)I just think that after the funeral it took time for him to realise that yes, he wanted another child.But I will be honest.I would not have given up on the idea even if he did,he would have had to come round.That may sound very selfish but the need for another child is so strong.Also my dh is the kind of bloke that you have nudge along.If I didnt, I would not be his wife and we would not have dd!!He was a confirmed batchelor but now hes as happy as larry (just who is larry???!)

Maddy,yes I am in the bd marathon too!!Thought dh was going to peg out on me this morning.Not using ov kits just hoping that everything is back to normal and going off old fertile times..

How was Disney Diddle? Loved the Areosmith rollercoater.I could not believe how fast it was!!
We were still queueing when it went Whhhoooosshhhhh past us!!It was too late to chicken out!!

Hope this thread gives us all the bfps we so deserve!!

xxx

I'm here! DH has gone to work so I can type at will!

I must have painted such a horrible picture of my DH. He isn't the big ogre I made him out to be, he really is a wonderful man. Kind, considerate, loving, thoughtful and all the other attributes of a good husband and father. Thats what makes all this so hard. I can't lose him and I will do anything to make him happy...but I want to be happy too.

Anyway, I have aired my feeling s for long enough now and will try to be a good strong coathanger for you all again (non of that cheap wire rubbish!)

How are you all this evening? Phew isn't it warm...

Okay. I'm off to bed now.

Night night all! love ya! sweet dreams

coathanger - have you gone?? sorry i'm late my Grandad has been taken to hospital again, with a chest and urine infection and also thrush in his mouth, poor thing he's knackered and is very weak, but hopefully will start to improve now.
Hope you're ok

Chocolatepeanut - Disney was great, had a fantastic time. Its amazing how fast you go isn't it. I love aerosmith music anyway, so to have it blasting in your ears when you're flying round the track is great. It was lovely to be walking down main street and hear the magical music. we were such big kids.

Morning!

Diddle - I'm really sorry to hear your grandad has been admitted. I hope he is okay and makes a full recovery.

Thank you all for all the love and support you gave me yesterday. It was nice to be able to talk so freely, and it definately helped. I'm feeling a little better today so I will try and be a bitmore positive an dbe more like my old self. Thanks again - I owe you all...

Awwww and after all I said about my DH, he text me from work last night to tell me he's taking me out on Saturday night - film and a meal. Awww I love him..

coathanger - bless your DH, its great that you're having some quality time.

Morning All!
CH - Sorry i had to rush off yesterday when we were in mid conversation, we had to reboot the server at work so cudn't get back online!
Glad you are feeling a bit brighter today! {{{HUGS}}}
Diddle - How are you this morning hun? Did you have a good evening?
CP, Strike - Hope your well today? And everyone else comming on today!
I'm feeling better than i was yesterday, am in quite a good mood actually! Think it's cos it's friday and am off out tonight so can enjoy myslef a bit, have a bit of a dance and a giggle!
Hope everyone has a fab day! xxx

Have a feeling that i may just have to start talking to myself!

No you wont Lottie, they'll be here soon!

....But why are they not here now?

Ok, so they may be ignoring you!

....Oh no no no, they wouldn't do that!

They might think you're a bit wierd!

....No, they'll all lovely on here!

soppy woman, go do some work for a change!

....Point taken if i'm sat here waffling on to myself. Need to evalute how addicted i am to MN

Lottie, walks away shaking her head, questionning her life!

Hi LL - Don't apologise about going yesterday. I know you're very busy at work but it was lovely to speak to yesterday. I feel a bit bad though,because you said you were low yesterday and I got so wrapped up in my own problems I didn't offer any help back. Well, I'm here today so talk away if you want to...

Strike1 - Has Af arrived yet? My fingers legs and eyes are stll crossed (getting painful now...) for you, not giving up hope til AF pops in.

Oh no don't start that!!! Talking to yourself and all ... i'm here now!!!

CH - No no dont feel bad, i was just glad that you felt able to let your feeling out on here! It's the best way rather than bottling it all up hun. Remember if you ever feel like that again then we are all here for you!
I'm feeling quite good today ( well am at the moment, but thanks for the offer of your ear, well eyes actually but hey! Oh dear, am waffling again!
Did anyone see that giraffe just fly past the window, it was in a helicopter!

Phew, glad someone is here now! Was about to start a full blown convo! Hee Hee

I am actually feeling in quite a loopy mood today! I went to my mums last night, had a good cry and some TLC! Feel so much better and like a weight has been lifted! Which means i'm afraid that your all in for a bit of loopy lottie today!

Oh dear! I do hope MN isn't being monitored for fruit loops today coz we'll be wheel away in straight jackets!!

Just got my Special K body fat analyser in the post! Says my body fat percentage is 28% -WOW!! Thats in the healthy bracket!! O yes! I'm not fat!!! That has made my day!!

I can only pop on as best times for me is after 7 when you are usually all gone!!

Didnt think dh was an ogre ch Glad your feeling more upbeat today and lucky you out for a romantic dinner

Diddle,hope your grandad is feeling better soon xx

So you will be dancing around your handbag tonight LL!!If your anything like me (who never gets out)you will be dancing on tables by 8.30!!!!!

DH off to Skegness in morning taking elderly parenst to caravan park.Wont be back till early Mon.So got to get all the BDing in now..........

Bye!!

Do you think MN will provide us with nice little carts to be wheeled away in! I already have one of those nice white jackets with the brown leather straps so thats ok... they only thing is tho they do hurt my arms a little which may cause a problem! And well, when you have an itchy nose, it's a right pain in the butt!

Tra la la la la

Do ah didi didi dum didi do!

Yay for you with your Body fat thingy, sounds good! How on earth does that work then?

Whatcha loopy girls! I love you two, you just a "little" bit crazy.

No AF this morning, but dreamt about about her arrival, don't if that is a good thing cause when ever I dream I'm pg it turns out I'm not, so maybe this time......Gonna try and not test till Monday ....Hmmmmm right

hey CP, nice to see your nutty head )har har har i make me laugh....sigh) pop round the corner!

I think i will be dancing round my handbag, on the tables, on the bar, perhaps on the floor but haven't quite made my mind up yet! lol! Oh must stop laughing! Will be a good night!

Have a nice day CP, may catch you later if u pop back in! xx

???????? Not very good at physics and all that! You have to enter all your details into it , height weight age etc and then you hold it with your thumbs on these 2 little pads and , HEY PRESTO!, it tells you how much of your body is fat, or something like that. For my age, height and weight my percentage should be between 21% and 33% - so mines pretty good.

You really are mad, LL aren't you. Can tell I'll have fun with you!!

Strike! Moring hun! Well if you cant be a little bit crazy (lottie says as she has a twitchin her neck, lol) then it wud be boring! I'm amusing myself if no-one else! It's those little blue and pink tablets i keep forgetting to take!! Diddle knows the ones!

How on earth your going to wait to test till monday? wow, thats will power! (who invented the saying will power? Guessing it was named after some guy who invented somet to do with power and his name must of been bob) But i think thats wise! Oh i do hope you will be our first for this thread hun! Like CH - i have everything crossed for you! Well i only have my legs crossed at the mo as i need the loo! Ooops! hee hee