TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

Which one MAddy?

Thanx for thinking of me everyone on this thread,its really lovely to have all your support.Yeah,playing the waiting game is a nightmare,i'm going to have to dig deep down for alittle bit of hope and strenght for the week to come.Its my 25th birthday this sat coming aswell,(just to add to EVERYTHING!!)So its either going to be a really happy or a really sad one
I hope everyone on this thread is doing ok,forgive me for my absence,i will keep coming over every now and then to check up on everyone.x
Lets hope i don't have to come and join you again(in the nicest possible way.x)

coathanger - good to see you're stil with us, sounds like you had a lovely evening, i bet it was strange not to have the kids there this morning.

Maddyd - which dress???? lucky you being a size 8.

Hellkat - movie update - boogeyman was weird, scary at first, but then went very strange and unrealistic.
Red Eye, not scary bit more of a thriller, very very good, i loved it, we've just got back. Lots of ironing to do today, so i'm going to catch up.
Also need to check what kids i've got coming tomorrow, need to get back into the swing of things.

Ch- Welcome back hun!!! Missed you yesterday! Had taken to telling jokes lol. Ta for holding my hand when I test and yes I will wash after!
Shelly- Great to see you hun! {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} we'll all be thinking of you this week week and especially Friday.
I'm either going to test Thursday or Saturday so that Friday it can be Shelly's day, good or bad! Here's hoping there'll be some positive news (in more ways than one) for all.
x

week week wtf? lol. Bloody typos

Diddle- Hmm might give that a miss then. Glad Red Eye was good. I want to see Devils Rejects when it comes out on dvd. The guy that wrote it is one of my fav singers (who dabbles in filmaking). We're dithering as whether or not to book Creep on Sky box office. looks ok.

maddyd,size 8?! Lucky bugger!!!

I got married 18mths ago and we had dd baptised same day.I had to wait to get permission from church to remarry hence delay.I wore a BHS dress in Bronze taffetta.Looked rather nice,my dh was expecting me druss to wear something quite ordinary so was v suprised.In fact when I got to the alter he gasped!!

Maddy- Great site. I've been looking there for mine too and nice to know they have a good range of size 8's (was easier to find stuff when I was a size 12).
Off to get babba ready for bed. Poor little man only slept for 3/4 hr today!
Talk to you tomorrow.
xxxxxxxxx

Hellkat - creep is good, we liked it, no really, really scary, bit gruesome. hope you see this before you book it then you can decide.

Where have you all gone??? very quiet today, must be all making the most of this day of rest and spending it in bed hopefully not sleeping. Hope they're not too many "john waynes" on here tomorrow

Just going to watch Footprints in the snow, on ITV, looks good.

Morning all,

Back to work today, up nice and early, first kiddy wink comes in 10 mins. i'm knackered already.

Morning All.

Sory chaps the Jessicca Mcintlock one. £150.00

Shelly Honey how are you doing?

Morning ladies

Well all I can say is 'Get off your horse and drink your milk' (Think that is a cowboy saying-)

Lovely dress maddyd-gosh-ist is sooooooooooo exciting for you. ((xx))

Have decided if I don't fall PG this month I am going to attempt temping so checking thermometers out. Have one I use on DD-will this be OK?

Am waiting for the window men to come and finish spraying my window plastics white again-v. bad batch of plastic which has gone pink so they are doing it free of charge thank goodness!

Hope you all have a lovely day. Back later.

(((xxx)))

Ahhh, Maddy, it is beautiful. Thats the one I liked best! Gorgeous!! And a size 8!!!! WOW-WEE!!!

Sorry wasn't on much again yesterday. I've had a busy weekend. I played in a all ladies poker tournament last night at the casino (yes, I know...) and I came 2nd!!!!!! out of 24 women. I've only been playing since new year, and only with a group of friends. I've never played with anyone else. Some of the women have been playing years are seemed much better than me, but I did really well, if I do say so myself. Do any of you play?

I probably won't be on much til this evening, going to look for a new car today. I know it sounds wierd, but it will be quite hard coz we should be looking for a big people carrier, but will just be looking at 5 seaters now.

I would have been having my 12 week scan today, so feeling a bit odd today. Not tearful, surprisingly, but a bit wierd.

I hope you are all well and happy today.

xxxx

Maddyd - its beautiful, will look lovely.

Coathanger - tough day for you, hope you'll be ok. milestones like this are horrible, keep smiling and think positive thoughts. Hope you get a great car, maybe you could get a zafira, then if you do ever the need the extra seats they're there, but its not like a big big people carrier.

Back to school this morning after my week off. one of the parents who was due 2 weeks before me was there with her newborn, i couldn't look, soooo jealous. Plus one of the kids i look after her mom is showing now, its not fair.

Morning all. Maddyd where's this dress! It sounds fantastic.

Hope everyone's well today, hang in there CH you'll get through it I know that wierd feeling I felt it all over my anniversary weekend. I remember when I told my mum we had booked to go to Florence for the weekend I was still pg and she said it would be great because Italians love pg women, I might even have been just showing then, I walked around all weekend thinking about that and staring at other pg women

Well another bfn (last night, I'm useless at waiting) cd 38 today. Did you talk to your doctors, Diddle or LL? Or did you wait till your cycle had gone beyond 35 days for a couple of cylces? I couldn't sleep last night cause I had this dull ache right down in my pelvis, but still no af

strike1 - i didn't talk to the doctors at all about my late cycles. I ahve had 2 in a row now, just waited for AF, then tried again. I wonder if i am ov later than i though and have not been bd at the right time, so we're not staopping bd this month. every other day till AF comes.

How long is your normal cycle strike?

Morning all.

Maddyd - dress looks gorgeous. how exciting!

Strike - am also rubbish at waiting ... I've tested a whole 3 - yes 3 - times this month and am only on CD 28. But in my defense, af usually arrives CD 26/7. Anyway, all have been bfn. What a waste of money. Just waiting for af to arrive now but wish it would hurry up as have only got a small window of bd-ing this month due to stupid amount of business travel. I know some people get bfn but are actually pg but I've always got a bfp before so am 99.9% sure I'm not.

Hey ho.

So sad to hear about shelly. Just left her a msg on her thread. Got my fingers crossed things will work out ok.

No regular cycle at all really. It never really settled down after coming off the pill last Xmas before I got pg. After the mc I had one 32 days cycle and then the last one was 35. I worked to the 35 days to predicted ov this month, but was fairly liberal with the bding I just wonder if I'm ovulating at all? Got loads of af symptoms, but I've had those for over a week!

Sorry to rant on.

strike1 - you're not ranting. If only we knew what was happening to our bodies. I think its is quite normal to have abnormal cycles after a m/c, our bodies are regulating and it takes time. I'm sure there is nothing wrong strike, keep that bd just in case.

hi girls,just popped over to check your messages,they cheer me up.x
Mads:what have i missed,your getting married,thats fantastic!!!!!SOOO sorry i missed that.xA last min wedding sounds magical and soo exciting,we did the last min thing when we discovered i was preg with Rhys,i couldn't have imagined or wished for a more perfect day.....sending all my best wishes to you that your day is equally perfect.x.x.x(the dress is gorgeous by the way,perfect from all angles!!...the back is particulay lovely huh!?)
Whens the special day?

Hi shelly - how you doing?? hope you're keeping busy and not getting too addicted to mumsnet, i can't keep away from it

Hi Shelly, Hope you well and trying to relax this week. Let us know how your doing.

i don't want to burden you all with my problems,but basically i'm not doing so well.
Like to come over to here and read all your messages to cheer me up abit...thanx for asking after me.x.x

right then, shelly, nice cheerful messages for you now then, i'll try and find some funny jokes to make you smile.